01/23/2026
“I’m don’t expect you to fix him.” That’s what a Mom of a kiddo with Autism told me the other day. ❤️
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I said, “That’s good, because I don’t think he’s broken.”
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Here’s what I mean ⬇️
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An autistic brain isn’t malfunctioning.
It’s responding.
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Every brain takes in information from the world — sound, light, touch, taste, smell, movement, emotions, etc. & tries to make sense (🤓) of it all.
Some brains filter this input fast;
Some brains feel it all—at once.
When the input is overwhelming or too much, the brain compensates so it can feel safe.
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And this compensation often involves movement & looks defensive - Meltdowns, Stimming, Obsessiveness, Pinching, Hitting (self &/or others) Screaming, etc.
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It’s not bad behavior, it’s a nervous system saying,
“This is what & need, & is the best I can do right now.”
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Here’s where many people get it wrong… they try to change the behavior without changing what the brain is experiencing.
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But all behavior has meaning & serves a purpose. It’s ultimately just feedback.
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It’s when you change the input, that you can change the output… but really, not until then.
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When the nervous system feels safe, regulated, and supported, the brain chooses differently—automatically.
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Not because the child was fixed… but because the brain finally has a better option.
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If this hit home with you… let us know your thoughts in the comments.
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