Flow Mental Performance Counseling and Consulting - Flow-MPCC

Flow Mental Performance Counseling and Consulting - Flow-MPCC Psychotherapy

Stop adding insight in tight moments.Under pressure:Novelty → Load → HesitationFamiliarity → Stability → Ex*****onThe br...
02/21/2026

Stop adding insight in tight moments.

Under pressure:
Novelty → Load → Hesitation
Familiarity → Stability → Ex*****on

The brain under stress narrows bandwidth.

New instruction increases working memory demand.

Familiar cues bypass deliberation and activate automatic motor systems.

When the environment is volatile, recognition stabilizes performance.

In practice, build skill through exploration.

In competition, protect ex*****on through familiarity.

Doing beats thinking when it matters most.



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Timing is everything. ( #6 of Series)Great coaching isn’t about saying more — it’s about saying the right thing at the r...
02/16/2026

Timing is everything. ( #6 of Series)

Great coaching isn’t about saying more — it’s about saying the right thing at the right time.

In volleyball, there are three communication windows:

1) In-play / between points
Peak arousal = minimal bandwidth.
This is where short, stabilizing cues matter most.

2) Rotations / substitutions
Brief recovery window.
Anchor attention, reinforce patterns, keep it simple.

3) Timeouts / between sets
Cognitive recovery returns.
This is the moment for structured technical and tactical guidance.

The mistake coaches make is trying to teach during the wrong window.

Sometimes the best intervention is strategic silence.

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Coaching post #5 Every feedback moment has two channels.One delivers information.The other delivers a state signal.If t...
02/11/2026

Coaching post #5

Every feedback moment has two channels.
One delivers information.
The other delivers a state signal.

If the regulation signal says “threat,” the instruction won’t land.
State determines access.

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Mental Performance Coaching #5Emotion moves faster than instruction.In high-pressure sport environments, athletes don’t...
02/08/2026

Mental Performance Coaching #5

Emotion moves faster than instruction.
In high-pressure sport environments, athletes don’t process feedback like a lecture. They absorb state first.

Before a single word lands, they’ve already read:
your posture
your pace
your facial expression
your urgency level
your emotional steadiness

That is the real message. Language matters—but it arrives late.
The nervous system is already reacting.

So the coaching goal shifts:
Don’t just deliver information.
Deliver regulation.
Because under pressure, calm spreads faster than correction. Www.flowmpcc.com

The Sideline Signal ( #4)Coaches aren’t neutral.They are regulatory signals.Athletes don’t just process instruction — th...
02/03/2026

The Sideline Signal ( #4)

Coaches aren’t neutral.
They are regulatory signals.

Athletes don’t just process instruction — they absorb a coach’s state. Tone, posture, pace, and presence shape performance before words land.

A grounded coach transmits stability.
A dysregulated coach transmits threat.

You can’t out-instruct a nervous system in alarm.

Presence isn’t extra.
It’s part of the intervention.

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Regulation Precedes Instruction ( #3 of Series)You can’t coach skills that the nervous system can’t access.When an athle...
01/31/2026

Regulation Precedes Instruction ( #3 of Series)

You can’t coach skills that the nervous system can’t access.

When an athlete is dysregulated, attention narrows, timing breaks down, and skills that exist in practice disappear in competition. Not because the athlete “forgot,” and not because the instruction was wrong — but because the system isn’t available.

Regulation is the gatekeeper.

State determines whether instruction lands or turns into noise. This is part of a series on coaching through the emotional, cognitive, and behavioral foundations of performance — where learning actually begins

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing a short series on the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral foundations of coach...
01/27/2026

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing a short series on the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral foundations of coaching — the mechanisms that shape performance long before technique does.

Feedback doesn’t enter athletes as information first. It enters as a state signal — shifting regulation, attention, and access to skill.

That’s why the same cue can stabilize one athlete and unsettle another:
not because the words changed, but because the state and context did.

Feedback isn’t neutral. It’s a state signal.

One thing I’ve learned over time is that players don’t really hear feedback the way coaches think they do.They feel it f...
01/25/2026

One thing I’ve learned over time is that players don’t really hear feedback the way coaches think they do.

They feel it first.

They feel the tone, the timing, the presence, the emotional temperature of the moment. Under pressure, that shapes how the words land far more than the words themselves. You can give the same instruction two different ways and get two completely different outcomes.
That’s not psychology theory — it’s just people. Nervous systems read safety before they read content.

The best coaches I’ve known have always understood this without needing language for it. They don’t just teach volleyball; they steady the space the volleyball is happening in.
Mental performance isn’t something extra. It’s already built into how we show up, how we speak, and how we respond when things get tight. www.flowmpcc.com

01/24/2026

Some nice infographics from the workbook series. Available on Amazon

A comprehensive look at types of coaching feedback
01/24/2026

A comprehensive look at types of coaching feedback

Mock up. Of a promotional materials. Stay tuned.
10/23/2025

Mock up. Of a promotional materials. Stay tuned.

10/18/2025

🌊 Exciting News!

I’m thrilled to share the launch of a new dimension of my practice — Flow Mental Performance Coaching & Consulting (Flow MPCC).

This project brings together two decades of experience in psychology and my passion for supporting athletes, coaches, and families. Flow MPCC focuses on building mental performance skills that strengthen focus, emotional regulation, confidence, and resilience — both on and off the court.

Currently, I’m developing a mental performance workbook for parents, athletes, and coaches, designed to make evidence-based tools clear, practical, and game-ready.

More to come in the weeks ahead — including resources, workshops, and pilot opportunities.

📩 If you’re a coach, athlete, or parent interested in learning more, feel free to message me or drop a comment below.

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Ridgefield, CT
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Wednesday 4pm - 9pm
Friday 4pm - 8pm

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+12032460000

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