Blooming Relationships

11/06/2025

Let me invite you…
to step away from the busyness of everyday life and join me next spring for Love That Lasts: A Gottman Couples Workshop, April 23–26, 2026, at beautiful Doe Bay Resort on Orcas Island, Washington. 🌿
Reconnect. Restore. Rediscover each other.
Over four nourishing days, you and your partner will slow down, breathe deeply, and learn science-based tools to build intimacy, navigate conflict with compassion, and strengthen the friendship at the heart of your relationship.
Surrounded by ocean views, forests, and gardens, this retreat offers cozy cabins, fresh organic meals, sauna soaks, and the gift of uninterrupted time together. 💚
For more information and to reserve your spot, visit my website: https://bloomingrelationship.com/love-that-lasts-a.../

10/21/2025

Another Love That Lasts: A Gottman Couples Retreat is coming to Breitenbush Hot Springs, May 8–10, 2026—and registration is now open!
Step away from the noise of daily life and reconnect with your partner in the peaceful beauty of Breitenbush, surrounded by forests, rivers, and healing hot springs.
This immersive weekend retreat offers couples the chance to deepen intimacy, strengthen friendship, and build lasting love using the proven tools of Dr. John Gottman. Whether you’re looking to rekindle connection or enrich an already strong relationship, this experience provides the guidance, space, and serenity to help your love truly last. Book now to reserve your spot!

Imagine stepping away from the busyness of everyday life and immersing yourself in the serene beauty of Breitenbush Hot Springs. Surrounded b...

08/29/2025

“We went into the weekend hoping to get a little reset for our relationship, and we came out with so much more. Ivana created such a genuine, supportive space that made it easy to share, laugh, and grow together.”
B and L ❤️

“I would highly recommend attending a Goettman event with Ivana. Brietenbush Hot Springs is a whole restorative experience on its own. The workshop gently touched on some tough to navigate and common conversations while maintaining an uplifting and positive focus on the relationship you bring. Ivana was a great facilitator. Enjoy!“
E and D ❤️

“We very much enjoyed this workshop led by Ivana - she was professional and warm and welcoming of questions and feedback! Her frequent smiles exuded warmth and confident optimism, made us feel comfortable and safe, and she reassured us we are relationships in progress and not always able to perfectly apply the skills.”
A and K ❤️



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08/25/2025

What a beautiful weekend at Breitenbush Hot Springs hosting our Couples Retreat based on the Gottman Method! ✨

I feel so honored to have spent this time with such an amazing, interactive, and loving group of 11 couples. 💕

🌿 my next Couples Workshops are coming up:
📍 Breitenbush Hot Springs – January 2026
📍 Orca Island (Deo Bay) – April 2026

Stay tuned for more details—and let’s keep love growing! ❤️❤️❤️
The Gottman Institute
Breintenbush Hot Springs

08/09/2025

Fighting Right: Turning Conflict into Connection

Did you know that, according to Drs. John & Julie Gottman, 69% of relationship problems aren’t actually “solvable”?
The goal isn’t to “win” an argument, but to understand each other’s perspectives and what’s behind defensiveness or criticism.

When handled with care, a fight can actually be an opportunity to connect and reach mutual understanding — strengthening the relationship instead of tearing it down.

🎧 Want to learn more? Listen to the Gottmans discuss how to fight right in this podcast episode:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/2h9jriF8v1nMCruOaVaG15?si=eGtEaDUGTR-AUttg2m5TBg&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A1CfW319UkBMVhCXfei8huv

10% Happier with Dan Harris · Episode

08/08/2025

Most fights in relationships aren’t really about the dishes, the phone, or even the plans you didn’t make. They’re about something deeper—old wounds, fears, and patterns that get triggered in the moment. When your partner doesn’t look up from their iPad, it might stir a buried feeling of neglect. When they prioritize a tennis game over date night, it might tap into insecurity about your value to them. Over time, these triggers build a lens through which you see every interaction—either confirming love and care, or feeding doubt and distance.

As Esther Perel explains, many conflicts fall into three hidden dimensions: Power & Control, Care & Closeness, and Respect & Recognition. Recognizing which one is at play helps couples shift from arguing about “what happened” to exploring why it matters. Instead of spiraling, we can create new patterns—small, intentional steps like saying, “I’m feeling something here, can we talk about it?” or “I’m going out tonight, but I’d love to plan something special tomorrow.” In this way, every fight can become less about winning and more about understanding—and that’s where real connection grows The Gottman Institute

03/27/2025

Couples, this one’s for you ❤️
Join me this May (5/30-6/1) at the stunning Society Hotel in Bingen for a Gottman Couples Workshop designed to help you feel more connected, communicate better, and navigate conflict with more ease.

🛁 Soak in hot tubs
🍽️ Enjoy a gourmet dinner
🌲 Hike the Gorge
🛏️ Stay in beautiful rooms & cozy cabins

All while learning powerful tools to strengthen your relationship—in a setting that feels more like a retreat than a workshop.

Spots are limited.
https://bloomingrelationship.com/the-society-hotel-retreat/

The Gottman Institute

03/10/2025

Exciting news!
I’m returning to Breitenbush Hot Springs this August to host another Love That Lasts Couples Workshop! Based on Dr. Gottman’s research, this retreat helps you strengthen your bond, feel more connected, and deepen your relationship. Plus, enjoy the beautiful natural hot springs—no cell phones, just quality time! 💕
The January retreat filled up quickly, so don’t wait too long to sign up. Space is limited to just 10 couples!
Please share with others who might be interested.

https://breitenbush.secure.retreat.guru/program/gottman-couples-workshop/?fbclid=IwY2xjawI8Vq5leHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHctX7zrdogdxO3ddZ7xMBJP2QKd5zVa2FT3SkXnZvGbHij8vToGzynkMIg_aem_4ig2Uf2Mt-r-zk1rCU8Wzw

Imagine deepening your connection with your partner in the serene beauty of Breitenbush Hot Springs, surrounded by nature’s tranquility, with no distract...

03/10/2025

Exciting news!
I’m returning to Breitenbush Hot Springs this August to host another Love That Lasts Couples Workshop! Based on Dr. Gottman’s research, this retreat helps you strengthen your bond, feel more connected, and deepen your relationship. Plus, enjoy the beautiful natural hot springs—no cell phones, just quality time! 💕
The January retreat filled up quickly, so don’t wait too long to sign up. Space is limited to just 10 couples!
Please share with others who might be interested.

https://breitenbush.secure.retreat.guru/.../gottman.../

03/05/2025

Keep your eyes open for more details about our upcoming Gottman Couples Retreat the last weekend of May at the beautiful Society Hotel in Bingen, WA!
This will be an amazing experience designed to help you connect with your partner, strengthen your relationship, and recharge. Enjoy a relaxing spa, yoga sessions with .yoga and expert-led relationship workshops in a stunning setting.
The Gottman Institute

03/01/2025

Are You Supporting Your Partner’s Dreams?

Conflict in relationships often stems from unfulfilled dreams. When our hopes and goals for the future aren't respected, frustration and resentment build.

Want to strengthen your connection? Start by understanding each other’s dreams. Ask:
✨ What’s the story behind this dream?
✨ How can I support you in making it a reality?
✨ Do we truly listen to each other?

Support can be as simple as showing empathy, offering encouragement, or even joining in. When you honor each other’s aspirations, you create a deeper, more fulfilling bond. 💙

How do you and your partner support each other’s dreams? The Gottman Institute