11/08/2025
You're texting her, you’re making plans.
You’re showing up with energy, excitement, and intention.
But for some reason she pulls away.
She goes quiet.
She says, “I just need space.”
Here’s what’s really happening:
When you over-give
When you pursue without grounding
When you try to prove how great you’d be for her
It doesn’t feel like support.
It feels like pressure.
To her nervous system, it can feel like you’re pushing yourself onto her
not out of confidence, but out of fear.
And that’s when you shift from “potential partner”
To “puppy dog energy.”
The man she wants isn’t always available (that also doesn't mean playing games)
He’s emotionally present.
He’s steady.
He moves with calm intention—not anxious urgency.
If this hits… good.
It means you’re ready to lead with strength instead of chase with hope.
DM me “FRIEND ZONE”
If you’re done overgiving and ready to be the man she respects, desires, and chooses.