12/02/2025
đđŚ From Thanksgiving to New Yearâs, thereâs this constant push-and-pull inside you.
Part of you wants to feel the magic of the season⌠and the other part knows youâre going to miss pieces of it. Not just one day â but little moments that add up over the years.
đ You miss dinners that happen without you.
You miss family traditions that slowly shift around your schedule.
You miss the quiet things â the laughter from the kitchen, the late-night card games, the photos youâre not in.
And you donât really notice the weight of it until enough seasons pass and you realize⌠youâve been absent for more holidays than youâve been present.
đAt the same time, the job doesnât slow down for the season.
If anything, it gets heavier.
đźYouâre working overtime because the pay isnât what it could be.
Youâre handling tragedies on days meant to be joyful.
Youâre stepping into homes where the holidays have already been shattered.
Youâre trying to be steady, professional, compassionate â even when your own tank feels low.
â¤ď¸âđŠšAnd layered behind all of it is the reality no one talks about enough:
the exhaustion, the emotional whiplash, the financial strain, the feeling of being pulled in two directions⌠wanting to serve, but also wanting to live your own life.
đSo hereâs my message:
Enjoy all the little moments.
Have gratitude for the tiny joys.
Be kind.
Be patient.
Be gracious with people in uniform.
đŠľA simple âthank youâ matters more than you think.
A warm meal, a kind word, a little understanding â it all changes the tone of a hard shift.
I promise you that.
â¤ď¸And if someone you love is working through the holidays, check on them.
Remind them theyâre appreciated.
Remind them their presence at home is missed, but their impact at work is felt.
đ And if you are the first responder working this season:
Youâre seen.
Youâre valued.
Youâre allowed to feel all of the things.
And youâre not alone⌠not in the sacrifice, not in the struggle, and not in the strength it takes to keep showing up. Not in the hidden beauty of this job.
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And spread a little extra kindness this year â someone out there in uniform is carrying a lot more than you realize.