Gone Graving

Gone Graving I'm a Junior in High-school and a Boy Scout. GraveGeek!

I work with local historians and Preservationists to research and fix up old abandoned cemeteries throughout the State of New York.

Just filed the paperwork to secure new government headstones for three veterans buried in Huron. Each of these markers w...
11/25/2025

Just filed the paperwork to secure new government headstones for three veterans buried in Huron. Each of these markers will replace older stones that have become worn, damaged, or unreadable over time, helping ensure their service is properly remembered. Over the winter, I’m hoping to continue researching additional veterans, confirming their service records, and submitting more replacement requests so that more of these graves can be accurately marked and preserved for future generations.

Don't worry, I'll try to repair the originals once we put in the replacements.

James F Gurnee: War of 1812
Smith Sebeer & John W Barton: Civil War and both died during service.

11/19/2025

Cleaning the headstone of Louis Owens

I’ve taken it upon myself to scan nearly all the photographs in the Wolcott Historical Society’s archives. Many of these...
11/19/2025

I’ve taken it upon myself to scan nearly all the photographs in the Wolcott Historical Society’s archives. Many of these images have names written on the back and have never been digitized before. Let me know if you’d like to see a few of them.

The first photo I’m sharing is labeled “John McCham home, 1890.” The note on the back reads: “Harvy & Ruby started keeping house in east end of home then bought the home where we are.”

I’ve been unable to find any record of a John McCham living in Wayne County. I suspect “McCham” may be a misspelling of McCann, especially since this isn’t the only museum photo with that name written on it.

Added 2 new folks to my 9th New York Heavy Artillery collection. The one on the left is wearing an officer's uniform. Bo...
11/16/2025

Added 2 new folks to my 9th New York Heavy Artillery collection. The one on the left is wearing an officer's uniform. Both men are unknown.

Hey, fellow cemetery preservationists!Let’s see some of your favorite before-and-after shots in the comments!I’ll start ...
11/14/2025

Hey, fellow cemetery preservationists!
Let’s see some of your favorite before-and-after shots in the comments!

I’ll start us off.

Today, I want to take a moment to honor Private Robert Stickles, who served in Company H of the 9th New York Heavy Artil...
11/11/2025

Today, I want to take a moment to honor Private Robert Stickles, who served in Company H of the 9th New York Heavy Artillery.

Robert enlisted on August 15, 1862, at the age of 25, in Galen, New York. He was mustered in as a Private on September 8th. Robert was later promoted to Corporal on April 2, 1865, and was discharged on July 6, 1865 — after nearly three years of service.

He fought in some of the hardest campaigns of the war, including the Battles of Monocacy and Cedar Creek, where the 9th New York Heavy Artillery held their ground under intense fire. These were brutal fights that helped decide the war’s outcome, and Robert was there through it all.

During his time in service, he even managed to find a moment of normal life — marrying Antoinette Moon in 1863. When the war was over, he returned home to live the peaceful life of a farmer, trading his musket for a plow, like so many soldiers of his generation.

His headstone now stands broken, weathered by time, but the legacy behind it remains strong. Every name like his deserves to be remembered — not only for their service, but for the lives they lived after the war ended.

When I come across stones like Robert’s, I’m reminded why this work matters. It’s about more than repairing marble or cleaning away moss — it’s about honoring the people who helped shape our history.

On this Veterans Day, may we remember Pvt. Robert Stickles, and all those who served before and after him. Their sacrifices built the freedoms we enjoy today.

Thank you to all who have served, past and present. Your stories will not be forgotten.

Spent some time out at the Maple Grove Cemetery in Clyde today working on a few Civil War veterans. I straightened and r...
11/08/2025

Spent some time out at the Maple Grove Cemetery in Clyde today working on a few Civil War veterans. I straightened and raised three stones that had started to sink and lean over the years. A couple of the markers are broken and deteriorated, and I plan to replace those soon. A lot of the men are veterans from the 111th New York Infantry.

It’s always humbling work, seeing the progress that you make over the years.

“A nation that forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten.” — Calvin Coolidge

11/08/2025

Raising the headstone of Thomas James Luddy

My season is finally over, so it's time for a recap! Butler: 1 cleaned and 5 repairedRose: 3 monuments cleaned, 1, five ...
11/01/2025

My season is finally over, so it's time for a recap!

Butler: 1 cleaned and 5 repaired

Rose: 3 monuments cleaned, 1, five piece monument stood up, 1 repair, and abt 50 cleaned.

Huron: 50 stones repaired and/or straightened, 9 stones in the process for next spring—which means that the bases are poured or the whole stone is out of the ground that I was going to do repair work to that I didn't have a chance to finish this year. 14 stones cleaned.

Galen: 17 stones straightened, and 7 cleaned.

Village of Galen (Clyde). 9 stones cleaned.

Wolcott: 15 stones cleaned.

Walworth: 1 stone straightened.

Marion: 4 stones straightened. My project for next year!

Palmyra: 4 stones cleaned.

Williamson: 1 headstone cleaned.

To top it off, I recently joined the Palmyra camp #111 of the Sons of Union Veterans of the Civil War. I’ll be photographing veterans’ headstones throughout Wayne County and learning how to apply for replacement stones — with help from my friend Daryl.

Stay tuned for Civil War veteran headstones, symbolism deep-dives, and what’s coming next spring! I still have some cleans and repairs to post.

Here’s to another great season of preserving history!

Interesting
10/30/2025

Interesting

10/29/2025

Repairing the headstone of Lucy Allen.

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