Dowden-Roberts Funeral and Cremation Center

04/21/2026

Not sure what to do when a loved one passes?

Just give us a call, and we'll take care of all the details. We will pick up your loved one, walk you through the cremation and service details, handle the paperwork, help plan the service, and also guide you through the legal issues.

Max, Dylan, and Janie (and sometimes Kaci!) are available and always willing to help.

Call us anytime or send us a DM. :)

04/16/2026

Yes! You can prepay for a funeral. It's actually a really wise and compassionate decision. It takes the burden off your family members- they don't have to make the hard decisions, guess what you would have wanted, or try to manage paying for the service.

We're here anytime to help you get started!

04/14/2026

https://www.dowdenrobertsfuneralandcremationcenter.com/obituary/9588928?fh_id=18694

Gary Allen Bailey of Cameron, Oklahoma was born August 10, 1960 in Fort Smith, Arkansas to Cecil and Ruth Pannell Bailey and passed away April 11, 2026 in Heavener, Oklahoma at the age of 65. No services are scheduled at this time. Cremation arrangements are under the direction and care

04/13/2026

Grief doesn't follow a schedule. Wherever you are today, it's ok.

It's ok to be sad when you think you should be "better", and it's ok to laugh at good memories. And it's ok to take as long as you need to grieve.

It's different for everyone, so give yourself permission to walk through it in a way that's best for YOU.

04/12/2026

Dylan Roberts, Eric Dehart, and Brian Terry played in the 3rd Annual Caring for Carter Classic this weekend. They had a great time and shared a lot of laughs. Here's to next year's 3-man scramble! ⛳️

04/10/2026

Our last post was accidentally deleted while trying to swap the pic out, but I figured since I’m reposting it now, I could answer some questions we had in the comments of the previous post!

Kaci & Adrian have worked hard to get our Poteau location decorated and looking nice for visitors! Among the updates happening, we now have an event center.

❤️Maybe you’re in need of a place to have your family meal before/after your loved one’s service.
❤️You may be thinking of a celebration of life with food and memories so people can drop in and reminisce.
❤️Perhaps you need a nice indoor location with plenty of room for a birthday party, graduation party, baby shower, wedding shower, or just about any other event you can think of…we’ve got you covered!

What we have to offer:

🤍 Tables and chairs to accommodate up to 50 people.
🤍 Black and white fitted table cloths - you choose the color best suited to your event and we will be sure they’re in place for you.
🤍 Banquet tables with plenty of electrical outlets close by for you to plug in crockpots, warmers, etc.
🤍 An 85” flat screen smart TV with the ability to play memorial videos or even stream television services (football watch parties, anyone?!)
🤍 A cozy sitting room, adjoining the main event center, where guests could relax and visit on comfy couches and chairs. Visiting, while still in close proximity to the event.
🤍 Several beautiful locations in the building for photo ops. Including a fountain and settee at the bottom of the staircase.
🤍 You can also use decor we have on site to decorate the area, or you can bring your own decor to make it your own.
🤍 Catering options can be arranged upon request.
🤍 We are also in the process of having a small kitchenette installed, giving you access to an ice maker, sink, and refrigerator.

You can call us 24/7, or drop in during business hours to see if we are able to accommodate your next event. We are happy to answer any questions you may have!
Office phone: (918) 647-3000
Dylan’s personal cell: (918) 839-7412

04/05/2026

He lives, praise the Lord, He lives!

Today marks Resurrection Sunday, a day of rejoicing and thankfulness because we serve a risen God.

From all of us at Dowden-Roberts, we with you a happy day full of peace!

04/03/2026

We take the time to know every family we serve, because that matters.

No rushing, no quick decisions, and focused attention in a time that's so very hard for families. That's what you can expect at Dowden-Roberts.

04/01/2026

Myth: You have to figure everything out right away.

Truth: You don’t. We guide you.

Come see Dylan, Janie, or Max anytime to talk through your options!

03/28/2026

It’s prom season and we think it’s time for a giveaway!!

We have a beautiful staircase and lobby area just waiting for you to come to have your prom pictures made.

Bring your favorite photographer, your friends, prom date, and your best smile!

Let us know ahead of time and we can make sure someone is there to let you in.

Finally, post the pics you get from our lobby/staircase with to be entered for a giveaway!

03/26/2026

Sometimes the process of picking out items to say goodbye to loved ones makes us feel like they're still right here with us.

It's not easy, but it can also be really special.

Give us a shout anytime to come by and look around, or, remember us if and when you need us.

03/24/2026

https://www.dowdenrobertsfuneralandcremationcenter.com/obituary/9578103?fh_id=18694

Emma Lou Smith, of Poteau, Oklahoma, was born on October 7, 1934, in Briceville, Tennessee, to Alvis and Litha Bell Duncan Melton. She passed away on March 15, 2026, in Poteau at the age of 91, surrounded by the love of her family. Emmas life was defined by devotion to