03/05/2026
Feeling close to your partner but not sure if you feel committed? You’re not alone. There’s actually a name for it 💙
Research shows that for fearful avoidant individuals, closeness can trigger a push-pull conflict where you crave intimacy while you simultaneously pull away from it.
Unlike dismissing avoidants, who can lean into closeness once it’s established, fearful avoidants often remain stuck in relational ambivalence even when the love is real.
The good news? Awareness is the first step toward change 🌱
At the Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness, we support individuals and couples in understanding their attachment patterns and building the secure, fulfilling relationships they deserve!
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