Michelle Scharlop, LMFT, Relationship Expert

Michelle Scharlop, LMFT, Relationship Expert Michelle Scharlop, LMFT specializes in marriage counseling, couples therapy, relationship therapy. I am an experienced Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

I work collaboratively with my clients to utilize their strengths to cope with their current situations and meet their needs. I will help facilitate change by listening to everyone in the therapy room and gaining an understanding of all perspectives. We will have meaningful conversations that restore broken connections and rebuilds communication. My innovative approach is positive and encouraging, compassionate and respectful, warm with a gentle sense of humor. In this safe, confidential, nonjudgmental environment we can uncover and reshape unhealthy patterns. Together we can embark on an empowering journey to find a happier you.

When you and your spouse look in the mirror, what do you see? Is it a couple filled with love, hope, and shared dreams? ...
04/10/2026

When you and your spouse look in the mirror, what do you see? Is it a couple filled with love, hope, and shared dreams? Or a couple trapped in a relationship where you’re walking on eggshells, struggling to communicate, and feeling unheard, unseen, and disconnected?

Most couples don’t fall apart overnight. Disconnection happens slowly, through missed conversations, unresolved tension, and emotional distance that builds over time.

Here’s the hopeful news: what’s been drifting apart can be rebuilt, with the right tools, guidance, and intention. You don’t have to stay stuck in the same patterns. If you’re ready to feel heard, reconnect, and strengthen your marriage, I’m here to help. Contact me today and let’s start working toward the relationship you both deserve.

All types of communication in marriage are vital. Is your spouse the person you share your daily good moments as well as...
04/09/2026

All types of communication in marriage are vital. Is your spouse the person you share your daily good moments as well as the bad ones? Do you talk about your day with your spouse? Do you ask about your spouse’s day with genuine interest? Sharing your daily life as well as your thoughts and feelings is one way to deepen your connection with your spouse.

Eye contact is powerful in any relationship, especially a romantic one. Your eyes convey the message, I’m listening, I w...
04/08/2026

Eye contact is powerful in any relationship, especially a romantic one. Your eyes convey the message, I’m listening, I want to hear you. It lets your partner know that what they are saying matters. It shows a sense of emotional engagement.

When was the last time you gazed lovingly into your spouse’s eyes? Is the romance in your marriage still alive or does i...
04/07/2026

When was the last time you gazed lovingly into your spouse’s eyes? Is the romance in your marriage still alive or does it need to be rediscovered? Do you and your spouse have the commitment to the relationship and each other to take the next step to help with that rediscovery? And do you know what the next step is? If you need help, that is where I come in as an experienced Marriage Therapist in Florida with the skills and expertise to help you rediscover , and .
Hi, I’m Michelle Scharlop, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Your Relationship Expert in Florida. I Transform Relationships, one relationship at a time.
If you live in Florida and you are experiencing relationship struggles, call me, I can help.

As a Marriage Therapist in Florida, I hear from married couples that life gets busy and hectic, leaving little time for ...
04/06/2026

As a Marriage Therapist in Florida, I hear from married couples that life gets busy and hectic, leaving little time for fun. As a married mom, I understand how the daily grind takes over and leaves little time for anything else. As a relationship expert, I want to remind you that there is a lot of power in having fun. Sharing laughter with your spouse will make you both feel good.
Laughter and playfulness can build connection and lessen tension in some circumstances. It is also a good reminder of why we chose our spouse in the first place.
Even though life is busy, bring some joy into your relationship by being silly and having fun with your spouse.

Affection, where does it fit into your marriage? Giving and receiving affection is an important part of a relationship f...
04/03/2026

Affection, where does it fit into your marriage? Giving and receiving affection is an important part of a relationship for many couples. What is affection to you and do you feel like you get the affection you desire in your marriage? What is affection for your spouse and does your spouse feel like they get enough affection in your marriage? How is affection received by each spouse? Is it received with happy acceptance or disconnected resistance? Evaluate your answers. Are you happy with the level of affection in your marriage? If you are, wonderful. If you are not and you want some communication tools so you can talk about affection and a variety of other topics with your spouse, call me, I can help.

