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Merry Christmas to all who celebrate. This season is often filled with joy, tradition, and togetherness, yet it can also...
12/25/2025

Merry Christmas to all who celebrate. This season is often filled with joy, tradition, and togetherness, yet it can also bring stress, grief, or feelings of loneliness. It is important to remember that both experiences can exist at the same time. Caring for your mental health during the holidays may mean slowing down, setting boundaries, or simply allowing yourself to rest. The heart of Christmas lies in connection, compassion, and hope — values that nurture both our spirits and our well-being. From our practice to you and your loved ones, we wish you peace, warmth, and moments of comfort this holiday season.

As Hanukkah begins, we celebrate the Festival of Lights and the enduring themes of resilience, hope, and community. Ligh...
12/25/2025

As Hanukkah begins, we celebrate the Festival of Lights and the enduring themes of resilience, hope, and community. Lighting the menorah each night is a powerful reminder that even in times of darkness, light can prevail. For many, this season is not only about tradition and family but also about finding moments of reflection, connection, and renewal. Mental health is deeply supported by these practices of gathering, sharing, and honoring what brings meaning. Whether you observe Hanukkah yourself or stand in solidarity with those who do, may this holiday be a time of peace, joy, and healing. From our practice to all who celebrate, we wish you eight nights filled with warmth, light, and love.

Being present during the holidays doesn’t mean everything feels joyful, calm, or perfect. It means allowing yourself to ...
12/22/2025

Being present during the holidays doesn’t mean everything feels joyful, calm, or perfect. It means allowing yourself to be where you are—without rushing, numbing, or judging your experience.

Being Present can look like:
✨ Awareness of your breath and physical sensations when emotions rise
✨ Letting go of distractions to connect, even briefly
✨ Allowing moments to be meaningful instead of flawless
✨ Honoring your limits and taking breaks when needed

You don’t have to savor every moment or enjoy every tradition. Presence is about awareness, compassion, and intention—one moment at a time.

This holiday season, give yourself permission to slow down, tune in, and define “present” in a way that supports your well-being.

The holidays can bring joy, connection, and celebration—but they can also stir up anxiety, overwhelm, and pressure to me...
12/21/2025

The holidays can bring joy, connection, and celebration—but they can also stir up anxiety, overwhelm, and pressure to meet expectations or “feel happy.” If you’re noticing stress rising this season, you’re not alone.

✨ A few gentle reminders:

🎄It’s okay to set boundaries around your time, energy, and finances

🎄You don’t have to attend every event or meet every expectation

🎄Rest is productive—especially during busy seasons

🎄Your feelings are valid, even if they don’t match the holiday “vibe”

Try grounding yourself in the present moment: take deep slow breaths, take a walk, or pause to notice what feels supportive right now. Small acts of self-care can help regulate your nervous system and create space for calm.

If the season feels heavy, reaching out for support—whether from a trusted person or a mental health professional—can make a meaningful difference. You deserve care, compassion, and peace this holiday season.

Is a coworker oversharing or asking for help? Have you been feeling burnt out, or did a sudden bill at home leave you in...
12/19/2025

Is a coworker oversharing or asking for help? Have you been feeling burnt out, or did a sudden bill at home leave you in a lurch? Has a recent diagnosis significantly impacted your ability to be successful at work? Sometimes, it can be hard to know when it is time to seek help. It is important to remember that there are resources everywhere that can help you, so think about this if you feel you or a coworker needs some support:

1) Look into your Employee Assistance Program (EAP) – Many companies are beginning to offer employee assistance programs, where everyone pitches in to support coworkers in need. These programs offer referral resources, counseling services, daycare assistance, and more.

2) Ask HR – They might direct you to the EAP if your company has one. However, if they don’t, Human Resources may be able to direct you to other options within or near work. They can also support you in taking a Leave of Absence, or applying for short-term or long-term disability if needed.

3) Use your Community Resources – There are programs everywhere that support those struggling with food or housing insecurity, paying an overdue bill, and more. You may have donated to one of those places in the past. This is what they are for – if you need it now, give that local agency a call or stop by when they are open.

4) Talk with your Providers – Have a conversation about your concerns with your Primary Care Physician or or Mental Health Therapist so they can help support you through this time.

The Growth We Don’t NoticePause for a second. Close your eyes if you can. Take a deep breath in… and let it out slowly. ...
12/16/2025

The Growth We Don’t Notice

Pause for a second. Close your eyes if you can. Take a deep breath in… and let it out slowly. This year might have felt demanding. You juggled work deadlines, family expectations, and unexpected challenges. Yet, you somehow still found time to grow.

Maybe growth looked like noticing your own limits before they knocked you over. Maybe it was letting yourself rest when the world expected you to keep going. Perhaps it was having the courage to speak up even when your voice shook. Sometimes growth felt quiet, almost invisible, like a seed slowly taking root beneath the surface. We may not notice it yet, but profound growth
is quietly unfolding.

