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You are welcome here. Not the kind of welcome that IGNORES part of you. No need to shrink, or hide, or split yourself in...
03/12/2026

You are welcome here. Not the kind of welcome that IGNORES part of you.
No need to shrink, or hide, or split yourself in two.
Your dignity is not in question.
Your worth needs no self defense.
Your value was known before you came.
No performance. No pretense.
Whether you plan to stay awhile, or your just passing through. There will always be a seat here.
It will always be for you.

Photo taken of a print at yoga studio in RVA. Print/quote credit: unknown. (DM to receive credit.)

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03/12/2026
03/12/2026

What do doulas do?

Doulas nurture and support the birthing person throughout labor and birth. Their essential role is to provide continuous labor
support to the mother, no matter what decisions the mother makes or how she gives birth. Labor support is defined as the therapeutic presence of another person, in which human-to-human interaction with caring behaviors is practiced (Jordan,2013).

Importantly, the doula’s role and agenda are tied solely to the birthing person’s agenda. This is also known as primacy of interest. In other words, a doula’s primary responsibility is to the birthing person—not to a hospital administrator, nurse, midwife, or doctor.

A doula can provide labor support via the four pillars of labor support. In the textbook Best Practices in Midwifery, the author describes three pillars of labor support as emotional support, physical support, and advocacy. In the book Optimal Care in Childbirth, informational support is also listed as a pillar of support.

Physical support is important because it helps the birthing person maintain a sense of control, comfort, and confidence. Aspects of physical support provided by a doula may include:

-Soothing with touch through the use of massage, counter pressure, or a rebozo
-Helping to create a calm environment, like dimming lights and arranging curtains
-Assisting with water therapy (shower, tub)
-Applying warmth or cold
-Assisting the birthing person in walking to and from the bathroom
-Giving ice chips, food, and drinks
-Emotional support helps the birthing person feel cared for and feel a sense of pride and empowerment after birth.
*One of the doula’s primary goals is to care for the mother’s emotional health and enhance her ability to have positive birth memories (Gilland, 2010b).

Doulas may provide the following types of emotional support to the birthing person and their partner:

-Continuous presence
-Reassurance
-Encouragement
-Praise
-Helping the birthing person see themselves or their situation more positively
-Keeping company
-Showing a caring attitude
-Mirroring—calmly describing what the birthing person is experiencing and echoing back the same feelings and intensity
-Accepting what the birthing person wants
-Helping the birthing person and partner work through fears and self-doubt
-Debriefing after the birth—listening to the mother with empathy

Informational support helps keep the birthing person and their partner informed about what’s going on with the course of labor, as well as provides them with access to evidence-based information about birth options.

Aspects of informational support include:

-Guiding the birthing person and their partner through labor
-Suggesting techniques in labor, such as breathing, relaxation techniques, movement, and positioning (positioning is important both with and without epidurals)
-Helping them find evidence-based information about different options in pregnancy and childbirth
-Helping explain medical procedures before or as they occur
-Helping the partner understand what’s going on with their loved one’s labor (for example, interpreting the different sounds the birthing person makes)

*Advocacy is a pillar of support that is considered controversial by some for two reasons: first, the word advocacy has several meanings and definitions, and second, doulas differ on their beliefs about whether or not advocacy is part of their role.

In an important paper about the concept of advocacy in the nurse’s role, Kalaitzidis and Jewell (2015) compiled all of the existing definitions of patient advocacy. They found that in the past, the most common definitions of advocacy were “pleading the cause of someone” or “speaking on behalf of someone.” Advocacy can also be defined as “supporting an individual or group to gain what they need from the system” or supporting a person in their right to self-determination.

Advocacy has long been considered an essential component of the nurse’s role. However, while some doulas believe that advocacy is a part of their role, others have been specifically trained that advocacy is not part of their role at all. For many years, DONA International, the first doula training and certification organization, has stated in their standards of practice that advocacy is part of the doula’s role, as long as the doula does not speak on behalf of the client (DONA Code of Ethics, 2015).

Advocacy can take many forms—most of which do not include speaking on behalf of the client. Some examples of advocacy that doulas have described include:

-Encouraging the birthing person or their partner to ask questions and verbalize their preferences
-Asking the birthing person what they want
-Supporting the birthing person’s decision
-Amplifying the mother’s voice if she is being dismissed, ignored, or not heard, “Excuse me, she’s trying to tell you something. I wasn’t sure if you heard her or not.”
-Creating space and time for the birthing family so that they can ask questions, gather evidence-based information, and make decisions without feeling pressured
-Facilitating communication between the parents and care providers
-Teaching the birthing person and partner positive communication techniques

*If a birthing person is not aware that a provider is about to perform an intervention, the doula could point out what it appears the nurse or physician is about to do, and ask the birthing person if they have any questions about what is about to happen. For example, if it looks like the provider is about to perform an episiotomy without the person’s consent: “Dr. Smith has scissors in his hand. Do you have any questions about what he is wanting to do with the scissors?”
Evidence Based Birth

03/12/2026

Pitocin contractions are a different kind of labor...đŸ˜©

They hit hard, stack on top of each other, and sometimes there’s barely a second to breathe in between.

