12/25/2025
The holidays can be joyful đđŁđ they can also be loud, busy, unpredictable, and overwhelming.
For kids, that combination often shows up as big feelings and meltdowns.
When we shift from asking, âHow do I stop this behavior?â
to asking, âWhat does their nervous system need right now?â
everything changes.
Co-regulation doesnât require perfection.
It asks for presence, softness, and repair, even when the season feels like a lot.
If the holidays feel hard for your child (and for you), it doesnât mean youâre doing anything wrong.
Their nervous system (and maybe yours) is responding to a very demanding world.
Save this guide for the moments when everyoneâs capacity is stretched a little thin.