REAL LIFE

REAL LIFE We create pathways to attain and sustain a thriving life for those who desire change.

Our mission is to develop a relationship with each person we serve (as we refer to them, Lifers) that equips them to make the visible progress necessary for their personal pathway to a Thriving Life. Along the way, we engage the community and bring awareness to the needs of Lifers. Our work meets a standard of accountability we call compelling stewardship that allows us to engage Lifers with a level of service and financial effectiveness seldom seen.

For this Meet Us Monday, we are excited to feature Chelsea Rarrick-Cleary, who has been a longtime member of the Board o...
02/17/2026

For this Meet Us Monday, we are excited to feature Chelsea Rarrick-Cleary, who has been a longtime member of the Board of Directors for REAL LIFE. Chelsea’s connection to REAL LIFE began early in her career. As she shares, “I first met Founder and Director Dr. Sarah Scarbrough when I was a reporter covering the REAL Program at the Richmond City Justice Center. Our paths crossed again years later while working at the Richmond Police Department, and it was there that I had the opportunity to see REAL LIFE’s work up close and firsthand. Watching the program’s impact and the genuine commitment to helping people rebuild their lives only deepened my belief in its mission.”

She is also the Director of External Communications for Markel, where she leads media relations and external communications initiatives across the company’s U.S. and Bermuda insurance divisions.

Throughout her career, Chelsea has held leadership roles in journalism and public affairs, including serving as Director of Public Affairs for the Richmond Police Department. She began her career as a television reporter in Central New York and brings nearly 15 years of experience in strategic communications, reputation management, and public engagement.

“As someone who has always believed in the power of second chances and meaningful change, I was honored to join the Board of REAL LIFE in 2021,” Chelsea says. “I am always inspired by the stories of Lifers and the resilience, growth, and hope that REAL LIFE helps make possible.”

Chelsea lives in the area with her husband, Thomas, and their son, with another child joining their family this spring. In her free time, she enjoys reading and is always on the hunt for a great thriller. Chelsea has supported REAL LIFE across different seasons, and her leadership continues to strengthen our mission and our community. We are thankful for her partnership and steady presence. 

02/14/2026

POV: You work at REAL LIFE and Jessica says “I love you” instead of goodbye.

To. Everyone.

Reactions included:
👀 elite side-eye
😂 immediate, awkward laughter
🫢 stunned silence
❤️ “love you too” solidarity

It’s Valentine’s Day. We’re leaning all the way in.

Drop a 💘 if you’d survive a Jess goodbye.

02/13/2026

It’s Friday the 13th, and unfortunately… the real horror story is our empty towel closet.

Cue the suspenseful music. The dramatic zoom. The single lonely washcloth.

But then… here comes the sun, our supporters. ☀️

We’re officially out of towel sets for new Lifers coming in, and every order from our Amazon Wishlist (bit.ly/reallifewishlistamazon) helps make sure the next person walking through our doors is met with comfort, dignity, and a space that feels ready for them from day one.

Will you supply a towel set this weekend and help us restock our REAL Houses?

No final girl moment required. Just fresh towels, a few clicks, and a community that refuses to let the linen closet win.

For Black History Month, we are continuing to highlight the people who inspire our team. Rachel, a Recovery Navigator wi...
02/13/2026

For Black History Month, we are continuing to highlight the people who inspire our team. Rachel, a Recovery Navigator with REAL LIFE, chose Frederick Douglass as her hero.

“The person I choose is Frederick Douglass. Born into slavery, he endured unimaginable hardships, escaped, and became a powerful writer and gifted orator who used his voice to expose the realities of slavery and help uplift others out of bondage.”

Frederick Douglass published "Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass" in 1845, a firsthand account that shocked readers and became one of the most influential anti-slavery books of its time. He later advised President Abraham Lincoln, advocated for the enlistment of Black soldiers during the Civil War, and continued championing civil and voting rights long after slavery was abolished.

Stay tuned as more members of the REAL LIFE team highlight the Black leaders whose stories still move us to lead with courage and purpose.


02/12/2026

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Happy Workforce Wednesday! This week, we’re celebrating Michael who is a carpenter at a general contracting company. Mic...
02/11/2026

Happy Workforce Wednesday! This week, we’re celebrating Michael who is a carpenter at a general contracting company. Michael does a little bit of everything, which includes construction, remodeling, and maintenance. Whether he’s fixing what’s broken, building something new, or even shoveling snow on cold winter days, Michael takes pride in showing up and doing quality work.

“I’ve always loved carpentry,” Michael shared. “Building something, fixing things, working with my hands. I just enjoy getting up and going to work. I really like this job.”

That dedication recently paid off with a raise, and we love seeing employers recognize the effort our Lifers put in every day. We’re proud of Michael for his hard work, consistency, and commitment.

Congratulations on the raise, Michael! we’re cheering you on as you keep moving forward.

02/11/2026

With the 2026 Winter Olympic Games happening right now in Italy, we put the team to the test with one question:

What is twizzling?

Roll the tape to almost everyone confidently saying figure skating… but plot twist, it’s actually ice dancing, an entirely separate event with its own rules and judging. Think ballroom dancing on ice, more rhythm and footwork in unison, and absolutely no flying triple-quad-axel-salchow-thingies allowed.

