Spears Retreat Counseling Center

11/10/2025

Join us in this eye opening interview with Bill Spears, PhD, LPC, as he dives into his bold and transformative book, The Fcked Up Marriage: And What to Do About It*. With raw honesty and clinical expertise, Dr. Spears unpacks the struggles couples face, the patterns that keep relationships stuck, and the practical steps anyone can take to repair, rebuild, and reignite love. Whether you’re in a struggling marriage, a therapist, or simply curious about modern relationships, this conversation is packed with insight and real solutions.

The F*cked Up Marriage is available on Amazon!
https://www.amazon.com/cked-Up-Marriage-What-About/dp/B0FD4RZ2SL

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🎥Set a reminder and watch the premiere here: https://youtu.be/Q3fsEkyJ96s

11/09/2025

11/01/2025

Love may begin a marriage but respect sustains it. In The F*cked-Up Marriage, Dr. Bill Spears illustrates why respect, appreciation, and mutual honor are the foundation of long-lasting partnerships. Without them, even love cannot keep a marriage alive. His words remind us that respect is not optional but essential.

Available exclusively on Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FD864DTN/

10/21/2025

Be gentle with the survivors of su***de - I found this on a page for survivors in New Zealand and I appreciate the message. -jb-

10/18/2025

Gaslighting twists reality until one partner questions their own truth. In The F*cked-Up Marriage, Dr. Bill Spears exposes this destructive pattern and its devastating effects on trust, identity, and emotional health. This book shines a light on manipulation and shows why honesty and authenticity are the only way forward.

Get your copy now on Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FD864DTN/

10/16/2025

When someone is drowning, that’s not the time to teach them how to swim.

Sometimes people don’t need advice.
They don’t need a lesson.
They don’t need you to explain how they ended up in the water.

They need you to reach out your hand.
They need to know someone sees them, that someone cares enough to pull them out first.

You can teach later.
You can talk about how to stay afloat once they’re breathing again.
But in the middle of the storm?
What they need most is compassion, not correction.

Because when a person is fighting just to keep their head above water,
your empathy might be the only thing that saves them.

©️Caty Sanders

10/14/2025

In The F*cked-Up Marriage, silence is not peace but distance. Dr. Bill Spears examines how stonewalling, contempt, and criticism erode intimacy and leave partners feeling isolated. These pages reveal the reality of marriages that have turned cold and show the painful cost of ignoring the gaps.

Available now on Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FD864DTN/