11/29/2025
Trigger Warning ableist language
There’s something unsettling about hearing anyone in leadership use language that wouldn’t be acceptable from any child or in the workplace. When a Thanksgiving message used the phrase “the seriously r-word Governor,” it wasn’t just a rough comment. It was ableism and disrespect broadcast from a platform that reaches millions. And when the same voice has asked an individual if they are “a stupid person” or snapped “Quiet, piggy,” it becomes clear this isn’t random. It’s a pattern.
And yes, we should be outraged, because mindsets become decisions. Language shows belief, and belief becomes policy. If harmful words come this easily, what happens when protections, funding, or access for disabled individuals are on the table. How will this perspective show up in legislation, education, healthcare, or the systems families rely on. And what are we teaching our children when the adults with the biggest platforms model cruelty instead of care.
This is especially hard when many voted hoping to protect their families. The administration promised to fight “for your family and your future,” speaking about safety, stability, education, and values as the heart of the country. But how do those promises stand next to ableist language and public disrespect. How do you champion families while harming the very people who make up those families.
We can debate policies all day, but we can’t ignore the damage done when cruelty becomes a leadership style. Homes, classrooms, workplaces, and playgrounds all feel the ripple. Calling that out isn’t political — it’s about protecting the dignity of every person who’s ever had their worth questioned by a word that never should’ve been spoken.
Humanity should not depend on a title. And when leadership keeps using language that harms, despite knowing its impact, it’s on the rest of us to speak up and stand firm.