Unified Mind, 201 East Avenue, Suite D (Inside Innovative Chiropractic), Red Wing, MN (2025)

12/08/2025

I’m calling someone out today.
Maybe it’s you or your best friend.

Maybe it’s the version of you saying you want real love while making choices that guarantee you won’t find it.

Because here’s what keeps happening.

You crave connection, honesty, and a partner who shows up for you.
Yet you keep choosing the person who confuses you.

You chase the attention that feels thrilling instead of the connection that feels grounding.

You ignore red flags and then act shocked when the story repeats.

You’re not confused.
You’re conditioned
😬 to mistake intensity for intimacy.
😬 to crave what wounded you.
😬 to repeat patterns because they feel familiar.

But you deserve someone who meets you with intention.
Someone consistent, available, and
who actually wants the same kind of love you do.

Love isn’t avoiding you.
Your patterns are blocking it.

So here’s your playful nudge.

If you want a different outcome, stop being loyal to the experiences that hurt you.

You don’t need to try harder.
You need to choose better.

If you’re ready to shift this pattern fast, message me.

Learning to Find Love starts in January, and you can change your entire dating blueprint in six hours.

If you want clarity, confidence, and a partner who actually chooses you back, reach out and I’ll send you the details.

12/08/2025

Have you ever seen a woman you wanted to talk to
Whether online or in person
But froze because you didn’t want to seem creepy or risk being "rejected?"

Or maybe you just threw out a typical line hoping for a response.

This is a serious strategy problem.

Women don’t reject confidence.
They reject weird energy.
They reject uncertainty.

They blow off the guy who approaches like he’s begging for permission to exist.
Or for those who suck their time with "whatcha doing" kinds of questions.

Stop leading with value you haven’t proven yet.
Stop thinking “Hey you’re hot” is a good strategy.
AND stop assuming every woman is waiting to shut you down.

The right woman wants to be approached by a good man.
She wants presence.
She wants clarity.
She wants a man who knows what he’s doing and stands in his own being.

Imagine walking up calm.
Grounded.
Unbothered.

Not chasing approval.
Just offering connection.
That’s the energy that gets a yes.

Comment below your favorite way to start a conversation with a woman.
Or how you’d like women to approach you.

12/08/2025

You've been hurt in relationships in the past, and it's put you on guard.

Add in the fake women such as

– A chatbot with cleavage asking for your card
– An OF girl pretending to flirt just to boost her subs
– A woman overseas saying she “loves you” while collecting cash from 4 other guys
– Or worse. The one who plays the long game, gets the ring, drains your wallet, then vanishes

I had a friend who got engaged to a woman he met online.
She said all the right things.
Looked stunning.
Played the part.

He even went to her country to visit her.
Then she asked him for “a little support” to help her move countries and “start a life together.”
He wired her the money.
She disappeared. Gone.

These stories aren’t rare. They’re happening every day to men. Smart, loving, and successful men who just want something real.

You don’t need to become colder, more guarded, or play the game harder.
You need a real strategy and system to filter out the ones that aren't for you (including the regular everyday toxic ones).

Because finding the right woman isn’t about being more charming or giving.
It’s about vetting like a king.

You’re not choosing a hookup.
You’re hiring the CEO of your future.
Would you let someone run your company just because they’re “hot” or “spiritual”?
Hell no.

You’d look for values. Integrity. Long-term commitment. A shared vision.
That’s how you win in love.

If you’re done with the games, the bots, the gold-diggers, and the toxic cycles

And you’re ready for a real relationship with a real woman who meets your standards, aligns with your vision, and wants to build something with you

Comment “REAL” below.

And I’ll show you exactly how to flip the script.
Go from getting played to leading powerfully in love.

12/06/2025

If your texting feels needy, rushed, or desperate, she feels it long before you notice it. And she pulls back.

Needy does not mean you are a bad guy. It means you are texting too fast, sending multiple messages before she replies, dropping heavy emotional truths too early, sending selfies or pictures she did not ask for, or trying to force connection before it exists.

Most guys do this because they are excited or nervous, not because they are manipulative. But the impact is the same. It makes her feel pressured instead of safe.

Women respond to presence. Space. Steady confidence.
If you want a real connection, step back and let the conversation breathe. Ask thoughtful questions. Match her pace. Let things unfold naturally.

You already know how it feels when someone comes at you with too much, too fast. It is overwhelming. Do not bring that energy to someone you are just getting to know.

If you want help shifting how you come across so women actually feel safe, interested, and open with you, DM me. I can help you change this in a real and grounded way. 💛

12/04/2025

Have you ever noticed how two people can be in the same moment and feel completely different emotions?

One feels joy.
One feels anger.
One feels anxiety.

And with grief, some people move through it quickly while others feel weighed down for months or years.

None of this is random.

Your unconscious mind stores every memory and scans your past to decide how you should feel now. It cannot tell the difference between past, present, and future. So it reacts today based on what happened before.

This is why certain people or comments trigger you.
This is why your body reacts before your logic catches up.

You only have an intense emotional reaction when something inside you still resonates with it. Without that resonance, the moment feels neutral.

