01/24/2026
This week at The DBT Center for Trauma and Healing-The funeral of broken dreams is about honoring an unfulfilled childhood hope — the life, role, or version of ourselves we once imagined. Maybe you wanted to be something specific. Maybe you hoped for a different family, a safer childhood, or a future that felt certain. Letting go of that dream can bring sadness, anger, and even shame — and all of those feelings make sense.
In DBT, we learn that pain doesn’t need to be avoided or rushed away. Skills like radical acceptance help us gently acknowledge what is, while emotion regulation and mindfulness teach us how to sit with grief without letting it define us. You don’t have to erase the dream to move forward — you can honor it, thank it, and make space for something new to grow.
Healing doesn’t mean giving up hope.
Sometimes it means choosing a different kind of hope. 🌱