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Mass of Christian Burial for Celine Ann (Truebenbach) Bartel, age 83, of Muenster was held at 10:30 AM on Monday, Decemb...
12/22/2025

Mass of Christian Burial for Celine Ann (Truebenbach) Bartel, age 83, of Muenster was held at 10:30 AM on Monday, December 22, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. Burial followed at Sacred Heart Cemetery. Rosary and Vigil was held at 4:00 PM on Sunday, December 21, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church.
On February 11, 1942, Andrew (Andy) and Margaret (Stoffels) Truebenbach welcomed a beautiful baby girl with dark curls into the world. Within days, she was lovingly presented to the Lord in Baptism by her father and grandparents, Wenzel and Theresia Truebenbach, and given the name Celine Ann Truebenbach. It was a name that fittingly means “heavenly,” a meaning she would live out through her life and fully reclaim at its end.
Celine was the second of seven children, joining her brother Giles and later welcoming siblings Jane, Clifford, Laurie, Andy (“Andy Boy”), and Allen. As the oldest sister, she earned the affectionate name “Sis,” a title she carried proudly and lovingly for the rest of her life. From a young age, Sis helped care for her siblings alongside her mother, a role she embraced with devotion, generosity, and quiet strength—a devotion that continued until each sibling passed to eternal life.
The Truebenbach family first lived in Myra before moving west of Muenster to family land when Celine was about four years old. That land would remain close to her heart throughout her life.
Celine attended Sacred Heart High School, graduating in 1960. She deeply appreciated her Catholic education, a value she later passed on to her children. Through hard work and sacrifice, she and Walter sent all eight of their children through Sacred Heart School. From 1967 until her youngest child graduated in 2007, there was always a Bartel child attending Sacred Heart. Celine, herself, was a lifelong learner, curious and eager to absorb anything of educational value—back in the day, encyclopedia salesmen always knew to stop at the house on the hill.
In the late 1950s and early 1960s, VFW dances brought Pilot Point boys to Muenster. At one of those dances, Celine met a Bartel boy. Though that first date never happened, his younger brother soon stepped in, and a love story began. Celine often spoke of Walter’s caring gestures when she would find wildflowers stuffed in the family mailbox, she knew he had passed through the area on his trucking route. On June 14, 1961, Walter Bartel asked Celine to marry him. On January 6, 1962, surrounded by the Christmas beauty of the new Sacred Heart Church, Celine became Mrs. Walter Bartel, beginning a marriage that would span decades of love, faith, and shared sacrifice. That same church would later host the weddings of all eight of their children.
After their marriage, Walter and Celine lived briefly in Muenster before moving to the Bartel homestead in Pilot Point following the sudden passing of Walter’s father, Frank. There, they helped his mother, Annie, manage the cotton farm. Life on the farm was demanding, and the home lacked modern conveniences, but Celine met the challenge with grit and grace, forming deep bonds with her new family. She stayed connected to her own family through handwritten letters, a testament to her devotion to those she loved.
In October 1962, Celine received the name she cherished most—Mommy—with the birth of their first child, Marceline. As the years passed, her family grew, adding Lorene (1966), Timothy (1967), Terry (1969), Juline (1970), Bernice (1973), Adrienne (1982), and, to her joyful surprise at age 47, Jessica (1989). Her life was filled with babies, laughter, and love across three decades.
In 1971, Walter and Celine purchased a portion of the Truebenbach family land west of Muenster, land that had been in the family for over a century. Together they built a barn first, then a home, moving to their hilltop homestead in 1978. There, Celine poured herself into raising her children—sewing clothes, preparing home-cooked meals, keeping a busy household running smoothly, and making every dollar count. She faithfully drove her children to and from school, practices, and work, all while creating a home filled with warmth and stability.
Celine’s faith was the foundation of her life. She attended Mass faithfully, prayed daily, and taught her children the faith by example—through perseverance, humility, and trust in God. Celine loved the simple joys of life: 1960s country music playing on KGAF, talk radio, Friday nights watching 20/20, summer evenings watching fireflies, and quiet visits with Nanny and PoPo. Celine kept a large garden, where she lovingly grew a variety of vegetables that she canned to nourish her growing family. Her table was always open—anyone who happened to show up on the hill during mealtime was welcome to stay and eat. For decades, Celine lovingly prepared meals each Wednesday and Sunday afternoon, welcoming family, extended family, and friends. Every dish reflected her care, generosity, and the joy she found in bringing people together. Through the years she hosted countless parties and celebrations working to assure all knew they were welcomed in her home. Any holiday, birthday, or celebration was as worthy of one of Mom’s delicious chocolate cakes and a beautifully decorated home—a reflection of the love she poured into everything she did.
