11/19/2025
Posting because I love opportunities to be out of my home office and out in the wild. Especially when I get to play dress up and spend time with other badass business babes 🎀
I’m here to also celebrate Nisha Blackwell of for making the lavallière I’m wearing (also called a p***y bow, LOVE THAT). I love all the compliments I get when wearing it. It makes up for all the days I’m working at home wearing cozy pants and sticky socks.
Other notable mentions, because a lot of my wardrobe comes from supporting smaller businesses 🫶🏽:
Velvet dress from
Socks from
And now for the s*x therapy part of the post, because this isn’t supposed to be just a OOTD 😅:
At an event hosted today by , I heard similar shared stories about ways our relationships can impact our careers by holding us back or slowing us down. It’s hard to fully compartmentalize different parts of our self.
❣️ I think about ways an argument about s*x can keep us up longer than intended. The next day we’re tired, more emotionally volatile, and anxious.
❣️ Or how having s*x that leaves us feeling empty and used can affect the way we carry ourselves.
❣️ Maybe the shame around who we are s*xual people makes it feel impossible to open up and be in a relationship, so we’re chronically lonely. Our self-esteem is compromised. The loneliness becomes distracting. The choices we make to avoid the feeling of loneliness becomes a problem. Now our work quality is affected too.
❣️ And let’s not forget how gut wrenching a breakup could be. The grief of its end. The ripping apart of the shared life you once had. It’s so all encompassing it’s hard to focus on much else.
I say “our” because I’ve experienced all these examples in different capacities, too. I think many of us have. Focusing on our s*xual health may not seem like a priority, but poor s*xual health will show up. It usually finds a way. And of course, positive s*xual health can do the complete opposite — giving us more confidence and helping us radiate joyful energy that we can feel and others can see ✨
So I ask you, dear readers, how does your s*xual health show up in your careers?
