05/03/2025
ā¢Gods goodness and face presentationā¢
I was first introduced to Marissa and Nick by a relative serving overseas. āSheās due to have her baby in March, and moving back to WA and interested in having a doula! Where do you live?ā
Shocker. They were moving to Kitsap. š
Another divine appointment.
Marissa was planning to give birth at the birth center 10 minutes from my house, we both love Jesus, and I was so excited to support them.
On the day of her due date Marissa began to experience prodromal labor. Intense contractions all night that slowed into the early morning and day. Never quite going away enough to allow her good rest.
I went over there in the morning to help with positioning. We did rebozo, massage, and chatted about a plan. I discovered very quickly her tailbone and lower back had LOTS of tension. I suspected baby was OP. We talked about miles circuit and ways to help alleviate the back pain. I left her tucked in and instructions to rest and eat as much as possible as things may pick up again that night.
And they did!
I arrived back at their home greeted by the welcomed sight of Marissa moving into active labor. Right before we were headed to the car I felt a big nudge to pray over them. I donāt always do this- but it was overwhelming. They of course agreed and we spent a moment praying for peace and safety as they welcomed their little girl.
We arrived at the birth center and she labored in the tub for a while. Still I notice her tailbone bulging out of her lower back. I massaged and spoke words of encouragement through each surge. Nick is also so attentive and massages and kisses his laboring wifeās head and shoulders. Her contractions are coming hard with hardly any breaks. I suggest getting out to change it up. We do side laying and her water breaks, in the form of her bag of waters coming out intact first ahead of the baby. 𤩠the birth nerd in me MARVELED.
Marissa began to show obvious signs of bearing down. The midwife asked permission to do a quick internal exam to see that baby is moving down, and Marissa consented.
In this moment we learn that Marissaās baby has decided to be born FACE presenting.
Already in the birth canal baby girl was making incredible progress regardless of being face first. The midwife had Marissa flip onto her back in a semi recline position to better assist with the delivery. Shortly after we see lips and a nose emerge. If you are used to seeing a baby head- it is quite something to see a face entering the world first.
These moments are intense. Nick and myself are saying prayers out loud. Over Marissa and the safety of baby. It is NOT easy to maneuver a baby head that has bones that move to fit through your birth canal and perineum, and it is even HARDER to move a baby through that space who is both OP (coming face up), and head entirely flexed face first.
and then she does it.
Baby girl was welcomed into the world with tears of relief and joy and is THRIVING.
The midwife decided it was wise to have them observed for a time but they went home that same day.
I marvel at Marissaās strength and perseverance, and I so enjoyed supporting this family ⤠The thread of Gods faithfulness and goodness was so evident through it allš¤
Welcome Baby Girl. You are so loved š¤