Celine was also an amazing baker. After school, the kids were often treated to a snack of fresh-baked bread, a tradition she later shared with her grandchildren as she patiently taught them how to prepare and bake it themselves. A skilled seamstress, Celine created holiday clothes, beautiful baptismal garments and First Communion gowns, each sewn with care and love. As the mother of six daughters in a small town, Celine naturally became an amateur genealogist. Faster than you could say a potential date’s name, Mom would scale the family tree, identify the exact relation, and present airtight documentation explaining why the date was absolutely not going to happen.
She delighted in simple joys—riding the backroads with one of her children, spending time with her bestie, Aunt Pat Truebenbach, and enjoying a strawberry shake. If invited to travel or go anywhere, Mom rarely declined; she was always ready for the next adventure.
As her children grew older, Celine began working and volunteering outside the home. She worked at the Jerrell Petite sewing factory alongside her Aunt Marie and volunteered her time at Sacred Heart in several capacities, including as a cafeteria worker and helping clean the school and rectory.
She embraced a new role as mother-in-law eight times between 1986 and 2014, loving each new addition as her own. Celine’s heart expanded even more when she became Grandma Sissy, a role that brought her immense joy. She welcomed many grandchildren and later great-grandchildren into her life, filling her home with babies, laughter, and unconditional love. Though she endured the heartbreak of losing grandchildren, she carried both joy and sorrow with deep faith and grace.
Celine was a sharp wit, often attributing our family’s sense of humor to the Stoffels side of the family. She loved a good time—especially when it involved everyone. One unforgettable Christmas, she made leopard-print pajamas for the entire family, including all the children and grandchildren. The sons-in-law were particularly surprised to receive their own “special” pajamas.
She delighted in laughter, and if Terry was nearby, he was usually poking, hugging, or teasing her in his lovable way—always to elicit her famous line, “You fool!” delivered with a huge smile on her face. Another of her well-known quips was, “Do you see it hanging off of me?” usually aimed at one of the many children asking for something she simply didn’t have at the moment.
Beautiful inside and out, Celine once mentioned that she liked the color purple. From that moment on, all eight children made sure she received gifts in every shade of purple imaginable—and she graciously accepted every one of them.
In 2021, Celine was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease, which she faced with strength, determination, and dignity. Again in August of 2025 she was dealt a heavy blow when she received the devastating diagnosis of kidney cancer. Celine met this challenge relying on her faith and her unyielding trust in the Lord. Throughout her illness, she was lovingly cared for by her family and supported by the Muenster community. She received compassionate care from Home Hospice of Grayson, Cooke, and Fannin Counties, for which the family is deeply grateful—especially to Rebecca, Pam, Kelly, and Paul. Her final days were filled with love, prayer, and peace.
On December 18, 2025, Celine was called home to her Heavenly Father, reclaiming her baptismal name—Celine, “heavenly.”
Celine was a devoted wife, a selfless mother, a loving grandmother and great-grandmother, and a woman of deep faith. She had a servant’s heart, quiet strength, and an unwavering commitment to her vocation. She was resourceful, generous, and strong, meeting life’s challenges without complaint. She is deeply loved, profoundly missed, and her legacy lives on in the generations she nurtured, taught, and loved so well.
Celine leaves behind a beautiful legacy of love and family. She is survived by her devoted husband, Walter Bartel, with whom she shared a lifetime of love and faith. She was a proud and loving mother to her children: Marceline and her husband Floyd Felderhoff of Midland; Lorene and her husband Jeff Dudley of Pottsboro; Tim and his wife Staci Bartel; Terry and his fiancée Kelli Ford; Juline and her husband Jason Brogdon, all of Muenster; Bernice and her husband George Spaeth of Gainesville; Adrienne and her husband Matt Bauer of Wichita, Kansas; and Jessica and her husband Bo Crabtree of Henrietta.
Celine’s greatest joy was her family, especially her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, who were the light of her life. She is lovingly remembered by her grandchildren and their spouses: Justin and Alison Felderhoff; Chelsea and Drew Gardner; Malyn, Blair, and Tate Dudley; ShyAnn and Chance Rigsby; Dalton and Skyler Bartel; Emily and Brian Fief; Eve Brogdon; Geordan and Matthew Spaeth; Maggie and Seth Bauer; and Kalon Crabtree. Her love continues through her great-grandchildren, Brooks and Lily Gardner; Piper and Harper Rigsby; and Heartly and Lainey Bartel.
Also cherishing her memory are her sister-in-law and best friend, Pat Truebenbach; brother and sister-in-laws Henry and Cecilia Bartel; Lillie Tischler; Dorothy Bartel; Roger Fleitman, George Gould, and Carla Zwinggi along with many dearly loved nieces and nephews.
Celine was joyfully reunited in Heaven with those who went before her, including her parents, Andrew and Margaret Truebenbach; her siblings Giles Truebenbach, Clifford Truebenbach, Jane Fleitman, Laura Gould, Andrew J. Truebenbach, and Allen Truebenbach; her precious triplet grandchildren, Faith Ann, Erin Grace, and Andrew Donald Dudley; and her beloved nephew, Christopher Truebenbach.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorials be made in Celine’s honor to Sacred Heart School or Hospice of Grayson, Cooke, and Fannin Counties P.O. Box 936,Gainesville, TX 76241.

