Angela Schellenberg Counseling/ Coaching

Angela Schellenberg Counseling/ Coaching Angela is a mental health Trauma, Grief, and Loss Therapist , LMHC. Mother Hunger Facilitator

02/21/2026

You are lovable. No matter what.
I asked my Mother Hunger class a simple question:
If you lined up every baby in a nursery, how would you tell which one deserves love the most?
The room went quiet.
Because you can’t. There is no most lovable baby. No criteria. No performance review.
They are loved because they exist.
So were you. Once.
Somewhere between then and now, someone taught you that love was something you had to earn. So you got very good at achieving. At holding it together. At never needing anything.
It worked. On the outside.
But there’s a part of you that’s still waiting to finally feel like enough.
That part isn’t broken. That part is grieving something she never got to name.
So let me say it clearly:
You do not have to do one more thing to be lovable.
You were born worthy. That was never up for debate.
If that landed somewhere below your throat,

Comment WORTHY and I’ll send you my free Emotional Healing Kit. Real tools. No pitch. Just a place to begin.
You are lovable. On your worst day. In your most unraveled moment.
Still. Lovable. Still.

If you’ve lost someone close, you aren’t alone. Grief is an attachment trauma that can be eased through somatic practice...
02/20/2026

If you’ve lost someone close, you aren’t alone. Grief is an attachment trauma that can be eased through somatic practice with horses. Join the information session to learn more.

Healing with Horses Retreat happening 4/30-5/30 this year!

If you’re grieving someone you loveand your new grief is waking up old grief,the kind your body has been carrying for ye...
02/20/2026

If you’re grieving someone you love
and your new grief is waking up old grief,
the kind your body has been carrying for years,
this is for you.

Healing With Horses is a somatic grief retreat in Malibu for high-functioning women who are holding it together on the outside and exhausted on the inside.

We work with grief as trauma.
With attachment.
With the nervous system.
And with horses who respond to what’s real.

Comment INFO for details.

02/20/2026

When my mom died I was 22. Alone in the world. Just trying to figure out what to do.
There was no retreat like this. So I spent the next 32 years building it.
I’m Angela a trauma and grief therapist and I created the Healing With Horses Somatic Grief Retreat because losing someone you love isn’t just heartbreak. It’s a break in attachment. It’s trauma. And your body has been carrying it ever since.
Here’s what’s waiting for you:
🐴 2.5 hours a day with horses who attune to your grief in ways words never could
🍽️ The best chefs because nurturing starts with how you’re fed
🌊 A floating sound bath
✨ The most breathtaking location in the Malibu Mountains (yes, where they filmed The Bachelor)
❤️ A team where every single person has lost someone deeply. They know what this feels like.

Half the people from my first retreat are coming back. That tells you everything.
April 30 – May 3 · Malibu, California
I’m hosting a FREE info session next Friday, February 27th from 12–1pm PST. Past participants and retreat leaders will be there. Come ask everything.
👇 Type INFO below and I’ll send you the Eventbrite link right to your DMs.

Curious if the Healing With Horses Somatic Grief Retreat is for you?If you’re functioning on the outside, but your grief...
02/19/2026

Curious if the Healing With Horses Somatic Grief Retreat is for you?

If you’re functioning on the outside, but your grief is living in your body, this is for you.
If new grief is waking up old grief, and you feel like your nervous system never got the memo that you’re “safe now,” you’re not alone.

I’m hosting a FREE online Info + Q&A so you can ask the real questions and get a real feel for the experience.

Friday, Feb 27, 2026 at 12pm Pacific
We’ll cover:

what “somatic grief work” actually looks like

how the horses support regulation and emotional processing

who this retreat is best for

logistics, travel, and what to expect day to day

👉 Comment “INFO” and I’ll send you the registration link.
Or register here: https://bit.ly/healing-with-horses
🐴💛

Comment INFO and I’ll send you the link to sign up for our FREE information zoom session about the Healing with Horses G...
02/18/2026

Comment INFO and I’ll send you the link to sign up for our FREE information zoom session about the Healing with Horses Grief Retreat. This next Friday 2/27 at 12-1 PM PST.

I made 12 Malibu Fire Horses. One for every birth month. Each one built around a nervous system pattern I see in my therapy room — the thing you’ve been carrying so long you forgot it wasn’t normal.
Swipe through. Find your month. Read the line.
If something in your body moves when you read it — pay attention to that.
Drop your month in the comments and the sentence that hit you. Save this for the day you’re spiraling and can’t remember why. Send it to the friend who keeps saying she’s fine.
This isn’t a diagnosis. It’s just what I’ve seen. Over and over. In rooms where people finally stop pretending.
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02/18/2026

Anger is the nervous system saying, “That was not okay.”
Anger is your boundary system coming back online.
Anger is proof you know what happened was real.
Stop asking people to be calm about harm.
Let anger do its job, then we can talk about what healing actually requires.

Some losses hit the current relationship.Some losses reopen the early relationship.You can be grieving them, and also gr...
02/17/2026

Some losses hit the current relationship.
Some losses reopen the early relationship.
You can be grieving them, and also grieving the mothering you needed.
If that is true for you, what part feels most tender right now.

Tuesday is Lunar New Year. Year of the Fire Horse. If grief keeps pulling you back to early attachment pain, that's not ...
02/17/2026

Tuesday is Lunar New Year. Year of the Fire Horse.

If grief keeps pulling you back to early attachment pain, that's not random. This retreat is for the body-level reality of grief. Not the story you can already tell. Info session Friday noon. Details to follow soon

These Trauma Tools are here to support your nervous system on the hard days and the in-between days—little anchors that ...
02/11/2026

These Trauma Tools are here to support your nervous system on the hard days and the in-between days—little anchors that can help you feel steadier, safer, and more resourced as you move through your healing journey.

If you want the exact products Angela recommended, comment traumatools and I’ll send the list.

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7345 164th Avenue NE Te 145/386
Redmond, WA
98052

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 9pm
Wednesday 9am - 9pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 5pm

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Angela Schellenberg Counseling

Hello,

I’m Angela Schellenberg. I a trauma therapist and I specialize in grief, loss, and trauma. If you are looking for a trauma-informed and trained counselor/coach then you have come to the right place. I love helping clients work through the challenges in their lives. I am a humanistic counselor and I use many different modalities and theories because I never believe there is just one method that works for everyone. I am trained in EMDR, Restorative Retelling for Violent and Sudden Death, EFT Tapping, and Matrix Reimprinting. I enjoy working with individuals, families, couples, and children. I work with grief, loss, and trauma. I am passionate about helping clients manage depression, anxiety, and trauma (PTSD). If you are interested in booking an appointment you can visit my website at www.angelaschellenberg.com or call at 4256283354,