Spectrum Counseling

10/30/2025

Cool resource about using games to strengthen specific executive functioning skills!

Use these games during SEL sessions, morning meetings, or small group interventions. Encourage reflection by asking:
- “What strategy helped you the most?”
- “How did you stay calm when it got hard?”
- “What would you try differently next time?”

10/10/2025

Tomorrow is National Coming Out Day! If you're considering telling folks about who you are and stepping into authenticity but you need a little help, check out this post from 2020 for 10 ideas: https://www.kadesharp.com/post/how-do-i-come-out-as-lgbtq

09/22/2025

Recent research has shown it's primarily due to genetics. Please don't feel guilty about your use of Tylenol or vaccinations.

We’re taking a short break from social media while our team are on leave. At the same time, we know there will be conversations globally around autism, that may share harmful and inaccurate ideas about the “cause” of autism. These kinds of narratives can feel heavy and damaging for our community.

We want to leave you with these protective reminders:
💛 Autism is not caused by vaccines, parenting, or diet. Autistic people have always been part of humanity.
💛 Harmful claims do not change the truth of our lived experience, or the strength and beauty in our community.
💛 You don’t need to engage with every harmful comment or headline. Protect your energy.
💛 Surround your feed with autistic voices, affirming psychologists, trusted researchers, and good allies. Look to the people who reflect your values and share accurate information.
💛 Choose if, when, and how you wish to advocate in response. You don’t need to enter every discussion you are invited to. But if you do want to respond, know you have a community behind you.
💛 Focus on the communities and organisations that affirm who you are, not those that drain you.

Take gentle care of yourselves. We stand with you in love and solidarity, and we’ll be back online soon after the school holidays. 💛🐞

07/25/2025

Take A Break is hosting a clothing, plant, and puzzle exchange this Sunday 7/27 from 11am-2pm at 2625 W Bruneau Place #112 in Kennewick - totally free! What an awesome place for community building. 🌈

07/06/2025

I wanted to quickly share something neat I did this year: I wrote two chapters about play therapy with trans clients and was published in a textbook! I haven't had a chance to read the other chapters yet but I'm very excited to get my copy and read everyone's writing. Hopefully this will support clinicians (and their clients) in the therapeutic work they do! Thank you, Kurt Oster and Dr. Margot Wilson, for including me in your very needed publication!

If you'd like to purchase the textbook or pitch it to your favorite higher learning institutions, here's a link: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1998522164
I believe there will be CE possibilities for an at-home book study if you're looking for those, too.

(For full disclosure, I am not paid for sold copies or to write this - just excited to share!)






















Washington State Association for Play Therapy

05/25/2025

Upcoming local community events!

Pride Month is just a week away!! 🌈

Check out all the fun special Pride events planned around town this June. ✨💕

What are you most most excited about? Tell us what Pride means to you. 🏳️‍🌈

04/28/2025

04/06/2025

Perseverance Counseling Tri Cities Wa and I will be at this event to represent Therapists @ Pride - hope to see you there!! We'd love for you to swing in and decorate your very own Autism Creature :)

More info about Therapists @ Pride: https://www.kadesharp.com/therapistsatpride

04/03/2025

It’s time to listen to the Autistic community (Autistic people NOT Neurotypical people) and start respecting their voices and wishes for the puzzle piece to be thrown out... and yes I will be using identity first language in this post as it’s the preferred language and saying “person with Autism”/ “on the spectrum” detaches the person from their Autistic brain and without our brain we aren’t the same person. Also it sounds like it’s an illness or disease by saying “has” or “with” and that’s not what Autism is and it makes it sound like it’s something that can be cured like an illness… when it can’t. Our brains ARE Autistic, we view the world and life with our Autistic brain… it’s a huge part of us and separating us from our Autistic brain is wrong. We need to ACCEPT AUTISM, and accept that we have Autistic brains. People need to ACCEPT Autistic people better. Being Autistic isn’t anything to be ashamed about and “Autistic” isn’t a dirty word. It’s time to view things differently from our point of view and it’s time to start using the two appropriate symbols for Autism also instead! It’s time to allow Autistic people to have a symbol they like that has a more positive history/ meaning to it than the one created in the 60’s by Neurotypical people without including us.