Even in the chaos, you adapted, you persisted, and you discovered a little more about who you are. So take another breath, and let it sink in: You did not just survive this year, you grew in the ways that mattered.

Today is National Cupcake Day, a sweet reminder that small joys can make a big difference for our well-being. Taking tim...
12/15/2025

Today is National Cupcake Day, a sweet reminder that small joys can make a big difference for our well-being. Taking time to celebrate simple pleasures — whether it is enjoying a favorite treat, sharing a laugh with a friend, or pausing for a moment of gratitude — can lift our spirits and reduce stress. Just like cupcakes, life is made up of many little moments that, when appreciated, bring comfort and connection. While balance and mindfulness are key, it is also important to give ourselves permission to enjoy the things that make us smile. Today, we encourage you to savor something that brings you joy, big or small, and share that sweetness with others.

It’s the holiday season and an exciting time for so many reasons! One thing that may be tough is having that vacation co...
12/13/2025

It’s the holiday season and an exciting time for so many reasons! One thing that may be tough is having that vacation conversation with your boss – especially if everyone in your office wants that day after Christmas off. We all want to play with our toys, but making plans for our time away from work is a necessary aspect of planning (and getting approval) for that time. Keep this in mind when planning or talking about PTO around the holidays:

1) Inform early – Let your team and boss know ahead of time that you will be out on these specific dates. This promotes transparency, collaboration, and increases the likelihood of approval.

2) Be firm in your boundaries – State clearly and in an email that you will not be available on particular days. If your job requires you to check email or complete a specific task when you’re away, be clear about when that will happen, such as at 9 am daily, after lunchtime, before end of day, or on a designated date.

3) Plan Ahead – Collaborate with your team and/or boss to determine how the critical aspects of your role will be covered while you’re gone.

4) Set up your Out-of-Office – It produces a good feeling to put that away message on your email, doesn’t it? Remember to do your best to turn it on and leave it be.

5) Follow Through – Maintain your boundaries and enjoy your time off with loved ones – you deserve it!!!

Growth happens not through perfection, but through how we respond to our experiences—especially the difficult ones. Two ...
12/12/2025

Growth happens not through perfection, but through how we respond to our experiences—especially the difficult ones. Two core practices support this process: reframing mistakes as learning opportunities and validating your emotional experience.

Reframe mistakes as learning opportunities.
Mistakes are not evidence of failure—they are moments of information and experiences.
When viewed through a growth-oriented lens, missteps become valuable feedback about patterns, needs, and areas for development.
Shifting from “I shouldn’t have done that” to “What can I learn from this?” reduces shame and encourages healthier problem-solving.
This mindset fosters resilience, adaptability, and long-term progress.

Validate your emotional experience.
Emotions are messages, not flaws.
Acknowledging what you feel—without minimizing, dismissing, or judging—creates emotional clarity and reduces internal conflict.
Validation sounds like: “It makes sense that I feel this way, given what I experienced.”

When emotions are understood rather than ignored, individuals are better equipped to regulate, reflect, and respond constructively.

Integrating these two practices supports a compassionate internal environment where growth becomes more accessible. When emotions are honored, and mistakes are viewed as opportunities, personal development is guided by understanding rather than criticism—allowing space for meaningful, sustainable change.

During the holiday season, we see smiling faces, holiday cheer, and festive decorations everywhere. So why do we sometim...
12/08/2025

During the holiday season, we see smiling faces, holiday cheer, and festive decorations everywhere. So why do we sometimes feel… the opposite?

Behind the scenes, you’re juggling holiday shopping, social events, family gatherings, and the pressure to appear joyful when you’re mentally drained. When everything on the outside feels like a Hallmark movie, but the inside feels like tangled Christmas lights, it can create a disconnect that’s confusing and exhausting.

That’s where boundaries can make a real difference. Here are a few to make this holiday season brighter:

● Say “no” when you need to. Holiday magic starts with self-care
● Leave an event early to treat yourself to some quiet time.
● Take festive breaks. Cocoa, cookies, and blankets are mandatory.
● Ask for help. Even Santa has helpers.

The holidays are supposed to feel warm and joyful, not like a never-ending to-do list. Give yourself permission to enjoy this season in a way that feels right for you.

On Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day, we pause to honor the lives lost on December 7, 1941, and recognize the courage of thos...
12/07/2025

On Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day, we pause to honor the lives lost on December 7, 1941, and recognize the courage of those who served and sacrificed in the aftermath. This day is not only about remembering history but also about acknowledging the profound emotional impact such events leave behind. The memories of war, loss, and resilience remind us of the importance of caring for both physical and mental well-being. For veterans, service members, and families, the legacy of Pearl Harbor carries deep meaning. As we reflect, may we hold space for grief, gratitude, and healing, and reaffirm our commitment to supporting those who continue to carry the weight of service and sacrifice.

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