09/12/2025
Unlike these photos, marriage is not black and white. 10 years ago today, Adam and I said “I do.” We made a commitment right then and there that we were it for one another. Since then, I learned that we live in the space between black and white.
The gray… where hard work and choosing each other over and over, even on the hard days, is necessary. We’ve had hurdles, unheard voices, heartache, and resentment. We’ve had really hard talks and have gotten more vulnerable with one another to the point of uncomfortability. No, marriage isn’t easy in the least. But we’ve also had bright days, hard conversations that made us feel so open and grateful, a lot of laughter, and growing together. If you are not growing separately as well as together, you might need to ask yourself why.
Adam is my trigger and my teacher and vice versa. Each others mirrors. We receive help to grow and understand one another as well. Marriage is a committment, every day. We have come so far in the past 10 years, and even more growth since the beginning of 2025. It has been a turning point type of year for our marriage.
We are GOOD right now but that didn’t not come without its challenges. I believe we had a soul contract to help each other evolve and I hope we are doing our higher selves proud!
To another 10 years, my love.
