11/07/2025
Mind you we don't live in the same country, she lives in the US and I live outside the US. I asked her how do you expect us to get $150k, my wife was rounding up with housemanship then so she wasn't making much. Like you are not working full time, and you want big wedding. Cut the long story short, she kept pushing me to take out loans and send the money to her, I told her never I won't. In her words "after all you will be moving to the US and you won't have to pay the loan back." Well the wedding happened, the evening of the wedding thanksgiving, my mother inlaw asked me how do we intend on paying the loan back? I asked my MIL, she said didn't your wife tell you we took out loans for the wedding. My wife was called into the room and my wife said well I took a loan behind your back since you refused to take a loan and send the money to me. My wife took out loans and credit card of $150k, I started crying. This loan caused a big issue for us. When I moved to the US, whenever I touched her she would reject my advances. For 6 months until I got fed up and reported her to her mum. We don't even have car. We just finished paying this loan some months ago. Remember, I wasn't living in the country, so as soon as I got in I found a small job to start paying off something I wasn't in agreement to. We were living paycheck to paycheck, we are still using 1 of her mum's car with the hope of getting ours soon. The marriage is s*xless, no physical contact, I'm better off single than married. I'm only grateful she brought me to the US.