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11/29/2025

Winter Coat Drive Donate to Your Local School *
You can donate your clean, and gently used items to your local elementary, middle, or high school.
Items needed: coats, gloves, hats, scarves, heavy socks, boots, sweaters, sweat shirts and snow pants.
* Contact your local school for more information.

11/29/2025

Saturday, November 29

Good Saturday morning!!!! Hope that everyone is doing well. We are closed today. However, you can find us at the Riverfront in Ravenswood at 9:00 a.m. for our annual Turkey Trot Run For Freedom 5k Run/Walk. Join us!!!

9:00 a.m. Turkey Trot 5K
6:00 p.m. NA

November 29, 2025
Flexibility through Life's Storms
Page 344

"The open-mindedness we practice in our recovery gives us the ability to be flexible when things change in ways we hadn't expected."

Living Clean, Chapter 6, "Getting Out of Our Own Way"

Trees are commonly associated with qualities like strength and resilience, qualities that can help us endure the difficulties of getting and staying clean. Living life on life's terms involves experiencing all sorts of weather patterns--plenty of sunshine and warmth, followed by patches of cold, rain, storms, and snow. Some of us work so hard to hold everything in our lives together, only to find ourselves having a complete breakdown when someone takes our seat at the meeting. If we take a lesson from trees, we'll see that the more rigid and inflexible we are, the more easily we can be shattered.

Palm trees might not strike us as especially strong. They are often associated with beaches and easy breezes--and do they even look all that sturdy compared to, say, an oak? However, those skinny, seemingly weak palms lay down firm root structures and, when a powerful storm comes, they are able to lean with the wind. The visible part of the tree above the surface is flexible and resilient, as strong roots secure it from beneath.

Our lives will become tumultuous from time to time. We have disagreements with coworkers or partners. People in public annoy us. We find our usual seat at our home group occupied and have to sit somewhere else. We can become rigid and defiant, refusing to bend. Or we can move toward open-mindedness, willing to give a little here and there as needed, so we don't snap when the pressure is on. When our roots are firmly secured in recovery, we tend to find the flexibility we need.

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I cannot control the weather, but I can practice flexibility. I will plant myself firmly in the NA program, knowing that I can bounce back from any feelings that may come to pass.

11/28/2025

Friday, November 28

Good morning and Happy Friday!!! TGIF! We will be closed today and will see everyone bright and early on Monday morning. Hope that everyone has a restful weekend. If you need us, you can message us on here.

6:00 AA Potluck
7:00 AA Speaker meeting

ATTRACTION, NOT PROMOTION

Through many painful experiences, we think we have arrived at what that policy ought to be. It is the opposite in many ways of usual promotional practice. We found that we had to rely upon the principle of attraction rather than of promotion.

-TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 180-81

While I was drinking I reacted with anger, self-pity and defiance against anyone who wanted to change me. All I wanted then was to be accepted by another human simply as I was and, curiously, that is what I found in A.A. I became the custodian of this concept of attraction, which is the principle of our Fellowship's public relations. It is by attraction that I can best reach the alcoholic who still suffers.

I thank God for having given me the attraction of a well-planned and established program of Steps and Traditions. Through humility and the support of my fellow sober members, I have been able to practice the A.A. way of life through attraction, not promotion.

11/27/2025

Thursday, November 27th

Good morning! We hope that everyone has a safe and Happy Thanksgiving! We are closed today.

Our community members really showed up and showed out yesterday. We didn't get any pictures of the huge feast that we were blessed to be able to provide. Thank you to everyone that came to share a meal with us, everyone that donated yummy sides and desserts, thank you Tressie for the turkey and taters, and we are super grateful for all of the help in the kitchen.

Thanksgiving isn't always a time filled with joy and love. If you are struggling, please reach out. Make today the first day of the rest of your life! There is still a meeting available this evening at 6:00 p.m.

6:00 NA

November 27, 2025
Humbly Asking for Help
Page 342

"We all go through times when we need help of one kind or another. Asking for help may be as principled and as difficult as anything we ever do."

Guiding Principles, Tradition Seven, "For Members"

Moving into our first apartment clean, learning how to pay bills on time, going to a funeral or a wedding for the first time in recovery, asking someone to sit with us while the craving to pick up passes--life on life's terms presents us with opportunities to ask for help on a daily basis. Our old way of thinking--shaped by self-centeredness and denial--guards a myth that equates asking for help with weakness.

