12/23/2025
If you’re grieving this holiday season and all you’re doing is getting through the day—that is enough.
Grief is felt in changes in your body, your brain, and your capacity. Your body is processing a LOT.
It is not reasonable to expect optimal functioning right now.
You can hold love and loss at the same time.
You can do less than usual.
You can survive instead of celebrate (or both).
Save this for the days that feel harder.
Share it with someone who needs permission to slow down.
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