12/20/2025

URGENT UPDATE: Unfortunately, our website said that Celine's Rosary would be held at 6:00 PM tomorrow, Sunday, December 21, 2025. The correct time is indeed 4:00 PM at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. We apologize for any worry or inconvenience this may have caused.

12/19/2025

Mass of Christian Burial for Celine Ann (Truebenbach) Bartel, age 83, of Muenster will be held at 10:30 AM on Monday, December 22, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. Burial to follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery. Rosary and Vigil will be held at 4:00 PM on Sunday, December 21, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church.

Thomas Theodore “Tom” Vogel was born on March 30, 1943 in Muenster, Texas and passed away in Denton, Texas on November 9...
11/28/2025

Thomas Theodore “Tom” Vogel was born on March 30, 1943 in Muenster, Texas and passed away in Denton, Texas on November 9, 2025 at the age of 82. A rosary and memorial mass were held at Sacred Heart Catholic Church on Saturday, Nov. 15, 2025 with Fr. Austin Hoodenpyle and Deacon Gary Endres officiating. The readings were read by cousins Danny Hoenig and Delores Hofbauer. A meal was served by the Catholic Daughters at the KC Hall for his family and friends.
Tom was the third of six children and the first boy born to Theodore Roman Vogel and Marie Hoenig Vogel. He attended Sacred Heart School, graduating in 1961—one of only 8 boys in his class of 21 students. He and his cousin Marge Vogel were voted “Most Witty”. He then worked in the oil and construction business as well as on the family farm.
Tom was drafted into the US Army days after his 22nd birthday: April 1, 1965 and completed his basic training at Ft Polk, LA. He was then stationed in Fort Hood, TX working on tanks as APC’s (Armed Personnel Carrier). While there, his back was injured and had surgery. He said he had “ 60 years of back pain”. He completed his military duty there but drove his blue pickup truck back to Muenster nearly every weekend with cousin, Jim Vogel. Sometimes Tom hurt and had to lay down in the bed of the truck while Jim drove.
Following discharge from the Army he worked driving a truck for Bayer Concrete and then worked in the oil and home construction businesses. One of his favorite sayings was, “If you ain’t hurting, you ain’t living”. He was always a jokester with little jokes or funny stories. He was always so lucky, whether gambling at Winstar, playing bingo, the Super Bowl football pool or at the cake walk at the Thanksgiving picnic—he walked away a winner.
Tom liked the outdoors, trips to Colorado with Dave Haverkamp to go deer hunting, visits with Willard Hartman in Killeen, TX while at Ft. Hood, Sunday car trips and conversations with cousins Lennie, Weldon, Bob and Jim and visits with other friends. He would often say “When I can’t see my mailbox, I get homesick”.
Loved having a big garden—and raised large crops that Tom shared—not with a piece, but a sack of onions, okra, squash, cucumbers and more. He gardened with Dave Haverkamp, then with Roy Klement and then at Weldon Vogel’s community garden in Muenster where he could be found nearly every morning.
He experimented with a bread recipe until he perfected it, making five perfect loaves at a time. He could be counted on to bring fresh homemade bread, sliced and ready for the meal after every funeral. He would give the loaves away to friends like he did the vegetables from his garden.
Tom is survived by his four sisters, Pat and husband Leonard Bayer of Muenster, Helen Patel of Ft. Worth, Janice and husband Karl Browning of Zionsville, IN, and Jeanne Vogel of Plano; sister-in-law Linda Vogel of Muenster; nephews and their spouses: Mike & Charleen Adair, Aaron Patel, Nick Bass, Roman & Julissa Vogel, Phillip Vogel and nieces—Dana Bass and Laura Browning; great-nieces: Kayla Adair, Leela Vogel; great-nephews: Shawn Adair, Theo Vogel and Jettie Bass.
