11/29/2025
Your nervous system has its own language, and most women are never taught how to understand it.
Ventral vagal, sympathetic, dorsal.
Three states that shape how you think feel react and cope.
Three states that often get mislabeled as personality flaws instead of what they truly are... Survival patterns.
Here's the truth I wish someone had explained to me years ago:
You are not dramatic
You are not lazy
You are not inconsistent
You are not too emotional
You are not failing
You are cycling through states your body learned to use in order to keep you safe.
When you begin to recognize which state you are in, everything shifts.
You start to respond instead of collapse.
You begin to soothe instead of spiral.
You build compassion instead of shame.
Understanding your own nervous system is the beginning of self trust.
Save this set because these three states show up in daily life more than you realize.And if you want me to break down how herbs and simple daily rituals can support each one.Tell me in the comments. I will happily create more content for you.
You deserve a life that feels steady, not survival based.