06/27/2025
Stuck in the same old fight with your partner? Try asking yourself these 3 questions:
1. What are the moves I tend to make in these interactions? (maybe you shut down and create distance or maybe you do anything you can to get through to your partner)
2. What thoughts and emotions are underneath my words or actions?
3. What story do I tell myself about me, my partner, or our relationship when this happens?
Reflecting on your interactions in this way can help you begin to recognize patterns and uncover the roots of your conflictâthese are the first steps to creating a new pattern in your relationship.
You donât have to figure it out alone.
In emotionally focused couples therapy, we help couples map their interactions, slow things down, and uncover whatâs really happening underneath the surface.
Because most fights arenât about the dishesâtheyâre about disconnection.
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