He was preceded in death by his parents and by his brother, Michael “Claude” Vogel, brothers-in-law: Dale Adair and Al Patel, and great nieces/nephews—Kevin Patel, Meredeth Browning and Ascension Vogel. His grandparents were Emil & Anna Vogel and Aloys & Anna Elizabeth “Lizzie” Hoenig.
Tom donated his body to The University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center in Dallas as he was proud to say: “I never finished college, but when I die, I’m going to the University".
He was recognized as a generous supporter of the children of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital with his name on their Legacy Wall display.
The burial of his cremains will be at Sacred Heart Cemetery at a later date.
Memorials, if desired, should be sent to Sacred Heart Trust Fund.

A Funeral Service for Garrett Harry Jamison, age 80, of Saint Jo will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, November 22, 2025...
11/14/2025

A Funeral Service for Garrett Harry Jamison, age 80, of Saint Jo will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, November 22, 2025 at Scott Funeral Home in Saint Jo. Burial to follow at Illinois Bend Cemetery. Visitation will be held from 10:00-11:00 AM on Saturday, November 22, 2025 at Scott Funeral Home in Saint Jo. Garrett passed away on November 2, 2025 to be with our Heavenly Father, his Uncle Ben and his Pop.
Garrett was born in Higgins, Texas on May 17, 1945 to Harry Sanders and Betty Jo (Parnell) Jamison. His family made many moves in Texas but he always called Higgins and Canadian his home. He graduated from Marble Falls ahigh School in 1963 and earned his CFA in 1974. He was in intelligence in the army and was a very proud veteran.
After the military, he began his banking career with the Austin National Bank, Austin, Texas. He started as a teller while in the Army Reserves. He headed up the Trust Department in 1981. In 1987, he was approached to head up the Trust Department at Rainier Bank in Seattle, Washington. His banking career spanned from Austin to the Pacific Northwest to Dallas to Ohio and back to Dallas. He retired from Bank One in 2000 as President of Bank One Trust Co. in 2002, he entered the field of childcare by purchasing Hamilton Academy, a child care and learning center in Farmers Branch, Texas.
He was a member of the Austin Rotary Club, Austin Jaycees, Masonic Lodge, and was the President of the American Heart Association in Austin.
He had many hobbies. He loved mountain climbing: Mount Rainier (while living in Seattle), wheeler Peak, Middle Fork Lake, and Lost Lake in New Mexico. He enjoyed biking, walking, hiking, movies, football and reading. He was an avid reader. He loved driving his 2024 Dodge Ram truck.
Garrett lived his dream of owning a ranch, which he purchased in Illinois Bend, Texas in 2008. He called it the JY Ranch named after the brand given to him by Pop when he was a little boy. He lived out his retirement years working the ranch, sitting on the porch viewing the beautiful land. He had so many blessings in his life. He joined the Montague county Cowboy Church where he and Dianne were married. He loved the Cowboy Church and its culture. He looked forward to going every Sunday. Our minister Joe’s sermons, the band, and the gathering of the children brough him great joy. He was a generous man, a loving husband and father.
After moving to the ranch, when out, he always wore his cowboy boots, hat and vest. He traded BMWs and Porsches for Ram Trucks.
He is survived by his wife: Dianne (Buckman) Jamison of Saint Jo; daughter: Kelly and husband Keith Matheny of Plano; son: Garrett and wife Corine Jamison of Dripping Springs, Texas; grandchildren: Megan Matheny and Madison Matheny; sister: Linda and husband Jerry Grigsby of La Grange, Texas; and numerous extended family and friends.
He was preceded in death by his parents: Harry and Betty Jamison; sister: Jean Ann Lisenbee; grandparents: Garrett C. “Pop Sr. and Ophelia (McAfee) Parnell and Adam and Mae (Sanders) Jamison; uncles: G.C. Parnell who passed during WWII, Ben Parnell, and Sid Parnell; and aunt: Edora Fald.