A twizzle is a fast, traveling, one-foot turn performed in sync with a partner, and we hear it’s way harder than it looks… not that anyone on staff has even considered attempting it on dry land, let alone ice. ⛸️

Accuracy was… ambitious, so we’re awarding a Gold Medal for Humor to Demetrius for confidently answering, “Eating Twizzlers.” 🏅

Be honest, did your guess stick the landing… or was it a full-on wipeout?

We are proud to share that Dr. Sarah Scarbrough, our Founder and Director, has been named to the 2026 Women Who Drive Ri...
02/10/2026

We are proud to share that Dr. Sarah Scarbrough, our Founder and Director, has been named to the 2026 Women Who Drive Richmond class.

Presented by the Richmond Times-Dispatch with the Richmond Raceway, this recognition honors women whose leadership and impact continue to move Richmond forward. Call it leadership with horsepower.

Sarah’s vision, dedication, and heart for this city continue to inspire our team and the communities we serve every day, and we are honored to see her recognized alongside such an accomplished group of women. And if you know Sarah, you know she’s never been one to stay in park.

Please join us in congratulating Sarah on this well-deserved recognition.

For this  , we are so excited to welcome Melissa Chase to the REAL LIFE Board of Directors.Melissa is a familiar face an...
02/09/2026

For this , we are so excited to welcome Melissa Chase to the REAL LIFE Board of Directors.

Melissa is a familiar face and voice to many in Richmond. She has built a career centered on storytelling, connection, and giving people something to feel good about. Melissa is a Kent State University graduate and began her career in media while still in college, landing an internship at Q94 in Richmond that quickly turned into an on-air role. That experience set the course for a long and impactful career in radio and television.

Over the years, Melissa has served not only as a morning show host but also in leadership roles, including Program Director, Operations Manager, and Vice President of Market for radio in Houston. After the pandemic, she came back to Richmond and into television, where she now hosts and helps shape a local lifestyle show designed to highlight nonprofits, small businesses, and the people doing meaningful work in our community.

Melissa’s connection to REAL LIFE goes back many years. She first met Dr. Sarah Scarbrough through media work and has supported REAL LIFE through radio segments, community events, the coat drive, and most recently as the host of our golf tournament. What resonates most with her is REAL LIFE’s belief in second chances and the way it creates space for people to change their lives. 

She lives in Richmond with her husband, Tyler, and has two daughters, London and Ruby. Outside of work, Melissa is proudly crafty and can usually be found with a glue gun in hand. She loves camping, music festivals, and making resin charms from four-leaf clovers she finds and gives away for good luck.

We are grateful for Melissa’s heart, perspective, and commitment to meaningful change, and we are honored to welcome her to the REAL LIFE Board of Directors!

Before kickoff and commercials take over tonight, our REAL LIFE Alumni Program already had its own winning lineup earlie...
02/08/2026

Before kickoff and commercials take over tonight, our REAL LIFE Alumni Program already had its own winning lineup earlier this week. Think chili, vision boards, Super Bowl squares, and plenty of time to reconnect, laugh, and dream big about what’s next.

As REAL LIFE alumna Katie shared, “It was a night filled with laughter, genuine connection, and meaningful conversations, offering a chance to bond, celebrate how far we’ve come, and feel inspired about the road ahead together.”

From cheering each other on to setting new goals, this is REAL LIFE graduate pride in action. The journey doesn’t end at graduation, and this community proves it every time they come together.

Playbooks for the pros. Vision boards for our graduates. What goal are you chasing this year, and which team is ready to rewrite their story after a rough season?

For Black History Month, we are highlighting individuals who inspire our team. Marvin, a Life Coach with Project SAF (Sa...
02/07/2026

For Black History Month, we are highlighting individuals who inspire our team. Marvin, a Life Coach with Project SAF (Safe, Alive, and Free), chose Nelson Mandela as his hero.

“The person I choose is Nelson Mandela because he defied the odds. After serving 27 years in prison, he became South Africa’s first Black head of state and the first president elected in a fully representative democratic election.”

Nelson Mandela was a South African anti-apartheid leader who spent 27 years in prison for fighting racial injustice and inequality. After he was freed, he helped bring people together and became the country’s first Black president.

At REAL LIFE, we honor that same spirit of dignity, resilience, and restoration. Nelson Mandela’s journey reflects the power of perseverance and the belief that even after immense hardship, individuals can rise, lead, and help shape a more hopeful path forward.

We are excited to celebrate two nominees today for Flourishing Friday! Our first nominee is Joy, nominated by Pathway Na...
02/07/2026

We are excited to celebrate two nominees today for Flourishing Friday! 

Our first nominee is Joy, nominated by Pathway Navigator Melissa. Joy recently earned a promotion at her job, a reflection of the hard work and consistency she brings to everything she does. Even after graduating from the program, she continues to show up as a positive role model in the house, offering encouragement and support to others. Joy remains deeply committed to her recovery and is doing well across the board. 

Our second nominee, James D., was nominated by Young, Senior Pathway Navigator and Housing Manager. Young shared that he is impressed by James’s dependability and follow-through. James says REAL LIFE has helped him build financial stability, maintain his sobriety, and stay disciplined and focused on his goals. His steady commitment and quiet presence speak volumes, and we are proud to celebrate his growth.

Congratulations to both of our nominees for the way they continue to grow, lead, and flourish. We are happy to celebrate you today!

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