03/27/2026
I've been deep in for months curriculum building for an Ancestral Trauma + Womb Healing intensive I'm facilitating this weekend. The process has involved reading through source text after source text on womb healing, and the amount of material out there that is heteronormative, gender essentialist, shame-based, and *actively, aggressively harmful* is something I was genuinely not prepared for.
Books centering heterosexual union as the only path to wholeness. Past sexual partners framed as "energetic contamination" (!!). Entire teachings telling people that nothing was ever done to them, that they created all of their experiences. You cannot say that to someone sitting in a room working with inherited sexual violence, displacement, and colonization.
I'm autistic, ADHD, q***r, with no defined sexual orientation and pronouns she/they. I have spent my entire life showing up to spaces that were supposed to be healing and realizing halfway through that whoever built them never once considered that someone like me might exist. I refuse to replicate that experience for other people.
So I've been doing the work of stripping these practices down to what's genuinely useful and rebuilding everything inside a framework that is trauma-informed, inclusive, and accessible to ALL bodies + orientations. The sacral center exists in EVERY body. Ancestral trauma lives in EVERY lineage. None of this work belongs exclusively to white cisgender neurotypical heterosexual women + men. Not that they're excluded by any means, but we're not going to center them and pretend they're the only people that exist and erase/make invisible everyone else.
If you've wanted to do this kind of work but every offering you found felt like it wasn't made with any consideration to your existence, I get it. Personally. That's exactly why I've worked so hard to build something that didn't really exist.
Next Intensive will be in the summer.