01/23/2026
This is so important.
I work with children and families involved with DCF and the foster care agency(s) (including foster families) and often the “system” causes more trauma and harm because when there is an issue, the courts leave it to the discretion of the agency (who has financial incentives that are attached to “outcomes”).
DCF is the monitoring agency but they don’t question the agency(s) that make decisions that affect children greatly.
Office of the Advocate refers you back to the agency(s) for solutions.
Our abuse hotline system refers to the agency(s) to “investigate” abuse (but they have no investigators).
The agency(s) are staffed by many uneducated, unlicensed staff because those with ethics refuse to work for the “system” so our Governor allows unlicensed staff to be “supervised” by “no one really knows who is supervising” and then it gets “no response at all”.
Thousands of emails with significant, important questions that the “officials” who are supposed to be protecting our children just fail to respond.
Did you know, in the hundreds of cases I have worked, not one abusive, neglectful parent has been prosecuted for the harm they have caused. Our system often gives the child back to the perpetrator because “they cooperate” or “there is a loophole”.
We don’t have a “system”. We have no accountability, poor decision making, powerful staff people (with ego issues), no consequences to anyone but the child ~ a s**t show that uses our tax dollars to cause harm to almost anyone who has the audacity to advocate for a child (their safety, mental health, or rights).
If you don’t believe me, ask, “Can the children see Sandra Main?” and watch heads spin, threats start flying: “If you use her”:
•we will move the children,
•cause your life to become a special kind of Hell,
•act as if you are not good for the children,
•refuse to allow her reports or testimony,
•refuse to answer emails,
•fast track kids home without due process,
•and so much more.
Here’s the part they forget to tell parents, foster parents, children in care:
•you have rights,
•you can choose any Medicaid licensed provider to provide therapy services,
•you can fight the broken “system”
•you deserve advocacy, support and education on how to heal,
•you can demand due process
•Sandra holds them to standards, fights for the child’s voice to be heard, does the hard work and cares about solutions, healing and recovery.
If you are a parent, foster parent or child who would like services with Sandra, call our office and we will begin the paperwork process and fight the resistance for you.
If you have ever been told that you can’t use Sandra Main for services, let me know your story and I will fight for your right to choose. Email me directly so you can avoid the backlash from the agency(s). Call our office and request a call from me.
possibilityjunction@gmail.com
(620) 308-5115
