Shea Marie Phinney MFT

Shea Marie Phinney MFT She helps people communicate better, build resilience, and create healthier relationships.

Shea Phinney, LMFT, is a trauma-informed therapist, wellness educator, & relationship coach specializing in evidence-based tools for couples & first responders.

In the rearview mirror —lights flashing,a line of brothers and sisters showing up.What most people don’t see is what hap...
02/15/2026

In the rearview mirror —
lights flashing,
a line of brothers and sisters showing up.

What most people don’t see is what happens behind the badge when the lights turn off.

Officer su***de is a reality our profession continues to face. Not because officers aren’t strong — but because the job asks the nervous system, the mind, and the heart to carry more than most people will ever understand.

We’re honored to host Travis Howze for an upcoming event focused on resilience, and sustaining yourself in work that demands everything.

This conversation matters.
Not just for performance.
Not just for leadership.
But for life.

If you serve — this space is for you.

https://facebook.com/events/s/travis-howez/1199745935462365/?mibextid=wwXIfr

01/19/2026

The call eventually ends.
The shift eventually ends.

But the impact of the work doesn’t always stop there.

Join us on March 14th for Travis Howze as he talks about post traumatic growth, resilience and what it means to carry the weight of first responder work in a sustainable way. This is an important conversation about responsibility and recovery for first responders and their families.

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01/14/2026

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Episode 2 of Breaking Formation is out!   Merryl talks Shatter the Sky!   Watch it on Youtube … or listen to it on ihear...
01/11/2026

Episode 2 of Breaking Formation is out! Merryl talks Shatter the Sky!

Watch it on Youtube … or listen to it on iheart, Spotify, iTunes!

And don’t forget to like and subscribe !🤍

Have you ever had a dream that was 30 years in the making? In this episode of Breaking Formation, join us for a special inside look at the creation of the "S...

01/11/2026

Horses heal 🫶🏻🤍💙

01/10/2026

When we’re around horses, something powerful happens—often before we even realize it.
That’s because horses are deeply connected to the limbic system and the nervous system, both theirs and ours.

Horses are prey animals. Their survival has depended, for millions of years, on the ability to sense danger quickly and respond instantly. Because of this, their limbic system—the part of the brain responsible for emotion, safety, bonding, and threat detection—is highly developed and always online.

Unlike humans, horses don’t spend much time in the thinking, analytical part of the brain.

They live limbic resonance - their emotional and sensory. This means they are constantly scanning their environment—and the nervous systems around them—for cues of safety or danger.

A horse doesn’t ask, “Are you okay?”
Their nervous system already knows.

Horses communicate largely through nonverbal signals: posture, breath, muscle tension, energy, and heart rhythm. This is where the nervous system and the heart come in.

A horse’s heart is large produces a strong electromagnetic field, about 5 times greater than a humans. This means horses are not just reacting to our movements, but also to our physiological state.

When a human is anxious, stressed, or emotionally guarded, the heart rhythm becomes irregular. The nervous system shifts toward a state of alert or defense. Horses can feel this immediately.
They may step away, become restless, or mirror that tension.

But when a human slows their breathing, softens their body, and settles into a regulated nervous system, something different happens.

The heart rhythm becomes more coherent—steady, rhythmic, and predictable.
This coherence sends a signal of safety.

Horses respond to this almost instantly.

You may notice the horse lowering their head, licking and chewing, sighing, or stepping closer. These are signs that the horse’s nervous system is also moving toward regulation. This is called co-regulation.

In many ways, horses act as living biofeedback systems.
They reflect back what is happening inside us—without judgment, without words, and without story.

Because horses rely so heavily on their limbic system, they invite us out of our thinking minds and into our bodies. They teach us that safety isn’t something we think our way into—it’s something we feel.

When we regulate our nervous system—through breath, presence, and grounded awareness—the horse feels it. And when the horse settles, our own nervous system often follows.

This is why time with horses can feel so calming, emotional, or even healing.
They don’t change us by doing anything at all.

They change us by being regulated in our presence and inviting our nervous system to match them.

01/09/2026

Self regulation… sometimes you have dance and be a little silly ….🤪

A regulated nervous system IS the calm in the chaos.   💟What are some ways that you stay calm?
01/05/2026

A regulated nervous system IS the calm in the chaos.

💟What are some ways that you stay calm?

This is self regulation. 💙
01/03/2026

This is self regulation. 💙

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