10/28/2025
We just signed off the amazing virtual workshop with Marisa Renee Lee focusing on grief and chronic illness. WOW! At least 7 countries were represented and we had an amazing time together. What a powerful act of true self care.
We touched on the importance of finding joy and taking care of ourselves in the workshop so I thought I would add this reminder to our wider community so we can all pick a way we will practice true self care.
The traditional methods or fluffy ideas we see in a magazine for self care are sometimes not accessible to those with ME or other complex chronic illnesses. What are ways that you have found to practice self-care?
A list of suggestions to help get you started:
* Snuggle up with a good book- Maybe a fun romance or a book of poems. We have two anthologies available created by the Pillow Writers. Link in bio.
*Journal- this can be short- text into your phone or bring out your favorite notebook
*Say no without guilt- This is tough. But we must set boundaries.
*Remember you are worthy just as you are. - Speak this truth. Remind yourself every day.
* Meditate - we have some free options on our YouTube from Nourish Therapeutic Yoga. There are some good phone apps too.
*Create art - it does not have to be perfect. It can be coloring or sketching or writing a haiku.
*Listen to something you enjoy - maybe a podcast or audiobook. Maybe your favorite music. Maybe you can only manage some ocean sounds. Whatever works with any sound sensitivity.
*Take 3 deep breaths - some days this may be all we can manage but it really can help.
*Visit an art gallery from your bed - we have all 5 years of our Severe ME Artists Projects available on our site. Check one out!
*Wear your comfiest clothes - changing into them can be tough but hey if you are stuck in them for days at least they are comfy. Pick your favorite color or something with an important reminder. And hey- we can help you find some more! Link in our bio. Grab that new low power/spoons/rest is best/ taking naps top or pants.
What else would you add? What can you do to take care?