Your body is shaking.
You’re gripping the bed rails.
You’re trying to remember how to breathe while a machine decides when the next contraction comes.

And somewhere in the middle of all that intensity, you’re still doing the most powerful thing a body can do.

Bringing a baby into the world.

Pitocin labor is not the “easy way.”
It’s raw, exhausting, and incredibly strong.đŸ©·

The past few months have been very full in the best way. While continuing to support families as a birth and postpartum ...
03/11/2026

The past few months have been very full in the best way.

While continuing to support families as a birth and postpartum doula, I have also been spending a lot of time continuing my education behind the scenes. I recently completed over 100 hours of coursework focused on advocacy, home birth education, and birth doula training through Cardinal Birth Midwifery. I am grateful to now say that I have completed the program and am officially certified as a Birth Freedom Advocate.

This training deepened my understanding of physiologic birth, informed choice, and what it really means to support families in a way that protects their autonomy. It strengthened my advocacy skills and expanded how I approach supporting clients across all birth settings. Whether a family is planning a hospital birth, birth center birth, or home birth, my role is always the same: making sure parents feel informed, supported, and confident in the decisions they are making for themselves and their baby.

Continuing education matters deeply to me in this work.
Birth is powerful, vulnerable, and life changing.
Families deserve support from someone who is always learning and growing so they can be fully present for the people they serve.

I am incredibly grateful for every family who trusts me to walk alongside them through pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.
Your stories are the reason I continue to invest in this work and in becoming a better advocate and support person for every client I serve.

JessicaRose Argenzio
Certified Birth & Postpartum Doula
Certified Birth Freedom Advocate
Gentle Sleep Coach
Childbirth Educator
Newborn Care Specialist

03/11/2026

Interesting read.

💜💜💜 kinda makes me wanna rewatch Friends.
03/11/2026

💜💜💜 kinda makes me wanna rewatch Friends.

One of the reasons Friends remains such a comfort watch isn't just the laughs—it's how it handled real, sometimes messy life way ahead of its time.

If you look closely at the motherhood journeys of our favorite trio, you realize it wasn't just done for the plot. The writers made a highly intentional choice to give them unconventional paths to parenthood to spread a powerful message. We watched Phoebe selflessly step up as a surrogate for her brother, showing the incredible beauty of helping others build a family. We saw Rachel navigate the terrifying but rewarding path of an unplanned pregnancy and single motherhood, proving you don't need a picture-perfect setup to be an amazing mom. And we cried with Monica as she bravely faced the heartbreaking reality of infertility, only to find her meant-to-be path through adoption.

It was a purposeful reminder that surrogacy, single motherhood, and adoption are absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Every single path to parenthood is valid, and they are all just as beautiful as a traditional birth.

03/10/2026
03/08/2026

💗 Let’s be real: a world free of bias doesn’t happen by accident. It’s built by the people who refuse to be erased.

Today, we celebrate the women who fought.
Tomorrow, we keep fighting with them.

~Today we celebrate the strength, resilience, and brilliance of women everywhere.Women who nurture.Women who lead.Women ...
03/08/2026

~Today we celebrate the strength, resilience, and brilliance of women everywhere.

Women who nurture.
Women who lead.
Women who advocate.

Women who build families, communities, and movements that change the world.

From pregnancy and birth to motherhood, careers, activism, healing, and growth, women carry extraordinary power in the ways they care for others while continuing to rise for themselves.

International Women’s Day is a reminder that supporting women is not just a moment.
It is a commitment. A commitment to equity, safety, autonomy, and opportunity in every space women exist.

To the mothers, the daughters, the caregivers, the fighters, the dreamers, and the ones still finding their voice:

Your strength matters.
Your work matters.
Your story matters.

Today and every day, we rise together.



JessicaRose Argenzio
RoseMoon Birth Services | Richmond Doula
Certified Birth, Postpartum Doula, Gentle Sleep Coach, Childbirth Educator, Women's Advocate
(804)-651-6418
Jessica@RichmondDoula.com
https://www.RoseMoonBirthServicesLLC.com

Those early nights after birth can feel impossibly long when exhaustion meets recovery. Your body, your mind, and your b...
08/09/2025

Those early nights after birth can feel impossibly long when exhaustion meets recovery.

Your body, your mind, and your baby all need rest — and overnight postpartum support isn’t a luxury, it’s a lifeline.

I’m here to make sure you wake up feeling more like yourself, knowing your baby has been cared for with the same gentleness you would give.

💜 Let’s plan your postpartum recovery together. Reach out today to secure overnight support for your first weeks home.

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