01/22/2026
AI
"Essentially, our behavior acts as a feedback loop for our beliefs. If someone claims to believe in honesty but consistently lies, their actions will erode their belief in honesty, and they may eventually start to believe that lying is acceptable. This can happen because of the psychological principle of cognitive dissonance, where people try to reduce the discomfort of holding conflicting beliefs by changing either their behavior or their beliefs."
The Spartan Basics
1. Define your ideal self.
2. Know how you're wired.
3. Pause. Choose your actions wisely.
4. Act your way into right thinking.
The Lesson
Create / review the best version of you (your top 5 - 10 character assets you wish to master mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and socially). This is your true, integrated self.
P + B = E = A
Our (P)erceptions + (B)eliefs result in (E)motions and often trigger (A)ction. It's how we're wired, and it's a closed loop system. As you act, it rewires your perceptions and beliefs, further influencing your emotions and actions. (** formula credit Jeanne Sanner)
Between emotion (stimulus) and action (response), PAUSE. By pausing, you can now choose your actions forward. You will either do what "feels right" in the moment, or you can choose based upon what will lead you to becoming your best version. Doing the right thing doesn't always feel good, but you will greatly appreciate the results if you stay committed and consistent. Otherwise, you will change your beliefs and perceptions to match and justify your new course, violating who you said was your true integrated self.
Commit time daily to complete, at minimum, one purposeful activity (30 - 60 minute events) and 3 - 5 micro habits (2 - 5+ minute actions) that are integrated with your best version.
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