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Relationship building is the foundation to peaceful, joyful birthing experiences! Each birthing woman embarks on a Sacred Journey, creating a unique story all their own. Sacred Journey Midwifery strives to provide the care and creativity to support each of these journeys, functioning from a paradigm of a trauma-informed practice. Together, we build a trusting relationship as we gain wisdom that pregnancy and birthing have to offer.

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Martin Couney was never a doctor. He never held a license. He never set foot in a medical school. And yet, he saved over 7,000 lives.

In the early 20th century, premature infants were widely considered "weak" or "errors of nature"—too frail to deserve a future.

At a time when eugenicists argued, "let them die," Couney offered a defiant response: “Let’s try to save them.”

He saw hope where the medical establishment saw only a lost cause. Lacking the support of major hospitals and official medicine, Couney did the unthinkable to fund his mission: he turned it into a spectacle.

The protagonist of this story, the "incubator doctor," was Martin Couney. Little is definitively known about him, though he was likely born in Germany around 1870.

It remains unclear where he studied—he claimed to have trained with an apprentice of the French obstetrician Stéphan Tarnier, who invented the first incubator—and there is no verified proof he was a medical doctor, despite what he declared and what was printed in his New York Times obituary.

Couney's revolutionary idea took shape after being inspired by the work of Tarnier, who had modeled the first infant incubator on a device used to hatch chicken eggs—a poultry brooder.

Couney took this concept and showcased it to the public at the Berlin World's Exposition in 1896.

He exhibited a new incubator model and, crucially, included premature babies inside them. This decision added a dramatic, realistic touch to the scientific demonstration, creating an exhibit called "Kinderbrutanstalt" ("Children's Hatchery").

This "Children's Hatchery" immediately became a massive popular attraction. Though conceived as a scientific demonstration, it quickly morphed into a highly profitable spectacle.

Couney was soon invited to present his exhibit, complete with nurses, midwives, and doctors, at fairs and amusement parks worldwide. Immediately after Berlin, he went to London, where his approach was surprisingly praised in an article by the prestigious medical journal, The Lancet.

Couney's spectacle eventually found a permanent home at the Coney Island Sideshow in New York. It was a bizarre, almost unbelievable sight: a medical exhibit presented as a sideshow.

He set up a pavilion at the heart of the world’s most famous amusement park—Coney Island. Right next to the Ferris wheels and the cotton candy vendors, he showcased premature babies housed inside revolutionary incubators.

Why this unorthodox approach? It was the only way to pay for the care.

While esteemed hospitals rejected the infants and official medicine ignored his methods, Couney provided meticulous care, warmth, and dedication.

He financed this lifesaving work solely through the admission tickets purchased by curious visitors. The exhibit was operational from 1903 to 1943.

Couney used state-of-the-art incubators imported from France, where neonatal care was far more advanced than in the US.

These glass and steel machines used a boiler to heat water that circulated through tubes beneath the baby's bedding, while filtered air was constantly brought in from outside.

Couney was masterful at manipulating public emotion. The large sign outside read, "All the World Loves Babies," and the tiny infants, often dressed in doll clothes that seemed overly large to emphasize their smallness, stirred sympathy.

While many exhibits of the era exploited people for profit, Couney’s sideshow fundamentally allowed the exposed babies to survive, as most would have died without this specialized care.

Babies generally came from poor families. The 25-cent entrance fee funded everything—costing about $15 per baby per day (about $405 today), a cost prohibitive for most families. For many parents, Couney's spectacle was the only chance to save their premature child.

His career was controversial; he was called an impostor and a charlatan, and the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children accused him of exploitation. Yet, Couney also championed progressive ideas like the critical importance of breast milk.

Over time, Couney's success began to draw the attention of leading US pediatricians. Some even personally brought premature babies to be placed in his incubators.

Julius Hess, considered the father of American neonatology, became a professional collaborator and friend. Developmental psychologist Arnold Gesell visited in 1939 to film the infants.

Couney died on March 2, 1950, just a few years after the first hospital-based premature baby units began appearing in US hospitals—nearly four decades after his Coney Island debut paved the way.

