12/03/2025
✨ What Couples Should Talk About Before Buying Gifts for Each Other ✨
Navigating gift-giving in relationships can bring up excitement… and sometimes stress.
Before you shop, try having a quick conversation around these topics:
🎁 1. Expectations
Are you doing small thoughtful gifts? Big gifts? No gifts? Getting clear prevents misunderstandings.
💰 2. Budget
Agree on a spending range that feels good for both of you. Avoid secret resentment later.
💞 3. Meaning vs. Material
Do you prefer sentimental gifts, practical gifts, shared experiences, or surprises?
Knowing each other’s love languages truly helps.
🗓️ 4. Timing
Will you exchange early? Morning-of? At an event? Simple clarity reduces anxiety.
🗣️ 5. Feelings About Gifts
Some people love surprises, others get overwhelmed. Share your comfort level so gifting feels safe and connecting.
Healthy communication is love.
And small conversations prevent big conflicts. 💛
—
Megan Paterson, LMFT #53371
Couples Therapy • EMDR • Yoga-Informed Healing
📍 Rocklin, CA | In-person & Telehealth
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