02/20/2025
The world is struggling to find peace and meaning. That has been going on since humanity appeared, and maybe even before that. Sometimes that struggle for peace and meaning is expressed by aggression, or withdrawal, or addictive behavior, or other unhelpful approaches.
These negative behaviors are intended to achieve a goal i.e. to make life better: ๐ฎ๐ด๐ด๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป often wants to force what is โrightโ and protect one's interests, but cannot achieve that because others will resent and resist; ๐๐ถ๐๐ต๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฎ๐น is usually intended to accomplish being free of conflict, but cannot fully achieve that because the conflict has its root in our own minds; ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ (substance abuse, workaholism, gambling, sexual or eating excesses, and so on) are intended to distract from painful isolation and confusion, but the distraction can only last relatively briefly and often in the end makes the isolation and confusion worse.
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ?
So, where can we find peace, meaning, and rewarding connection with others? I believe that what we refer to as โhomeโ is really pointing to some positive experience, not to a physical structure such as a house or apartment. Our true home is compassion, kindness, joyfulness, and peace. And these are aspects of a truly liberated mind and body.
A house or any place of residence can act as a home, but what that really depends on is the heartfelt connections of the people in that place, and the caring and wise life that those people are living. Every residence is not necessarily a home, and some people never find a home where they can experience the joys of a peaceful and truly meaningful life.
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