REAL LIFE

REAL LIFE We create pathways to attain and sustain a thriving life for those who desire change.

Our mission is to develop a relationship with each person we serve (as we refer to them, Lifers) that equips them to make the visible progress necessary for their personal pathway to a Thriving Life. Along the way, we engage the community and bring awareness to the needs of Lifers. Our work meets a standard of accountability we call compelling stewardship that allows us to engage Lifers with a level of service and financial effectiveness seldom seen.

12/24/2025

In Home Alone, Kevin’s family wasn’t headed to London. Italy is still not a city (looking at you, Maurice). And Madrid was a strong, but incorrect guess, Jasmine.

The correct European city is revealed in the video, and let’s just say… not everyone was on la même page.

Proof that Trivia Tuesday keeps us humble and entertained every time.

12/20/2025

Five years after graduating from our program, a Lifer recently returned to REAL LIFE with his family, not because he needed help, but because this community is still home. Once a Lifer, always a Lifer.

Through our Alumni Program, individuals stay connected long after they move out on their own. Ongoing support, meaningful relationships, and continued engagement help ensure that recovery and stability last well beyond graduation. What begins here continues for years to come.

Every gift adds a leaf to our Tree of Hope, helping ensure that hope grows here for Lifers and families at every stage of the journey.

Give today or sponsor a need at realliferva.squarespace.com. Thank you for helping hope grow.

12/20/2025

It’s National Tacky Sweater Day 🎄
The sweaters were loud, the puns were aggressive, and the REAL LIFE team showed up fully committed to festive behavior. Zero regrets, maximum cheer, and absolutely no shame in the knit game.

DeShawn interpreted “tacky” as “Raiders merch,” and honestly, we respect the confidence. (And yes, this post was written by one of the beleaguered Commanders fans on staff.)

12/19/2025

Today, for Thankful Thursday, we are deeply grateful for the individuals, families, and groups who adopted children through our Angel Tree. Because of you, more than 70 children will experience a Christmas filled with joy, care, and magic. For many of our Lifers, this season also marks an important milestone, their first sober holiday and a first step in rebuilding relationships with their children.

Demetrius, one of our Life Coaches, shared this after delivering gifts to families today:
“Many of my clients’ families had no idea how they’d provide for their loved ones this Christmas. They were incredibly grateful for the support. What amazed them most was the level of care in granting their children’s wishes. One parent said it felt like someone talked to Santa and knew exactly what their child asked for. This is truly a blessing.”

We are also so thankful for the volunteers from St. James Episcopal and members of our community who came together to wrap and sort gifts. It was truly a team effort, and because of you, hope showed up in a very real way.

Thank you for making this season brighter for the families we serve.

12/18/2025

The only thing we love at REAL LIFE more than holiday spirit is a little healthy competition. We challenged each of our 11 recovery residences to build a gingerbread house, and they absolutely delivered!

This year, our staff had the tough job of voting on their favorites, and we have a clear winner. The winning gingerbread house was created by House T. Peer House Leader Paul shared, “It was a fun holiday activity that we all enjoyed together.”

Congratulations to the winning team and to all of our houses for bringing creativity, teamwork, and holiday spirit to the challenge. Happy holidays from all of us at REAL LIFE!

Today we’re celebrating Daryl, who recently graduated from our program and moved into his own place. This is such an exc...
12/18/2025

Today we’re celebrating Daryl, who recently graduated from our program and moved into his own place. This is such an exciting milestone, and we couldn’t be more proud of the hard work, growth, and consistency that helped him get here.

To make the transition a little easier, our Deputy Director Jessica put together one of her signature new home baskets, filled with cleaners and household essentials. It’s a small but meaningful way to make sure our Lifers walk into their new space feeling supported, prepared, and celebrated.

Congratulations, Daryl. You’ve earned this moment, and we’re cheering you on as you take this next step forward.

Project SAF (Safe, Alive, and Free) staff recently attended the Department of Criminal Justice Services (DCJS) Statewide...
12/17/2025

Project SAF (Safe, Alive, and Free) staff recently attended the Department of Criminal Justice Services (DCJS) Statewide Community of Practice Conference, which brought together law enforcement, local government, and nonprofit organizations from across Virginia focused on reducing violent crime.

Mike, REAL LIFE’s Violence Prevention Initiative (VPI) Program Coordinator, was especially impacted by the Keynote speaker Jens Ludwig, Distinguished Service Professor at the University of Chicago. Mike shared, “He had a really insightful presentation about the research he conducted for two decades surrounding gun violence in the city of Chicago. His findings were that most shootings could be accredited to interpersonal conflict, especially arguments that frequently occurred on one particular block in the city.”

This insight mirrors what REAL LIFE sees every day through Project SAF. When conflict is addressed early and people are met with compassion, accountability, and support, violence can be prevented before it escalates. We are deeply grateful to DCJS for convening this conference and for their continued support, which makes this important collaboration possible. We also appreciate the opportunity to strengthen our approach alongside partners across the Commonwealth, and we extend our sincere thanks to the Project SAF team for the meaningful, on-the-ground work you do each day to promote safety, healing, and peace across the Tri-Cities.



For Workforce Wednesday, we are highlighting Elvis, who recently received a raise at a Richmond hotel where he works as ...
12/17/2025

For Workforce Wednesday, we are highlighting Elvis, who recently received a raise at a Richmond hotel where he works as a Houseperson. Elvis takes pride in keeping the space clean, welcoming, and comfortable for every guest, and he is always ready to step in wherever help is needed.

When asked what he loves most about his job, Elvis said, “The people are really nice, especially the guests that come into the hotel, and the coworkers are the best!”

Congratulations, Elvis! Your hard work is paying off, and we are so proud of you.

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