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Intrusive thoughts create intense anxiety, and compulsions or mental rituals often follow in an attempt to find relief. ...
02/18/2026

Intrusive thoughts create intense anxiety, and compulsions or mental rituals often follow in an attempt to find relief. While those behaviors may reduce distress temporarily, they reinforce the cycle over time.

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is the gold-standard, evidence-based treatment for OCD. ERP works by gradually and safely exposing individuals to feared thoughts, situations, or triggers, while helping them resist the urge to engage in compulsions. Over time, the brain learns that anxiety decreases on its own, even without the ritual.

ERP doesn’t eliminate these thoughts but it changes your relationship with them. With structured, supportive treatment, individuals can reduce compulsions, build tolerance for uncertainty, and reclaim meaningful parts of their lives.

Interested in further exploring support for OCD? Click the link in bio for a free consultation today!

Seeking an autism evaluation is often about gaining clarity, not changing who someone is, but better understanding how t...
02/16/2026

Seeking an autism evaluation is often about gaining clarity, not changing who someone is, but better understanding how they experience the world.

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) can influence communication styles, social interaction, sensory processing, emotional regulation, and patterns of focus or interests. For some individuals, differences may have been present for years without clear explanation. For others, early developmental concerns prompt parents to seek answers.

A comprehensive autism evaluation looks at strengths, challenges, developmental history, and behavioral patterns through a thoughtful, individualized process. The goal is not to define a person by a diagnosis, it’s to provide insight that guides meaningful support at school, at work, and at home.

When individuals and families have accurate information, they can advocate effectively, access appropriate resources, and build environments that foster growth and confidence.

Understanding leads to empowerment.

Children can struggle with learning but persistent, consistent challenges might signal a learning disorder that deserves...
02/13/2026

Children can struggle with learning but persistent, consistent challenges might signal a learning disorder that deserves attention and support.

Learning disorders are neurologically based differences in how the brain processes information and they don’t reflect intelligence or effort.

Here are some common signs to watch for:
📚 Trouble with Reading or Spelling like struggling consistently with decoding, comprehension, or written expression.
➗ Difficulty With Math Concepts and challenges understanding number relationships, time, or problem-solving.
🗣️ Trouble Following Directions or Expressing Thoughts particularly when these issues persist compared to peers.
🧠 Organization & Memory Problems including messy work, forgetting routines, or difficulty keeping track of assignments.

If you’ve noticed these signs over time, it may be worth talking with a professional about a learning evaluation. Early support can make school and life easier for your child.

Every relationship faces challenges, not because something is “wrong,” but because relationships are dynamic, evolving, ...
02/11/2026

Every relationship faces challenges, not because something is “wrong,” but because relationships are dynamic, evolving, and deeply influenced by stress, life changes, and individual histories.

Couples therapy isn’t about fixing love; it’s about strengthening the connection with tools that help partners feel understood, respected, and emotionally safe.

Therapy helps couples:
👉 Slow down communication, identify patterns, and learn how to express needs in ways that foster understanding rather than defensiveness.
👉 Provides a structured space to process these experiences, rebuild emotional safety, and strengthen intimacy over time.
👉 Supports couples in adjusting roles, expectations, and communication during times of transition.
👉 Identify underlying emotions and develop healthier ways to navigate conflict without damaging the relationship.

Growth doesn’t mean growing apart, it means learning how to grow together. 💙

Meet Dr. Akiva Gornish, PsyD, a licensed clinical psychologist at Restorative Psychological Services. Dr. Gornish is ded...
02/10/2026

Meet Dr. Akiva Gornish, PsyD, a licensed clinical psychologist at Restorative Psychological Services. Dr. Gornish is dedicated to helping adults and couples navigate life’s challenges with clarity, compassion, and evidence-based support.

“I focus on developing a deep understanding of the person behind the presenting concerns in order to create a thoughtful, individualized treatment plan that draws from multiple therapeutic modalities.

While my work is grounded in current research, I also draw from the humanistic tradition to ensure that therapy feels warm, collaborative, growth-oriented, and aligned with my clients’ values and goals.”

Schedule a free consultation today and take the first step toward healing! 🔗

Many adults pursue psychological evaluations later in life after years of feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or “behind...
02/06/2026

Many adults pursue psychological evaluations later in life after years of feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or “behind.”

For many, this is due to masking, learning to hide struggles to meet expectations, along with misdiagnosis or symptoms being overlooked altogether.

Over time, these experiences often lead to internalized beliefs like “I’m not trying hard enough” or “something is wrong with me.” A comprehensive evaluation can offer clarity, validation, and a new framework for understanding how your brain works.

