04/18/2026
A breastfeeding parent on vacation…WITHOUT THEIR BABY.
Yes, this is possible my friends (and necessary at times for mental health).
A few things to consider:
• How established is your BFing relationship?
• How important is it to you that it continues?
• Do you have a good supply?
• Do you have enough of a stash to get baby through however long you’re gone?
• How old is your baby?
• Are they eating solids?
• Do you have someone you trust who can handle 24+ hours of baby?
• Do you enjoy kid-free fun?
Now, I breastfed for over 8 1/2 years. I was confident in my supply BUT I had donated almost my entire stash, so I had to plan ahead because I’m committed to (and lucky enough to) continue nursing until my kid(s) are ready to stop. Plus, my little one was a “straight from the tap” kinda baby. She hadn’t taken a bottle more than a few times in 10 months.
So for two weeks, I pumped (which I hate).
Our regular sitter (who was going to be with baby while we were away) offered a bottle every day they were around.
We laid some groundwork and did some prep.
I hadn’t left my first two kids this young for this long, but it had been a hell of pandemic and mama needed a grown-up break like whoa.
My partner was at a work convention in Vegas and well…we made it work.
I pumped and dumped, not because of the Corona (the beer, not the virus); I’m all about busting that myth.
I pumped and dumped because dealing with storing and traveling with breastmilk is a huge pain in the ass and I was on VACATION.
It was only three days and two nights but we made the best of it and we had a blast…and my babe latched right on when we were reunited. Our two older kids had a fun adventure at grandma’s and my partner and I felt rejuvenated (and perhaps a bit hungover).
It’s possible. Life after kids is different but with some planning, some trusted help, and a small leap of faith, it IS possible to revisit the free-spirited time before parenthood. If only for a short little while.
Cheers! 🍻