It takes a great deal of courage to push past the impulse to do all of this on our own. We cultivate humility as we surrender our excessive pride. We ask for and receive support from other members and find the courage to face new emotions and experiences. One member shared, "Today, I see that asking for help is our greatest source of strength."

At times, life shows up and hits us square in the face. No matter how good a program we work, life still has its ups and downs. We all suffer losses. Success, at first so unfamiliar, can be challenging as well. And often we feel ill equipped to handle life on life's terms alone. The good news is that we don't have to.

The hardest part of getting help may be asking for it. We don't feel worthy and may think of ourselves as a burden. We swallow our pride and turn to more experienced NA members for help. As awkward as that might be, our requests are typically met with graciousness. Having navigated many of life's obstacles clean, they're usually delighted to share their wisdom and offer support. The joys of helping another addict don't end when we attain X number of years.

Learning how to be self-supporting does not mean that life's challenges become a solo endeavor. By practicing humility, we learn what our limitations are, establish some healthy boundaries, and set out in new directions that develop our strengths.

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Today I will challenge my old ways of thinking by asking someone about their experience and opening myself up to their support.

We do still have donuts, cookies and plenty of bread
11/26/2025

We do still have donuts, cookies and plenty of bread

UPDATE: it is all gone!!!!We got an abundance of donations today. Come get some. We have pies, fruits, veggies, side sal...
11/26/2025

UPDATE: it is all gone!!!!

We got an abundance of donations today. Come get some. We have pies, fruits, veggies, side salads.

11/26/2025

Wednesday, November 26

Good morning and Happy Wednesday! We are open from 9-5 today. Come eat with us!!!!

12:00 Thankgiving Dinner (FREE) All are welcome!!!!
12:30 Fellowship
7:00 AA

THE HAZARDS OF PUBLICITY

People who symbolize causes and ideas fill a deep human need. We of A.A. do not question that. But we do have to soberly face the fact that being in the public eye is hazardous, especially for us.

-TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 181

As a recovered alcoholic I must make an effort to put into practice the principles of the A.A. program, which are founded on honesty, truth and humility. While I was drinking I was constantly trying to be in the limelight. Now that I am conscious of my mistakes and of my former lack of integrity, it would not be honest to seek prestige, even for the justifiable purpose of promoting the A.A. message of recovery. Is the publicity that centers around the A.A. Fellowship and the miracles it produces not worth much more? Why not let the people around us appreciate by themselves the changes that A.A. has brought in us, for that will be a far better recommendation for the Fellowship than any I could make.

11/25/2025

Tuesday, November 25

Good morning! We hope that everyone has a TERRIFIC Tuesday! We are open from 9-5 today and getting ready for dinner tomorrow at noon. Join us for food, fellowship and gratitude!

12:30 NA
6:00 NA

November 25, 2025
Practicing Forgiveness, Forgoing Resentments
Page 340

"Forgiveness is an action and a decision. We need a lot of forgiveness, and we also get to provide it."

Living Clean, Chapter 7,

Working the Twelve Steps of NA teaches us to make decisions for ourselves and take deliberate actions in our lives. We no longer allow circumstances and our disease to dictate our every move. We choose to practice forgiveness and try not to worry too much about when and if our loved ones forgive us. (We\'d been pretty rotten at times, after all.) We focus on matters that are in our control and do the work necessary to forgive ourselves and others. NA service provides plenty of opportunities to apply this spiritual principle. As we serve alongside fellow members, it\'s almost inevitable that we\'ll bump heads from time to time. For the most part, we manage to set aside our disagreements, uniting to support the addict who still suffers. But practicing unity does not neutralize the need for forgiveness. \"Despite acting in unity, I was still holding a grudge,\" a member shared. \"It occurred to me that service might be more pleasant if I would forgive some of those I serve with.\" Many of us have taken a turn standing on the NA soapbox in defense of what we believed was best for the Fellowship. We can forgive others for being irritatingly passionate because we\'ve been that, too. Instead of keeping a record of each other\'s worst moments, we can make a decision to focus on the good work they\'re doing. We adjust our perspective to take the bigger picture into account. None of us is all good or all bad. By practicing forgiveness, we allow ourselves and others to be human. Sure, we make mistakes, but our worst moments don\'t need to define us. By practicing forgiveness, we can shift our focus and appreciate the strengths each of us brings to the table.

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I choose to practice forgiveness today. I\'ll revisit some old resentments, take positive action on any unresolved issues, and let go of any lingering bitterness. I will accept people as they are now.

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