03/23/2026
Jealousy is such an interesting thing.
It’s a massive waste of vital life force energy and yet, it’s powerful.
It makes people do really fu***ng weird things, even to the people they love.
Friend.
If you find yourself jealous of someone, especially someone you call your best friend, pause.
Look inward.
Ask yourself what’s really causing that feeling.
Ask yourself why.
But actually LOOK at it.
Don’t deflect discomfort with easy answers like,
“They have it easy,”
“They have something I want,”
“They just got lucky.”
No.
Jealousy often comes from the belief that your worth is tied to having what they have, achieving what they’ve achieved, or arriving where they’ve arrived.
But that literally isn’t true.
You were already magical.
Already worthy.
Simply because you exist as YOU.
How tragic is it to live a life so focused on external validation, on approval, on comparison, that you miss your own magic while resenting someone else’s??
Maybe they worked hard.
Maybe they put in the time.
Maybe they had the right connections or the right skill set.
That’s THEIR path.
Their magic is theirs.
You have no business wanting it for your own.
You steal from yourself wanting it for your own- you see???
Why WOULD you want to be them, and miss out on being YOU?
Because YOU, my love, are here for a reason.
Let jealousy be the indicator that your magic just wants to be honored by you.
And you do deserve that.
Shift your focus INWARD instead of OUT and you will most certainly find it.
It may be hiding under a bunch of monsters you’ve avoided for years but, truly, they just need your love.
I hope you find your magic.
alchemy