Life after diagnosis gives you access to appropriate support and relief from years of self-blame. Understanding yourself isn’t about labeling, it’s about finally having language for your experience and moving forward with intention.

Young men are often taught to push through stress, minimize emotions, and handle challenges alone, but mental health thr...
02/04/2026

Young men are often taught to push through stress, minimize emotions, and handle challenges alone, but mental health thrives on skills, not suppression.

Learning these core skills can support emotional resilience and healthier relationships:

👉 Emotional regulation: Understanding and managing intense emotions instead of ignoring or exploding under pressure.
👉 Communication: Expressing needs, boundaries, and feelings clearly rather than shutting down or becoming reactive.
👉 Boundary-setting: Knowing where your limits are and protecting time, energy, and emotional well-being.
👉 Stress management: Developing tools to regulate the nervous system and reduce chronic overwhelm.

These are learned skills and not having them isn’t a personal flaw. Therapy provides a supportive space to build them intentionally.

Is there a young man in your life struggling with his mental health? Click the link in bio to find support today. 🔗

Confidence is often misunderstood as something you either have or don’t but in reality, confidence is built through prac...
02/02/2026

Confidence is often misunderstood as something you either have or don’t but in reality, confidence is built through practice, skill development, and emotional safety. Telling yourself to “just be confident” ignores the nervous system responses, past experiences, and pressure that shape how you show up under stress.

Real confidence grows when you learn how to manage anxiety, tolerate discomfort, and make small changes to prove to yourself change is possible.

Therapy helps shift the focus from harsh self-talk to skill-building strategies that support focus, flexibility, and resilience.

Confidence isn’t about eliminating anxiety, it’s about learning how to function with it.

Strong relationships aren’t built on avoiding conflict,they’re built on learning how to communicate through it. Many cou...
01/31/2026

Strong relationships aren’t built on avoiding conflict,they’re built on learning how to communicate through it. Many couples struggle not because they don’t care, but because they haven’t been given the tools to express needs, emotions, and boundaries effectively.

Improving communication often starts with slowing down conversations, listening to understand rather than respond, and recognizing emotional triggers. Small, intentional shifts, like validating feelings, using clear language, and repairing misunderstandings, can create meaningful change over time.

Family and couples therapy offers a supportive space to build these skills together, strengthen emotional safety, and create patterns of connection that last.

Understanding the OCD cycle is an important step toward breaking it. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder isn’t about habits or...
01/30/2026

Understanding the OCD cycle is an important step toward breaking it. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder isn’t about habits or preferences, it’s a pattern that becomes reinforced over time through distress, anxiety, and temporary relief.

Intrusive thoughts (obsessions) create discomfort and fear, which often lead to anxiety and an urgent need to reduce that distress. Compulsions, whether visible behaviors or internal mental rituals, can bring brief relief, but that relief strengthens the cycle and makes the obsessions more likely to return.

The good news is that OCD is highly treatable. With evidence-based therapy, individuals can learn how to respond differently to intrusive thoughts, tolerate uncertainty, and weaken the cycle over time. Relief doesn’t come from eliminating thoughts, it comes from changing the response to them.

If you or someone you love is struggling with the cycle of OCD, click the link in bio to find support today.

An ADHD evaluation is not about placing a label, it’s about understanding how your brain works and what support can help...
01/29/2026

An ADHD evaluation is not about placing a label, it’s about understanding how your brain works and what support can help you thrive. Many individuals seek evaluations after years of feeling misunderstood, overwhelmed, or unsure why certain tasks feel more challenging than they “should.”

A comprehensive ADHD evaluation provides clarity, validation, and insight into attention, executive functioning, and strengths that may have been overlooked. From there, moving forward might include therapy, skill-building, accommodations, or lifestyle strategies that align with your needs and goals.

At Restorative Psychological Services, we believe understanding leads to empowerment. When you have clarity, you can make informed choices that support growth, confidence, and meaningful change.

Mental health isn’t shaped by one big decision, it’s influenced by the small, repeated choices we make every day. Sleep,...
01/23/2026

Mental health isn’t shaped by one big decision, it’s influenced by the small, repeated choices we make every day. Sleep, movement, nutrition, boundaries, and daily structure all play a role in how our nervous system responds to stress.

Lifestyle changes don’t need to be extreme to be effective. Sustainable shifts, ones that fit your life and values, are far more impactful than short-term fixes or perfectionistic goals.

Therapy can help you identify what changes will truly support your well-being and how to implement them with compassion, flexibility, and consistency.

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