Gone Graving

Gone Graving I'm a Junior in High-school and a Boy Scout. GraveGeek!

I work with local historians and Preservationists to research and fix up old abandoned cemeteries throughout the State of New York.

Today, I want to take a moment to honor Private Robert Stickles, who served in Company H of the 9th New York Heavy Artil...
11/11/2025

Today, I want to take a moment to honor Private Robert Stickles, who served in Company H of the 9th New York Heavy Artillery.

Robert enlisted on August 15, 1862, at the age of 25, in Galen, New York. He was mustered in as a Private on September 8th. Robert was later promoted to Corporal on April 2, 1865, and was discharged on July 6, 1865 — after nearly three years of service.

He fought in some of the hardest campaigns of the war, including the Battles of Monocacy and Cedar Creek, where the 9th New York Heavy Artillery held their ground under intense fire. These were brutal fights that helped decide the war’s outcome, and Robert was there through it all.

During his time in service, he even managed to find a moment of normal life — marrying Antoinette Moon in 1863. When the war was over, he returned home to live the peaceful life of a farmer, trading his musket for a plow, like so many soldiers of his generation.

His headstone now stands broken, weathered by time, but the legacy behind it remains strong. Every name like his deserves to be remembered — not only for their service, but for the lives they lived after the war ended.

When I come across stones like Robert’s, I’m reminded why this work matters. It’s about more than repairing marble or cleaning away moss — it’s about honoring the people who helped shape our history.

On this Veterans Day, may we remember Pvt. Robert Stickles, and all those who served before and after him. Their sacrifices built the freedoms we enjoy today.

Thank you to all who have served, past and present. Your stories will not be forgotten.

Spent some time out at the Maple Grove Cemetery in Clyde today working on a few Civil War veterans. I straightened and r...
11/08/2025

Spent some time out at the Maple Grove Cemetery in Clyde today working on a few Civil War veterans. I straightened and raised three stones that had started to sink and lean over the years. A couple of the markers are broken and deteriorated, and I plan to replace those soon. A lot of the men are veterans from the 111th New York Infantry.

It’s always humbling work, seeing the progress that you make over the years.

“A nation that forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten.” — Calvin Coolidge

11/08/2025

Raising the headstone of Thomas James Luddy

My season is finally over, so it's time for a recap! Butler: 1 cleaned and 5 repairedRose: 3 monuments cleaned, 1, five ...
11/01/2025

My season is finally over, so it's time for a recap!

Butler: 1 cleaned and 5 repaired

Rose: 3 monuments cleaned, 1, five piece monument stood up, 1 repair, and abt 50 cleaned.

Huron: 50 stones repaired and/or straightened, 9 stones in the process for next spring—which means that the bases are poured or the whole stone is out of the ground that I was going to do repair work to that I didn't have a chance to finish this year. 14 stones cleaned.

Galen: 17 stones straightened, and 7 cleaned.

Village of Galen (Clyde). 9 stones cleaned.

Wolcott: 15 stones cleaned.

Walworth: 1 stone straightened.

Marion: 4 stones straightened. My project for next year!

Palmyra: 4 stones cleaned.

Williamson: 1 headstone cleaned.

To top it off, I recently joined the Palmyra camp #111 of the Sons of Union Veterans of the Civil War. I’ll be photographing veterans’ headstones throughout Wayne County and learning how to apply for replacement stones — with help from my friend Daryl.

Stay tuned for Civil War veteran headstones, symbolism deep-dives, and what’s coming next spring! I still have some cleans and repairs to post.

Here’s to another great season of preserving history!

Interesting
10/30/2025

Interesting

10/29/2025

Repairing the headstone of Lucy Allen.

Took a little step out of Wayne County this weekend...
10/26/2025

Took a little step out of Wayne County this weekend...

Working with the GraveGeeks in Albany, NY today.
10/25/2025

Working with the GraveGeeks in Albany, NY today.

10/24/2025

Examples of why not

Today was an interesting day.The day started off at the Lusk Cemetery in Walworth, where Alex and I straightened a heads...
10/19/2025

Today was an interesting day.

The day started off at the Lusk Cemetery in Walworth, where Alex and I straightened a headstone from 1821. Helen then drove us to the Hall Center Cemetery in Marion, where we straightened 3 headstones and one base. I hope to work row by row, but I'll definitely get distracted. I then saw a little piece of marble sticking out of the ditch. It turns out that it was a decorative piece from the top of a stone. While digging I came across some rocks that I turned into some steps to get up the steep slope into the cemetery. While doing that I was called in as suspicious activity. An officer showed up, asked us what we are doing, we showed him some work and he was curious about the repair process. We then called it a day.

10/17/2025

Winegar Hill Cemetery, Butler, NY

Address

Rose, NY
14516

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Gone Graving posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Practice

Send a message to Gone Graving:

Share

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn
Share on Pinterest Share on Reddit Share via Email
Share on WhatsApp Share on Instagram Share on Telegram

Category