04/25/2026
If your feelings switch fast, you’re not “too much.”
Sometimes your brain is trying to protect you from overwhelm by going all-or-nothing.
It can look like:
“I love them” → “I’m done”
“They care” → “They don’t care at all”
That’s called splitting—and it’s more about emotional intensity than manipulation.
The good news?
There are real skills that can help you slow it down and respond differently.
You don’t have to keep repeating the same patterns.
Follow the DBT Center for Trauma and Healing to learn more 💛