06/24/2021
What is beneficial for the aging process? Everyone wants to know. Some might think lack of sleep and food that accompanies a weekend at a music festival would hinder me in reaching an optimal state of being as I age and grow older, but my soul knows the opposite is true. Aging is incredible allusive. We have different parts of ourselves, this is known as BPSS in Gerontology, standing for Biological, Psychological, Social, and Spiritual, each different facets of us, each holding equal value to the other.
Our bodies, our minds, our connections, our spirit. We actively try to satisfy these different parts of ourselves. Sometimes we can meet some parts of ourselves while not reaching others. Music festivals meet my psychological, social, and spiritual needs while usually not meeting my biological needs (although I try- shoutout to PB&J and h**p heart sandwiches!), people don’t really sleep much at these things (thank you ear plugs). But the way I feel afterwards is indescribable. A sense of fulfillment, of belonging, of inspiration and drive to do more of the things I love on this earth, to connect with others and share our passions. To dive into the things that inspire me and share them with the world.
Festivals remind me how capable humans are to create and sustain beautiful things.
Although exhausting, traveling awakens something in me and plants a seed of gratitude for the city where I thrive. Don’t let society govern what your aging process needs. Only you know what is sustainable for you- only you can create the life that makes you happy to live. You are not just body, you are not just spirit. BPSS- Bio, psycho, social, spiritual- you are a multidimensional, constantly evolving individual. Keep feeding those different parts of you. Meeting your biological needs is only scratching the surface. The wellness world might not tell you this, but social connections are just as important as the food you eat in order to thrive. Prioritize your friends. Prioritize creativity. Prioritize laughing.