11/12/2025

A Memorial Mass for Thomas Theodore "Tom" Vogel, age 82, will be held at 10:30 AM on Saturday, November 15, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. A Rosary will be held at 9:45 AM on Saturday, November 15, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. A private burial will be held at a later date at Sacred Heart Cemetery.

11/11/2025

A Funeral Service for Garrett Harry Jamison, age 80, of Saint Jo will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, November 22, 2025 at Scott Funeral Home in Saint Jo. Burial to follow at Illinois Bend Cemetery. Visitation will be held from 10:00-11:00 AM on Saturday, November 22, 2025 at Scott Funeral Home in Saint Jo. Mr. Jamison passed away on Sunday, November 2, 2025.

Mrs. Wanda May (Anway) Clausen, age 88, of Saint Jo passed away peacefully at her home on Sunday, November 9, 2025. A pr...
11/10/2025

Mrs. Wanda May (Anway) Clausen, age 88, of Saint Jo passed away peacefully at her home on Sunday, November 9, 2025. A private service will be held at a later date.
Wanda was born on July 23, 1937 in Eugene, Oregon to John Williams and Emma Elizabeth (Heitzman) Anway. She was the oldest of 7 children.
She married Vaughn Iverial Clausen in Eugene on September 18, 1959. Vaughn and Wanda worked together as Motel Managers for the Motel 6 Corporation. The two were married until Vaughn’s passing in 2013.
Wanda is survived by her daughters: Michelle and husband Mike Borden of Saint Jo, and Rhema Clausen of Marcola, Oregon; son: Lonnie Clausen of Oregon; sister: Mary Roff of Saint Jo, and Lucy Sansom of Veneta, Oregon; 10 Grandchildren; 17 Great Grandchildren; 3 Great Great Grandchildren; and one Great Great Great Grandchild.
She was preceded in death by her husband: Vaughn Clausen; parents: John and Emma Anway; 4 sisters; and her brother.

11/10/2025

Mrs. Wanda May (Anway) Clausen, age 88, of Saint Jo passed away peacefully at her home on Sunday, November 9, 2025. A private service will be held at a later date.

Raymond “Ray” Weldon Ashley of Saint Jo/ Illinois Bend, Texas, aged 82, passed into eternity on May 20, 2025 at his home...
10/29/2025

