10/02/2025
**Dear Men, close your eyes and imagine you have a daughter.
Imagine she is dating a guy just like you.
Did you smile?
If no, then change.**
This is one of the simplest but most powerful ways to measure the kind of man you are. It cuts through the excuses, the justifications, and the blind spots, because it forces you to see yourself not from your own perspective, but from the eyes of someone you deeply love. If the thought of your daughter being treated the way you treat women makes you uneasy, angry, or ashamed, that is your wake-up call.
Would you want your daughter with someone who dismisses her feelings, who calls her “too emotional” instead of listening? Would you want her with someone who cheats, lies, or plays games with her trust? Would you want her with someone who belittles her dreams, mocks her insecurities, or uses anger as control? Probably not. You’d want her with a man who respects her boundaries, celebrates her wins, holds her through her struggles, and makes her feel safe. You’d want her with someone who sees her not as an extension of his ego, but as a partner worth honoring.
So why should the women in your life deserve any less? Why should your partner, your girlfriend, or your wife have to tolerate treatment you would never accept for your own daughter?
The truth is, real masculinity isn’t about dominance, pride, or control. It’s about accountability, growth, and integrity. It’s about being the kind of man you’d trust with the people you love most. And if you realize you’re falling short of that, it’s not the end of the story—it’s the beginning of change.
Be the man who would make your daughter proud, the man you’d want her to look up to, the man you’d want her to marry. Because the way you love women doesn’t just affect your relationships—it creates a legacy. And the legacy you leave should be one of respect, kindness, and strength, not regret.
So ask yourself again: *Would I want my daughter with a man like me?*
If the answer is no, then it’s time to grow.