Here is the empowering truth.
You can change that resonance.

When the unconscious patterns are updated, everything shifts. You feel more peace. More joy. Less reactivity. You stop bracing for what might happen and start choosing how you feel in the present.

I have helped clients release panic attacks, soften deep grief, and completely shift their relationship patterns by changing the unconscious signals that were keeping them stuck.

Your emotional wellbeing shapes your relationships, your health, and your entire life.

You deserve joy. You deserve peace. You deserve to feel free in your own body.

If you are ready to shift this pattern, message me.
I would love to support you. It's time for you to experience peace and joy.

12/02/2025

The holidays don’t change people. They amplify the patterns already living in your body.

You walk into a family gathering and already know who will say what.

You step into events expecting the same loneliness or tension.

You enter dating situations bracing for disappointment. Your mind is predicting the experience before it even happens.

That is confirmation bias.

Your brain scans for danger first and filters everything through the story it already believes. If you expect conflict or heaviness, your body reacts as if it’s guaranteed.

You can change that resonance.

You can walk into the same dynamic and feel completely different inside.

You can hear the same comment and feel nothing.
You can participate without anxiety because nothing inside you is being hooked anymore.

We only react emotionally when something inside us resonates with the moment. If there is no resonance, the experience is neutral.

This is the work I do with clients.
Releasing emotional charge.
Softening grief.

Clearing the anxiety that shows up in relationships, family patterns, and the dating world.

I have watched people enter the same situations and feel peace where they once felt dread. Calm where there used to be tension.

The holidays can feel different this year.
You can feel different this year.

If you want support with this, message me. I would be honored to help you shift the pattern. Link Below.

11/29/2025

You might think you’re choosing people because of love, but often you’re choosing them because they feel familiar to the unhealed parts of you.

This is why you can end up with toxic partners over and over again.

This is why the same problems show up in dating and in long-term relationships.

A part of you is resonating with something you don’t consciously see.

Even when you promise yourself you’ll never date someone like that again, your unconscious mind knows what feels familiar and it pulls you toward it.

This is why it’s so important to understand what you actually want in a partner, not just the list in your head.

You need the deeper clarity.
The unconscious healing.
The ability to see your blind spots and what you’re really choosing beneath the surface.

Because even if you have the perfect list, it may not match what your heart and nervous system need to feel safe, loved, and fulfilled long-term.

I've done it too! Most of us have. So comment YES below if you’ve ever chosen someone who wasn't a good fit because something felt a bit familiar.

And DM me if you’re ready to change this pattern for good. 💛

11/29/2025

Sometimes people jump back into the dating pool before they are ready because they are lonely, hurt, or desperate for attention.

If she spends the whole date talking about her past relationships and how poorly she was treated, pay attention.

There’s a difference between someone sharing about a past relationship or maybe getting upset because they’re nervous

and someone who is unhealed and secretly looking for a white knight, a counselor, or a savior.

You don’t need to be harsh and you don’t need to call her out.
But you do get to have boundaries.
You get to choose not to go on a second date if it feels heavy or misaligned.

Healthy relationships begin with two whole people, not one person trying to rescue the other.

If you want support holding strong boundaries and getting clear on what you actually want in a woman, reach out.

I can help you date with confidence and clarity. 💛

11/27/2025

You don’t need to fake confidence.

You just get to show that you can carry yourself with dignity.

Some guys walk into a room like they’re trying not to be seen.
Slouched. Small. Checked out.

But every room is a stage where you could meet someone amazing. Even the grocery store (although I know you run in and out fast and are not checking out the women! LOL)

But still- Shoulders back. Chest open. Chin up.

Walk like you’re someone worth knowing—because you are.

Presence is communicated in your posture.
And the world responds to how you carry yourself.

👇 Drop “PRESENCE” in the comments if you know your body language could use a reset.

11/26/2025

She said no. Now what?

Respect it. Always.

But don’t spiral, shrink, or make it mean something about you.

A “no” isn’t rejection of your worth.

It’s redirection. It’s data. It’s her truth and not about your identity.

High-value men don’t collect no’s as wounds.
They collect them as wisdom.

👇 Drop “NO” in the comments if you’ve ever taken rejection personally and
I’ll send you a quick mindset shift to rewire that reaction for good.

11/25/2025

Men, you don’t need to go overboard on a first date.
You want to show her who you are and actually see if she’s compatible with you.

You’ve probably seen the reels where women get offended because a guy took them for a picnic, a coffee, or something simple.

And here’s the truth.

If you want a woman who values you and not what you spend, taking her somewhere you enjoy, something meaningful, easy, and fun
is one of the best ways to see if she aligns with your world.

The first date isn’t about impressing her with money or performance.

It’s about creating connection.
It’s about seeing if you enjoy each other enough to want a second date.

Yes, be thoughtful.
Yes, make space for her to feel comfortable.
And do it in a way that is real and authentic to who you are.

If she vibes with the real you, that’s the woman you want.

Follow me and Comment AUTHENTIC below if you agree. 💛

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