11/26/2025
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Read to the end for a request/invitation...
In a few hours, I turn 40. I'm beyond overjoyed to celebrate 40, it has long felt like the age of arrival for me. Like coming home. Home into my wrinkles and hot flashes. These 40 years have been an incredible gift though not without griefs, big and small. I feel like I've had many lives in these years. It's wild to consider that I started pre-reqs for midwifery school almost half my life-ago, shortly before I turned 21. These days, I lean deep into parenting, partnering, and caring for my clients. As the years have gone by, ive also gotten better at caring for myself- holding healthy boundaries, prioritizing sleep, friendship and nourishment, working to give myself grace and ease away from people pleasing and perfectionism. In the last few years, I've found a surprising joy and delight in regularly lifting weights and somatic exercise. If you told me when I was 25, this is something I would start doing when I was 38, I would have laughed in your face, but it makes such a difference in my stress response and it's been amazing watching myself get legitimately physically strong. I don't know what the next 40 years hold, but I'm as ready as I'll ever be to step forward into it with joy, curiosity and reverence. Bring me into my medial woman years!
The request...because I'm a pretty sappy person, I bought an empty book to be filled with words from my friends, family and community. If you know me IRL and feel called to share, drop me a line with: 1. What you see the last 40 years have gifted me. 2. What gift you wish for the next 40 to bestow for me. I'll put it in there with your name! If a picture is more right, or you want to write your own, send to PO Box 1660 PT! And I'll glue/tape it in!
Love you all! Here's to being born! (Thanks ma...like a fish!)