10/29/2025
Elation rhymes with Stagnation — and I love that - makes for a catchy title of a series...AND the words also are deliberately chosen.
Because while Stagnation contracts, elation expands. One freezes your flow. The other restores it.
Here’s the thing: the word ELATION — and the invitation to live it — can feel uncomfortable. I know this from experience, both personally and with many of my clients.
There’s often an “automatic program” running that says:
“Who do you think you are to enjoy your life so much when so much j***y stuff is going on in the world?”
“How can you feel joy when people you care about are struggling?”
“Maybe a joyful, flowing life is too much to ask for.”
We get the idea that joy is selfish, or that suffering makes us more “real” or “mature.”
And yes, there is suffering in the world — terrible circumstances that no one should endure. That’s undeniable.
But here’s the question: by denying yourself full enjoyment, lightness, and fun, how does that help anyone who is suffering?
The answer is: it doesn’t.
In fact, withholding joy, even unconsciously, keeps us collectively contracted. But when more of us cultivate open hearts, aliveness, and an openness to possibility — that energy radiates outward. That’s the contribution we can make.
Even if it feels a little “too much” to ask for, even if it feels uncomfortable, even if it feels undeserved — this is the gift of elation: it strengthens you, it opens your perspective, and it allows your compassion and presence to reach others more fully. And your life FLOWS.
Commiserating endlessly — which is very different from heartfelt compassion — rarely helps anyone in the long run. Choosing to be alive, embodied, and joyful while holding awareness of what is creates a more powerful ripple than we can see.
This is exactly what we’ll explore in From Stagnation to Elation, a 3-day guided meditation and activation series:
How to soften resistance without ignoring reality
How to feel joy, lightness, and aliveness in the body, even while holding life’s complexities
How to reconnect with your natural flow and empower your best expression
[Nov 3, 4 & 5 | 12:00pm ET / 9:00am PT (Link to sign up below)
Online via Zoom (recorded for replay)
$49 until Nov 1 / $60 after]
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If this is speaking to you, but you can’t attend live, no worries — the recordings are just as potent as being with me in real time.
Is this resonating? — even a little? — consider it an invitation: to step into joy, to honor your life, and to allow yourself elation as a practice of personal and collective empowerment.
[Kayaking the intercoastal waterway near Wilmington, NC, USA earlier this month.]