There’s the rainbow colour spectrum infinity symbol that is for Neurodiversity which Autism is a part. Because Autistic people are more likely to have other neurodivergent conditions too… it’s why the Rainbow Infinity Symbol is the most popular amongst Autistic people.
We also have the gold infinity symbol which was created by Autistic people for Autism Acceptance…. And in the periodic table of elements gold is ‘Au’ which is the first two letters of Autism/ Autistic which is pretty cool.

Here’s a little bit from Autistic UK website
“The use of the infinity symbol came from the growing popularity of it in spectrum colours to promote Neurodiversity. The idea of endless possibilities and untapped potential resonate through this symbol providing a simple and recognisable concept in one.
Autism is itself a spectrum, but we were looking for a unique identifier (without needing to ‘cure’ it). So the idea of combining the two came to the fore. If Autistics use Gold, then other Neurodiverse communities can use their choice of colour too.”

We need to remember that the puzzle piece symbol isn’t a piece of art. Personal interpretations don’t matter when talking about what it actually means. It was and is used to portray autism as “puzzling”, Autistic people as having a “piece missing” and all in all something to be “fixed”, a sentiment the Autistic community widely resents. Your personal interpretations don’t change what it’s actually used to represent and unless you’re Autistic yourself, it’s not for you to reclaim and even then not for you to decide alone. And seeing the Autistic community widely see the puzzle piece symbol as problematic and stigmatising... it’s time to move on and start using the two symbols chosen by the Autistic community instead. Autistic peoples voices matter the most as THEY are the ones who are Autistic.

Family often view the puzzle piece in a positive light and view the puzzle piece as THEIR missing piece to their family, meaning their Autistic child... but as previously said... it’s not a piece of art and you cannot change the meaning of the puzzle piece symbol and what it has represented for years.
It’s time to be respectful and listen to Autistic people on this matter... it’s not up for debate as the Autistic community for years have already been vocal about this. Move on to a better symbol that is accepted by the wider autistic community and IS NOT stigmatising or harmful to us.
We ask for you to move on from a symbol we consider a harmful symbol and move on to using the infinity symbols we have chosen.

We also must remember that just because YOUR child likes the puzzle piece symbol it’s no excuse to dismiss the the Autistic communities feelings towards it being a harmful symbol. You must realise that parents likes will rub off on their children, so if they like the puzzle piece symbol and use it then the child is going to like it to... it’s that simple. Introduce them to the accepted symbols and explain how awesome they are!

Here’s the conclusion from research about the puzzle piece symbol and if it evokes negative associations (link to this is amongst the links at the end) “Participants explicitly associated puzzle pieces, even generic puzzle pieces, with incompleteness, imperfection, and oddity. Our results bear public policy implications. If an organization's intention for using puzzle-piece imagery is to evoke negative associations, our results suggest the organization's use of puzzle-piece imagery is apt. However, if the organization's intention is to evoke positive associations, our results suggest that puzzle-piece imagery should probably be avoided”

If you want to learn more about the puzzle piece symbol and why it’s seen so negatively so much then there’s plenty links below... I’m not going to go on and on and on and tell you the whole history and ins and outs because you can do that yourself with the links below.
Or just search “why don’t autistic people like the puzzle piece symbol” or “why is the puzzle piece symbol for autism harmful“

We appreciate people listening to the Autistic community and respecting us by making this change. By doing so you help us feel heard, accepted and respected. Thankyou 🥰🥲

https://www.learnfromautistics.com/the-problem-with-the-autism-puzzle-piece/?fbclid=IwAR3KRrs3vzfuCgn-neKRtxnA8teePO_yUtLrSvjnRLj-79UuYqnkSZAVl7w

https://neuroclastic.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Heres-Why-Most-Autistic-People-Hate-the-Puzzle-Piece-Symbol.pdf

https://autisticmama.com/saying-goodbye-to-the-puzzle-piece/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28823194/

https://intheloopaboutneurodiversity.wordpress.com/2019/03/20/the-ableist-history-of-the-puzzle-piece-symbol-for-autism/

https://www.altogetherautism.org.nz/autism-no-puzzle-nothing-wrong-with-us/