Martin Couney never had a title. But he had vision. He had courage. And above all, he had compassion for those the world had decided to forget.

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Midwives are leaving. Not because the work is too hard. But because the boundaries are too soft.

We aren’t burned out from birth.
We’re burned out from everything around it.

From the student who says she wants to learn but never takes a note, never shows up early, never stays late—and posts selfies instead of questions. The one who isn’t ready, but insists she’s “called.” The one who confuses proximity with preparation.

From the client who ghosted the intake form for six weeks, paid in $40 chunks while shopping for photographers, then got upset when you didn’t jump to respond at 10 p.m.

From the woman who knew you just had a baby—but still asked, “Will you be back by October? I just really want you.”

From the chronic boundary testers. The ones who don’t mean harm—but still text too much, ask too little, book late, pay slow, and expect your availability to remain sacred while they treat it casually.

And you, the midwife, are trying to hold it all with grace.
Trying not to sound harsh.
Trying to be understanding.
Trying to be “accessible.”

But let’s be clear:

> The perception of midwifery has been diluted by this lack of clarity.

You’re not seen as a professional.
You’re seen as the help.
Flexible. Affordable. Personal. Bendable.
And quietly replaceable.

And when you finally crack—when you raise your fee, set your phone to silent, or say “this apprenticeship isn’t working”—you’re the villain.
Cold. Unavailable. Gatekeeping.

But the truth is, you should have said no months ago.

No to the student who isn’t ready.
No to the client who wouldn’t commit.
No to the emotional leakage that slowly turned your schedule into chaos.

Because when we don’t say no, midwifery gets cheapened.
When we let people treat our sacred work like casual service, it affects how every other midwife is perceived.

And it’s not sustainable.

This is why the turnover rate is so high.
This is why midwives disappear.
Not because of birth itself—but because we’re slowly extracted by people who say “I love your care” but don’t actually honor it.

Midwives—listen:

You are not selfish for protecting your time.
You are not rude for releasing a client.
You are not harsh for ending an apprenticeship that drains your spirit.
You are not “money hungry” for charging what this work costs you to hold.

You are the gatekeeper.
And when you forget that, everything spills out.
Not just your time, but your joy.

So tighten the gate.
Say it early.
Say it clearly.
Say it without shame.

Because your calling wasn’t meant to be handed over to indecision, performance, or passive abuse.

It was meant to be guarded.

And if no one else will say it—here’s your reminder:

You can be kind and still be closed.
You can be generous and still charge your full rate.
You can be called and still say:

> “You’re not mine. And I won’t carry what wasn’t assigned to me.”

That’s not unloving.
That’s holy.

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Your feelings after birth can change—and that’s okay.

In the early days or weeks after giving birth, many of us feel a deep sense of gratitude and relief. Even if the birth didn’t go as planned—if it was chaotic, scary, or unexpected—we often find ourselves saying, “Well, at least we got through it.” We might feel thankful for those who were with us. We might even send flowers, gifts, or notes of appreciation.

Pam England calls this early stage the Gate of Gratitude and Relief, part of her “Nine Birth Story Gates.” She also refers to it as the “fruit basket phase”—a time when we’re simply relieved it’s over and grateful to be holding our baby.

But as time passes, feelings can shift.

You may begin to revisit the birth in your mind.
You may wonder what could’ve been different.
You may start to question decisions made—by yourself or others.
You may think about how things could be different next time.
And you might feel things you weren’t expecting: confusion, grief, anger, disappointment.

This is all normal.

Processing a birth story is not a one-time event. It unfolds over time, especially once the immediate intensity of postpartum life begins to ease.

Your thoughts and emotions are allowed to evolve. You don’t have to feel the same way now as you did in those early days.

And if you find yourself unsettled—if there’s a tug in your heart or a story that keeps circling back—you don’t have to navigate that alone.

✨ There is space for your story, as it truly is.
✨ There is space for every feeling.
✨ There is a way forward.

Do you relate to feeling Gratitude and Relief after birth? Did this change over time? Share your experience.

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