10/15/2024
We will miss you Karen you are an herbal legend in our community ๐! Thank you for all the laughs love and education that you shared through your life! ๐๐ฆ๐ค๐๐ฝ
From Aphrodite Bellochio and Yeshe Matthews -
A Celebration of Karen's life will take place at Unitarian Universalist Congregation Santa Rosa on November 2at 2 p.m. All are welcome. in lieu of flowers please vote!
Karen Elaine Aguiar
November 21, 1962 - October 9, 2024
She was a bear of a woman.
She was a lion of a woman. She was an entire mycelial consciousness of her own. She was a wave of surprised laughter. She was a safe space. She was an unapologetic Duchess of coffee. She was an animal lover. She was a plant spirit. She was a wise woman who wore a fake mustache. She was a self appointed "Hag" and
"Gold Star Butch". She was a quiet ringleader of movements.
She was who she wanted to be, and she allowed herself. She was a medicine maker and she was the medicine itself. She stood tall. She wasn't afraid to speak truth in an unassuming way so that those who were meant to hear could hear.
She was a raised eyebrow when
an eyebrow needed raising. She was passionate about social jus-tice. She wanted things to be right in our world. Let's make something right today in her name: Karen Aguiar. We will never forget you:
"wonderful and beautiful, always whole. Your loving is a miracle.
Connected to our souls."
Finally out of pain after over 2 years of treatments for cancer, Karen died on 10/9/2024. She held on just long enough for her beloved family and a few friends to visit. Karens longest friend Kathy, and partner Aphrodite were at her side.
Karen is lovingly survived by siblings: Joe, Cecilia, Patty, Theresa, twin brother George, Ed, and many loving in-laws. She was predeceased by brother Mike and parents Mike Aguiar Jr and Anna Mae Aguiar (Noia). She was the favorite, fun "Aunt Karie" to many nieces/nephews and great nieces / nephews. (Also, some very well loved pups).
If you've been involved in the herbal world in Sonoma County, you are most likely a part of her lineage. Her most recent work for over 25 years was co-organizing the Northern California Women's Herbal Symposium and working at the California School for Herba Studies where she taught herbal medicine making.
Rest well Karen, the ripples of your heart and herbal wisdom have touched so many.
A Celebration of Karen's life will take place at Unitarian Universalist Congregation Santa Rosa on November 2at 2 p.m. All are welcome. In leu of flowers please vote!