Raymond “Ray” Weldon Ashley of Saint Jo/ Illinois Bend, Texas, aged 82, passed into eternity on May 20, 2025 at his home in Illinois Bend. He was born in 1942 in Muenster, Texas, to Noble Preston Ashley and Velma Modine Reed Ashley, in the medical clinic that is currently Doc’s Bar and Grill. Noble was sent to Germany to serve as a Military Policeman with the Army at the Dachau concentration camp, necessitating leaving Velma to care for young Raymond back home for several years. They made their home in a small cottage in Corinth in Montague County that had neither electricity nor running water. Their mode of transportation was a horse; fortunately, Velma had a natural affinity with animals.
After the War, Noble returned home and built the family a small home in Saint Jo just beyond the “dip bridge” on the edge of town. Being the first grandson of the family and only child of Noble and Velma, Ray received considerable attention. A second son, Melvin, arrived when Raymond was six, which changed the family dynamics and perhaps threatened Ray’s inclination to play to being the apple of the family's eye; acceptance of his younger brother was slow and at times conditional.
Growing up so near the head waters of the Elm Fork of the Trinity River, where springs flowed freely year-round, was a near paradise for a curious independent young lad. After chores of feeding chickens and pulling weeds in the garden, Raymond enjoyed a great deal of freedom to fish, swim in the creek, hunt squirrels or build tree houses on the stream near his backyard with his cousin H.L. Talley. As Melvin grew, he naturally wanted to follow the example of his adventurous brother. Once, Melvin begged to go up a tree; Ray obliged by hoisting him onto a high limb then proceeded to wander away leaving Melvin stranded. When Noble returned from work, Melvin was recused and Ray found himself at the receiving end of some discipline. One particularly warm spring day, Raymond decided it was barefoot weather and went to school shoeless. Again, he found himself disciplined by Noble when his spirited actions became known to his father.
Ray’s independent inclinations were also evident in school, where reading took a back seat to recess. Mumbletypeg and marbles were the games of choice. Spinning tops to knock marbles out of a ring drawn in the sand proved to be quite lucrative for Ray. For the rest of his life, he kept all those marbles he won on the playground.
Several teachers played a major role in forming Raymond’s outlook on life and instilled much needed motivation that would eventually turn his laissez faire attitude towards academics into determination to succeed. Fourth grade teacher Jewel Ritchie helped tame his rebelliousness and taught him that obedience alleviated a lot of decision-making anxiety, a lesson he would heed throughout his life. Once on a field trip to Denton, sitting on the stairs of the historical building at what was then North Texas State College, Mrs. Ritchie said to him, “Raymond, this is where you’ll go to college.”.
As Raymond matured his leisure interests changed from spinning tops for marbles and chunking clods of dirt at the girls to attending movies and seeking opportunities to earn a few bucks. He picked up pecans in the fall and mowed lawns in the summer, sold Grit magazine to steady customers. With some of the money he earned he treated himself to Saturday morning movies at the Saint Jo Theater where Roy Rogers or Gene Autry serials always ended in a cliff hanger, ensuring the crowd would return the following Saturday to see the resolution. Raymond loved the movie theater so much that he badgered the owner until he was hired to sell tickets, popcorn and sweep out the theater after the shows. It was a sad day for Raymond when the owner had to close the doors in 1956, as television had captured the interest of the movie-going public and family entertainment moved from the big screen to the snowy black and white screens in a wooden box.
Cecil Smith’s roller rink on the outskirts of town was another popular hang out, and Ray’s next intense pursuit was to become a proficient skater. Again, he was able to wrangle a job from this interest, and at the rink he would help adjust patrons’ skates for nickel and dime tips. Other job opportunities were taken as opportunities arose building fences, hauling hay. On each job Ray tried to follow his parents’ advice to always “make a hand”, as they said, meaning to do your best.
High School came around soon enough, which saw Raymond playing the sousaphone in the band, combing his hair into a duck tail like the cool guys, and spending time at the Dairy Spot consuming hamburgers and shakes while listening to rock and roll on the juke box. Repeated playing wore out those 45 rpm records which necessitated in periodic replacement. Raymond was able to procure a couple of the scratchy Elvis 45s on the Sun label by striking a deal with the representative who changed out juke box records by offering to buy them for 10 cents apiece. On school band trips he would take these Elvis records and a few other popular tunes and a wind-up phonograph and entertain classmates on the bus rides.
