03/20/2026
Mom guilt is one of the most common—yet rarely discussed—parts of motherhood, and it shows up in sessions all the time.
Here are a few things I want you to know:
• Mom guilt doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It often means you care deeply and want the best for your child.
• It can be fueled by unrealistic expectations, comparison, and the pressure to “do it all.”
• It tends to show up during transitions—postpartum, returning to work, adding another child, or even taking time for yourself.
• Left unchecked, it can impact your mood, confidence, and overall mental health.
So how can you cope with it?
• Notice the thought. Ask yourself: “Is this guilt based on fact or pressure?”
• Practice self-compassion—talk to yourself the way you would a close friend.
• Set realistic expectations (perfect doesn’t exist).
• Limit comparison—especially on social media.
• Make space for your own needs without apology.
As a perinatal mental health therapist, I’ll say this clearly:
You can be a good mom and still need breaks.
You can love your child and still feel overwhelmed.
Both can be true. 🤍
If this resonates, you’re not alone…and support is available.