02/26/2026
Romans 12:2
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Medium.com
"In this world we live in, it’s not enough to just be positive and calm. You also have to protect that positivity and calmness when negative energy surrounds you.
And I’ll be the first to admit, that’s tough. Negative energy is contagious. It takes conscious, deliberate effort to not let it affect you. And like any skill, it will take time to master that."
The Basics
1. Know who you are at your deepest levels.
2. Work on keeping you unpolluted daily.
3. Accept that a certain amount of toxicity is a part of life.
4. Choose how to handle "polluted streams".
The Lesson
Create / review the best version of you (your top 5 - 10 character aspects mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and socially you wish to master). Your strength of character is what will keep you clean when aspects of the outside world are trying to pollute you.
Commit time daily to complete, at minimum, one healthy activity (30 - 60 minute events) and 3 - 5 micro habits (2 - 5+ minute actions) that strengthens the best version of you. Any lingering warped thinking and character defects will only get worse with "polluted streams". Work on cleaning up your thoughts and character daily.
Accept that all paths in life have a certain amount of toxicity to them. This will help you get into acceptance of life and not victimize yourself.
Assess the current challenge. If it isn't necessary to experience it, find a way to leave; don't accept it. However, if you are experiencing one of life's challenges that has toxic elements, choose to weather it. Trying to avoid these scenarios tends to limit our ability to learn how to deal with them, or keep them from repeating, or to dam them up with healthy boundaries.
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