Teamwork in marriage is one of the elements that can make your relationship successful. When you work as a team, it help...
04/02/2026

Teamwork in marriage is one of the elements that can make your relationship successful. When you work as a team, it helps to create unity, togetherness and a bond that is special. That bond can get stronger when you and your spouse work towards a common goal. Whether that goal is parenting, daily tasks, household responsibilities, family decisions, finances, future planning, or something else. Working as a team is one way to help you stay connected and in sync with each other. For the benefits of teamwork in marriage and for tips on how to create teamwork in marriage, visit the link in the comments and read the blog.

Have you ever had a conversation with your spouse that all of sudden went sideways? If you answered yes, you are not alo...
04/01/2026

Have you ever had a conversation with your spouse that all of sudden went sideways? If you answered yes, you are not alone.
Miscommunication happens, even in the best relationships. What matters is how you handle it.
Here are two ways to improve
communication so a miscommunication will not take over the conversation.
1- Pause and reflect- Take a moment and ask yourself if you are assuming your spouse’s intent. Misunderstandings come from misinterpretations.
2- Clarify, Don’t assume- Instead of jumping to conclusions, say, “I heard you say_ _ is
that what you meant?”
Healthy communication takes practice. If both partners are willing to be open to make some small changes, growth will happen. If you need more tools and guidance, call me, l can help. I Transform Relationships, one relationship at a time and yours can be next.

Hobbies for married couples can have many marital benefits.1. Quality Time2. Enhancing Communication and Problem-Solving...
03/27/2026

Hobbies for married couples can have many marital benefits.
1. Quality Time
2. Enhancing Communication and Problem-Solving Skills
3. Stress Reducing
4. Collaborating as a Team
5. Rekindling Passion and Romance
If you want more information on the benefits of hobbies for married couples as well as some hobby ideas, click in the comments for the link to the blog, Benefits of Hobbies for Married Couples.

Loneliness in Marriage Might Feel Like...*Being unseen, invisible in your marriage*Unappreciated and taken for granted*A...
03/26/2026

Loneliness in Marriage Might Feel Like...
*Being unseen, invisible in your marriage
*Unappreciated and taken for granted
*An afterthought, not a priority
*You are living parallel lives
*Conversations stay surface level (kids, bills, “business of the day” conversations)
*Being hesitant to share your deeper thoughts or feelings
*Disappointed after spending time together because you were hoping to feel connected and that didn’t happen
*Missing what you used have as a couple while wondering what happened and what should you do

If you feel lonely in your marriage, read the blog found in the comments, Lonely in Marriage, for some tips on what you and your spouse can do to reconnect.

Growth in marriage isn’t automatic, it’s intentional. Having a spouse to grow with means choosing each other not just in...
03/25/2026

Growth in marriage isn’t automatic, it’s intentional. Having a spouse to grow with means choosing each other not just in the easy seasons, but in the moments that stretch you, challenge you and invite you to become better together. It’s about building a relationship where love isn’t just felt, it’s practiced.

Tips on building this type of marriage

• Communicating openly, even when it’s uncomfortable
• Supporting each other’s individual growth without feeling threatened by it
• Facing challenges as a team instead of opponents
• Taking accountability and being willing to repair after conflict
• Keeping connection a priority, even in busy or stressful seasons
• Choosing love daily, not just when it feels easy

Marriage isn’t about finding someone perfect. It’s about committing to grow, evolve and overcome life’s challenges side by side. If you feel stuck, disconnected or unsure how to grow together, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Contact me today. I Transform Relationships, one relationship at a time and yours can be next.

“What you allow is what will continue. Now is the time to make the changes.Marriage counseling will give you and your sp...
03/23/2026

“What you allow is what will continue. Now is the time to make the changes.
Marriage counseling will give you and your spouse the tools to break the negative patterns in your marriage.” That is something that I say and truly believe.

Hi, I am Michelle Scharlop, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Florida
& Your Relationship Expert. I Transform Relationships, one relationship at a time and yours can be next. Contact me today to find out how my couples counseling services will transform your relationship.

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Plantation, FL
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