Joe Kort

Joe Kort Joe Kort is a doctor of clinical sexology and licensed clinical social worker www.joekort.com over 680K on TikTok

In my practice, I often see men whose fears about being gay or bis*xual become so intrusive that they take over their da...
12/26/2025

In my practice, I often see men whose fears about being gay or bis*xual become so intrusive that they take over their daily lives. This anxiety can be a form of homos*xual obsessive–compulsive disorder (HOCD), where persistent, unwanted thoughts create overwhelming doubt and emotional distress. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. I wrote an article in Psychology Today exploring HOCD and how it affects both men and women. I’d like to open a conversation about this topic. Please share your thoughts.

Read full article here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201804/homos*xual-obsessive-compulsive-disorder-hocd

Merry Christmas! I’ll be celebrating Christmas while also embracing my Jewish identity. I was raised in a Jewish home, a...
12/25/2025

Merry Christmas! I’ll be celebrating Christmas while also embracing my Jewish identity. I was raised in a Jewish home, and when my father remarried someone who wasn’t Jewish, we celebrated Christmas, too. As a kid, that meant double the presents. As an adult, it means making room for both traditions and appreciating what each brings to my life. How about you?

12/24/2025

In this clip, Dr. Chris Wilson discusses the importance of breaking the “guy code” by speaking up when something is harmful, inappropriate, or dangerous. He shares the story of a young athlete who confronted teammates making jokes about s*xual assault—an act of courage rooted in his own understanding of how deeply those comments can wound. Moments like these illustrate how essential it is for men to challenge harmful behavior, even when it feels uncomfortable, because doing so helps create a safer and more respectful culture for everyone.

Dr. Wilson explains that meaningful social change cannot happen until men—particularly cis, straight, heteros*xual men—recognize how patriarchal norms harm them and the broader society. Women have carried the burden of pushing for change for generations, and it is time for men to share that responsibility. Breaking the guy code is a crucial part of that work.

Listen to the full episode here: https://joekort.com/dr-chris-wilson-patriarchy/

Connect with Dr. Wilson: https://centerforhealthierrelationships.com/

For decades, I’ve worked with men who feel confused or ashamed because their experiences don’t fit neatly into how s//xu...
12/23/2025

For decades, I’ve worked with men who feel confused or ashamed because their experiences don’t fit neatly into how s//xual orientation is often discussed. This post outlines 9 reasons some straight-identified men may engage in same-s//x behavior, many of which are rooted in trauma, emotional needs, anxiety, power dynamics, validation, or circumstance rather than attraction.

Behavior alone does not define identity.

Context matters.

Feeling left out when others seem to be enjoying holiday gatherings without you? That could be a sign of attachment-rela...
12/22/2025

Feeling left out when others seem to be enjoying holiday gatherings without you? That could be a sign of attachment-related symptoms rooted in past experiences—maybe times you felt excluded by family or social groups. This kind of FOMO can appear even during holiday celebrations, making you feel like you’re on the outside looking in. If this resonates with you, know that you’re not alone. Let’s talk about it.

Happy Holidays. May the season bring peace and health for all of us.
12/22/2025

Happy Holidays. May the season bring peace and health for all of us.

In my latest Psychology Today article, I explore the complex reality of family estrangement and why it happens, when it ...
12/21/2025

In my latest Psychology Today article, I explore the complex reality of family estrangement and why it happens, when it becomes necessary, and why repair can still matter. While some relationships are truly irreparable, I believe we have moved too quickly toward cutoffs in recent years. Estrangement is deeply personal for me, and I share my own story of stepping away from my mother and eventually finding a path back to compassion, clarity, and connection. Reconnection does not erase the past, but it can offer a meaningful closing chapter. My hope is that this piece helps both therapists and clients approach these painful decisions with nuance, courage, and an open heart.

Read full article here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/202511/estrangement-compassion-and-coming-home

The number one reason I see people struggle in relationships is boundaries—too rigid, too flexible, or just missing alto...
12/20/2025

The number one reason I see people struggle in relationships is boundaries—too rigid, too flexible, or just missing altogether. Often, people fear that setting a boundary will lead to abandonment or conflict, especially if their past experiences have taught them that boundaries push people away. The truth is, setting boundaries is a way to see who respects your needs and who doesn’t. It can be scary, but it’s also a crucial step in understanding who truly belongs in your life.

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12/19/2025

“People ask, ‘What rights have been taken from trans people?’
How about the right to peace of mind.
The right to walk down the street without fear.
The right to be represented when our lives are being debated.”

In this powerful moment from Smart S*x, Smart Love, Dr. Joe Kort and Kali Scales connect today’s attacks on trans people to the same fear-based tactics once used against gay communities — and why staying silent isn’t an option.

Kali Scales is running for Michigan State Representative, District 5, and her campaign is rooted in dignity, safety, and real representation.

👉 Support Kali’s campaign: https://votekaliscales.com/
🎧 Listen to the full episode: https://joekort.com/kali-scales-candidate/
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Imago Relationship Therapy teaches that romantic love is not an accident but an invitation into healing. We are drawn to...
12/19/2025

Imago Relationship Therapy teaches that romantic love is not an accident but an invitation into healing. We are drawn to partners who reflect the unfinished parts of our story, and the “power struggle” that emerges after commitment is not a sign that something is broken. It is the doorway to growth. Imago helps couples understand the patterns beneath their frustrations and transform conflict into connection and repair. If you and your partner are ready to explore this work, please contact our front office at 248-399-7447.

Talking about s*xuality, especially pleasure, is still treated as taboo, even in therapy offices. Too many mental health...
12/18/2025

Talking about s*xuality, especially pleasure, is still treated as taboo, even in therapy offices. Too many mental health professionals were never trained to discuss s*xual concerns without shame or discomfort, despite s*xuality being central to a person’s well-being. As Doug Braun-Harvey says, “When it comes to s*x, the most uncomfortable people in the room are those who have all the power.” Clients should not have to educate their therapists or hide parts of themselves to feel safe. Mental and s*xual health are inseparable, and it is time for our field to treat them that way.

Read full article here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/202209/the-important-intersection-mental-and-s*xual-health

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