Loving Wings Recovery: Couples counseling & help through infidelity

Loving Wings Recovery: Couples counseling & help through infidelity We help couples in conflict. Working through infidelity is our specialty. We also help people heal from sexual addiction and trauma.

Let us help you find the path to peace through recovery. - Leslie McCall & Jeff Hernandez We are sexual addiction recovery coaches. We help people recover from sexual and po*******hy addiction, intimacy anorexia® and partner betrayal trauma. We practice a proven methodology that will help those struggling with sexual addiction discover and walk the path of recovery. Our goal is to help you achieve your goals and to find lasting sobriety and ultimately rebuild your life, marriage and relationships.

For the partners of those in addiction, we realize there is healing that needs to take place and trust that needs to be rebuilt. Infidelity, betrayal and the loss of what you thought your marriage would be, can all be devastating, overwhelming and traumatic for the spouse or partner.

We will walk you through a step-by-step program of recovery while offering a loving and compassionate, yet firm approach with our coaching. You will learn the skills necessary to build authentic intimacy in your relationships and rebuilt the trust that addiction has destroyed.


You can end the vicious cycle of hopelessness, isolation and despair of po*******hy addiction, infidelity, sexless marriage and partner betrayal® trauma. We specialize in helping people in the following areas:

* S*xual Addiction
* Po*******hy Addiction
* Compulsive Ma********on
* Chronic Affairs & Infidelity
* Partner Betrayal® Trauma
* Intimacy Challenges (called Intimacy Anorexia®)
* S*xless Marriage


As your accountability partners we will be with you every step of the way on the journey to recovery and peace.

You’ve been carrying it quietly.The stress. The pressure. The mistakes. The things you wish you could take back.Maybe yo...
03/31/2026

You’ve been carrying it quietly.
The stress. The pressure. The mistakes. The things you wish you could take back.

Maybe you’ve told yourself:
“I’ll figure it out.”
“I don’t need help.”
“I just need to be better.”

But the truth is, you don’t have to carry it alone.
Strength isn’t staying silent.
Strength is being willing to face what’s hard and do something about it.

Over time, these roles can keep couples stuck.Real change happens when both partners become aware of their roles, and be...
03/27/2026

Over time, these roles can keep couples stuck.
Real change happens when both partners become aware of their roles, and begin to choose something different.

Over time, those unspoken feelings don’t disappear... they build.And eventually, they show up as distance, tension, or r...
03/26/2026

Over time, those unspoken feelings don’t disappear... they build.
And eventually, they show up as distance, tension, or resentment.

Healing begins when the unsaid finally has a safe place to be spoken

Triggers live in the nervous system.Even when your mind understands what’s happening logically, your body may still reac...
03/20/2026

Triggers live in the nervous system.
Even when your mind understands what’s happening logically, your body may still react as if the threat is present.
Healing involves both communication and calming the body’s response over time. This is why consistent safety and reassurance matter so much.

Many couples come to us feeling frustrated, confused, or ashamed when intimacy fades. But the root of the issue isn’t al...
03/12/2026

Many couples come to us feeling frustrated, confused, or ashamed when intimacy fades. But the root of the issue isn’t always physical... it’s often emotional.

Intimacy avoidant patterns can develop when:
• Trust is compromised
• One or both partners fear vulnerability
• Past trauma or self-protection takes priority over closeness
• Stress or life challenges crowd out connection

We help couples gently reclaim emotional safety first. From there, physical intimacy often follows.

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03/06/2026

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S*xual addiction, po*******hy addiction, and intimacy anorexia aren’t moral failings... they are behavior patterns roote...
03/06/2026

S*xual addiction, po*******hy addiction, and intimacy anorexia aren’t moral failings... they are behavior patterns rooted in unmet emotional needs and coping strategies that once served a purpose but now cause harm.

Through certification with organizations like the American Association for S*x Addiction Therapy (AASAT), coaching at Loving Wings Recovery is shaped by trauma-aware, evidence-informed practices that address:
• Betrayal trauma
• S*xual and intimacy avoidance patterns
• Addiction recovery and relapse prevention
• Relationship rebuilding with honesty and accountability

Healing is about understanding why these behaviors exist and what deeper healing they are trying to signal. You can recover connection, trust, and intimacy on both individual and relational levels.

Healing isn’t linear. One day feels like progress, the next feels like regression. This is especially true after betraya...
02/28/2026

Healing isn’t linear. One day feels like progress, the next feels like regression. This is especially true after betrayal, addiction recovery, or emotional trauma.

Sometimes it looks like:
• A calm day followed by a triggered night
• Feeling hopeful then feeling stuck again
• Understanding a concept but struggling to practice it

This doesn’t mean you’re failing, it means you’re in the process of healing. Growth requires revisiting old pain with new tools, and that process is not smooth because you’re rewiring emotional patterns and nervous system responses.

Healing is messy and that’s normal. But every forward step, no matter how small, is real progress.

💘 Happy Valentine’s Day from Loving Wings Recovery 💘Valentine’s Day isn’t just about flowers, fancy gifts, and candlelig...
02/14/2026

💘 Happy Valentine’s Day from Loving Wings Recovery 💘

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about flowers, fancy gifts, and candlelight dinners... it’s about choosing each other, especially in the ordinary, everyday moments.

If this season finds your relationship in a place of growth, healing, or rebuilding, know this: love can be restored. Intimacy can be rekindled. Trust can be rebuilt.

You can't "fix" your partner. Lasting growth happens when both people begin to ask:“What is my part in our cycle?”“How d...
02/06/2026

You can't "fix" your partner.

Lasting growth happens when both people begin to ask:
“What is my part in our cycle?”
“How do I contribute to distance or conflict?”
“What can I do today that helps us feel more connected?”

Taking responsibility isn’t about blame...
it’s about empowerment.

When both partners take ownership, everything in the relationship begins to shift.

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