Work and leisure pursuits were still more valued than academics at this juncture of Ray’s life and his grades reflected this. Math teacher Billy Phillips, who took time of his own to tutor Ray after hours at Ray’s current job at the service station, finally tired of the lackadaisical results and said to him, “Raymond, why don’t you just quit school and get a job? You’re just wasting your time and mine.” That admonishment from a caring and dedicated teacher, followed by a summer FFA trip to Yellowstone National Park spurred adolescent Ray to seriously ponder his future. His attitude turned from apathetic to serious. He began seeing education as a pathway to a more productive and satisfying life. He started “doing his best” as his parents had long advised. English teachers Nellie Burchfiel and Janelle Homer taught him that grammar and logic could be fun to study, and Ray’s interest was piqued. As he began applying himself in school, Principal and Social Studies teacher Bynum Smith awakened an abiding interest in history. Class sponsor Gloria Phillips regularly encouraged all his endeavors. Junior year, in addition to working at the Sinclair Station, he began studying seriously and achieving in other areas of his life; he was a cast member in the class play and his name was on the Honor Roll. Senior year he played lead in the one act play, The Bishops’ Candlesticks which subsequently won a superior rating at State Competition. At the end of Senior Year, the school faculty honored him by naming him “Mr. Saint Jo High”.
A few months later, Ray tossed meager belongings into his 1946 metallic green Chevy and headed south to enroll in college. Money was tight so he planned his course work to finish his degree in three years. In 1963 he graduated with a major in English from The University of North Texas, having fulfilled the prophecy of his fourth-grade teacher Mrs. Ritchie.
One of his college teachers was named Miss Angel. It was in this class that he met Cecilia, his future wife. He was fond of saying to her “an angel brought us together.” Shortly after college graduation, Ray reported to San Antonio for Air Force Officers’ Training School. He and Cecilia were married on December 19, 1964 and moved to South Dakota for his first duty assignment.
Ray’s Air Force career would see him, Cecilia and children Greg, Audrey and Laura move frequently and live from one coast to the other. Moving between duty assignments was always an adventure as the family camped along the way to the new destination. One momentous journey from California to Michigan involved a circuitous 3000-mile route, visiting friends and family along the way, with bare essentials, a tent, camp stove and three preschool children (with their two more-or - less patient parents) in a Volkswagen Bug. The frequent moving brought with it a plethora of geography lessons, friends made and memories to treasure.
Raymond’s U.S. duty stations included Ellsworth AFB in South Dakota; Vandenburg AFB and Norton AFB in California; Carswell AFB in Texas; Omaha Nebraska as ROTC instructor; and Washington D.C. to work in the Pentagon. (By the way- remember those Sun label Elvis 45s young Ray bought for 10 cents? Thirty years after acquiring them he would sell them to an antique dealer in Washington D.C. for $100 each. He occasionally would express regret at selling these). Fields that Raymond worked in included; communications, audio visual, resource management, instruction and logistics. Foreign duty assignments included Commander and combat cameraman in Thailand, and various duties in the Philippines, Panama, Vietnam, and Turkey. Decorations and honors received in the Air Force included the Bronze Star, Meritorious Service Medal with two oak leaf clusters, Air Force Achievement Award, Expert Marksmanship Ribbon, Outstanding Unit Award for Valor and National Defense Service Medal. From the Republic of Vietnam, he was decorated with a Gallantry Cross, Campaign Medal and Honors Medal First Class.
After 23 years of Service, Lieutenant Colonel Ashley retired from the Air Force and moved back to Montague County, the paradise he remembered from boyhood. He and Cecilia settled in Illinois Bend and built a home on acreage, planting pecan trees and starting a garden. He may have travelled the world, but he was most content inthe rural area of his youth among former classmates and friends. He would speak fondly of the people of the town that raised him for his remaining days.
Ray had a strong sense of duty and desire to give back to the community and people who had taught him early life lessons and planted the seeds of possibility in his fertile young mind. He was quite active in retirement; he helped restore the local 1893 School House to serve as a Community Center and gathering place, he mowed the cemetery, trimmed trees, planted iris and daffodil in public places and even restored the old store/ gas station at Illinois Bend for his personal use, with the help of master carpenter John Gaston. Ray accepted invitations to give presentations, give speeches at local political rallies, club meetings, cemetery dedications and Veterans’ Day observances. Extensive reading and research led to writing about local, county and regional history. Biographical articles about local personalities were printed in several regional newspapers.
