11/14/2025
✨A successful VBAC story✨
This is my cousin and she knows how to 👏🏾advocate👏🏾 for👏🏾 herself… which is absolutely necessary if you’re wanting a VBAC‼️
When she went into labor and got to the hospital they wanted to rush her back for a cesarean. She declined and said she wanted to have a vaginal birth. They said she shouldn’t do that because her previous baby (who was breech) was born too recently. They went over all the risks (highlighting the worst case scenarios) and she said she was aware of the risks and wanted to continue with her birth.
Then, they brought a doctor in to try and scare her. Then ANOTHER doctor. And let me tell you, at this point, it’s hard to push back without the proper support. They can really make you feel like you’re putting your baby in unnecessary danger or that you’re being negligent.
But, she persisted and said again that she was aware of the risks and wanted to proceed.
What doctors don’t tell you is that the risks are very low. — like, less than 1%. So you basically have a 99% chance of NOT having a uterine rupture.
Then they had her sign an AMA (against medical advice) to release them of any liability. 😱
So she did! ✍️
Then she pushed twice and her baby came flying out.
Both mom and baby were healthy.
Here’s the thing, she knew she could do it. She had three vaginal births before her cesarean. She wanted a fair chance to labor and birth HER way. It’s her body and her baby. Should there be any red flags, she was in the hospital and they could help her but there were no red flags —- it was just protocol. Simpler. More money.
I share this story because it’s possible. You can do this too. Everyone deserves a trial at labor after a cesarean if that’s what you want!