When Saint Jo needed a new schoolhouse and the old three story one was slated for demolition in 1993, Raymond saw a need to preserve the memory of both the current school and its predecessor, colloquially known as “Knowledge Knob”. Extensive research resulted in documenting both the school histories and stories of old time Saint Jo citizens in a book he titled Old School Scholastics: A History of Education in Saint Jo, Texas 1872-1922, published in 1995.
Yearning to continue learning, Ray decided to go back to school. At Midwestern University he taught American History while completing Masters’ degrees in both English and History. Major historical papers resulting from his coursework at Midwestern include: North Texas Frontier Revisited: Two Men Named James Defending the Texas Frontier 1846-1865 Mixed Loyalties in North Central Texas During the Civil War (including an account of the great hanging in Cooke County) Settlement of Red River Boundary Dispute Between Texas and Oklahoma
Ray was a serious man and accomplished much in retirement, but he did take the time to play. In the spring he enjoyed fishing in the Red River, and once had the thrill of catching a 70 lb catfish! He and Cecilia planned frequent road trips generally centering around historical sites and areas, and managed to travel through 47 of the contiguous states.
He and Cecilia enjoyed international trips to England, Scotland, Israel, Jordan and Russia. Ray would often have to purchase an additional suitcase and pay for extra luggage to get books home that he had procured on his travels.
The year his garden produced giant sized turnips, Ray was asked to be Santa for an elementary school Christmas party. After hearing that all the children had been good, he decided to seize the opportunity of already being in a Santa suit. He drove around town knocking on the doors of senior citizens he knew. After hearing assurances of their goodness, he handed each one a prize turnip. No one recognized him, not even his own parents!
Raymond’s movie and record collection provided him hours of entertainment. His preferred music and films were the old classics. The ideas depicted in them matched the values he was raised with that influenced the direction his life took. Truly an old soul from a bygone era, he completed modern tasks using old tools and technology. He tried his hand at using a computer but was more confident using his old Re*****on typewriter and Ever sharp pencils. He continued to enjoy vinyl records over more modern methods of listening to music for the duration of his life.
A lifelong learner, Raymond studied at University of North Texas ( BA English), Black Hills State University, Michigan State University ( MA in Radio and Television Production), University of Nebraska at Omaha, Midwestern State University (MA History, MA English), and Kings College in London.
Striving to help others learn, (and perhaps somehow pay back those kind and patient teachers of his youth that saw his potential) he taught at Alan Hancock College, University of Nebraska at Omaha, Midwestern State University, and Wayland Baptist.
Raymond had memberships in many organizations, among them: Montague County Historical Commission, West Texas Historical Association, Retired Officers Association, Illinois Bend Community Club (Trustee), Illinois Bend Cemetery Association (Trustee), and several honorary organizations for history and English, Phi Alpha Theta and Sigma Tau Delta. Civilian honors came from the Montague County Historical Commission in 2008 for his dedication and contribution to Montague County, and more recently Saint Jo High Ex- Students Association who inducted Ray into the Hall of Fame posthumously in 2025.
Ray strove to retain and pass down the values of his pioneer ancestors. Perhaps he saw these same values in the historical figures he enjoyed studying and in the local citizens he wrote about. Ray shook hands with Generals and Presidents and wrote speeches for Senators. But in his heart, he was always a country boy who treasured the simplicity of rural life and never forgot the contributions that blue collar workers make to keep the country running. When faced with a problem he never said, “I can’t do this”, rather he said “how can this be done?”.
Raymond was preceded in death by a son, Gregory Wayne Ashley, a nephew, Joshua Simon Ashley, and parents Noble and Velma Ashley.
Survivors are his wife of 60 years, Cecilia Boyd Ashley, daughters Audrey Bolton and Laura Laing, grandchildren Crystal Forward and husband David Forward, Jamie Laing, Samuel Bolton and William Bolton, great grandchildren Ariel, Jesse and Lilah Forward, a brother Melvin Ashley, niece Jennifer Cox and nephews Justin “Gus” Ashley and Jason Ashley, several brothers-in-law and sisters-in law as well as numerous nieces and nephews on the Boyd side of family, and several cousins on the Reed side of family.
Memorial donations may be made to: Illinois Bend Cemetery (512 Dowd Road, Saint Jo Tx 76265), Illinois Bend Community Club (9991 FM 677N Saint Jo Tx 76265), Saint Jo Library (P.O. Box 517 Saint JO Tx 76265), or Easy Street Animal Shelter (P.O. ox 237 Saint Jo Tx 76265)
A Memorial for Raymond will be held November 15, 2025 at the Illinois Bend Schoolhouse at 2pm.

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