Mai Holistic Healing LLC

12/08/2025

Update: ⚠️𝐊𝐄𝐄𝐏 𝐀 𝐋𝐎𝐎𝐊 𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐅𝐔𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐄 𝐆𝐈𝐕𝐄𝐀𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒. 𝐈 𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐍 𝐓𝐎 𝐃𝐎 𝐒𝐎𝐌𝐄𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐒𝐈𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐑 𝐎𝐍𝐂𝐄 𝐀 𝐌𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐇🎉

🎉𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐍𝐊 𝐘𝐎𝐔 to everyone who participated for a free reading!

Because of the overwhelming number of entries, I decided to select two additional winners.

𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨:
Vang Mai Kou, Vaj Lis Lucy, Paris Vang, Faith Yang, Bowah Yaj, Kalia Yang, and Pamala Southammavong.

💌 Please send me a DM with your email so I can send your report before or by 12/31/25.

12/03/2025

❌❌𝐂𝐋𝐎𝐒𝐄𝐃❌❌

✨𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲✨

I’m choosing 𝐟𝐢𝐯𝐞 people to receive a personalized reading on what 2026 will look like for you. I’ll tell you the themes that will shape your year and the parts of your life that will stand out.

You don’t need to provide any personal information. Even if you use a fake name on Facebook, it’s fine. Energy doesn’t lie.

✨ 𝐓𝐨 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫 ✨
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Giveaway closes on 12/7/25 12 PM CST. Winners will be announced the following day. Each reading will be completed and sent out by 12/31/2025.

Thank you to everyone who supports me, recommends me to your friends and family, or shares my posts. It means more than you think. This work isn’t just a business for me. It’s my passion to learn, teach, guide, and share the experiences I go through so anyone who is struggling knows they’re not alone.

12/02/2025

𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐂𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬

One of my students had mentioned to me she struggles because she doesn’t have clients or people to practice on. Working hands-on is where she and a lot of people learn the most. That made me think back to when 𝐼 first started.

I didn’t have clients either. I didn’t have a mentor, a teacher, or a xifu to verify anything for me. All I had were a few people that were more experienced than me, my guides, and 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓. So without even realizing it, I became my own client.

I practiced by reading my own energy, tuning into my own experiences, and experimenting with what I felt guided to do. When something worked for me, I applied it to the few clients I eventually received and that’s when the confirmations came. Not every reading or insight was perfect, but each one taught me something and helped me build trust in my abilities.

So if you’re new, don’t have clients, or feel like you have no one to verify your intuition, 𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞. Read your own future. Read your own energy. Test your own insights.

When you are practicing on yourself, pay attention to who is speaking. Notice the tone, the feeling, and the energy behind the message. Not every prediction I made for myself was right. Some were misread because I did not have the experience to understand what I was picking up. Some were 100% wrong because my wounds and unmet needs were speaking louder than my intuition, or because fear and old beliefs influenced what spirit was trying to show me.

But the ones that did come true were always the ones I doubted the most. They were the ones that felt too “crazy” or too unbelievable. The ones I disregarded. Those are the ones that taught me how to trust Spirit and discern between the voices.

🌱 𝐀 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟:

1️⃣ 𝐌𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. Choose something simple like:
“What energy will show up for me this month?”
“What unexpected moment might happen in the next few weeks?”

Write it down and check back later.

2️⃣ 𝐃𝐨 𝐚 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐧. Ask yourself:
What’s my current energy right now?
What lesson am I working through?
What guidance do I need today?

Watch how it plays out in real time. That’s where the learning happens. And remember, it’s OK to be wrong. You’re still learning.

11/20/2025

𝐔𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞 7:56 PM CST:
🛑‼️𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐂𝐋𝐎𝐒𝐄𝐃‼️🛑

𝐏𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞

Your energy is naturally drawn to certain numbers, objects, or words for a reason, so choose the one that pulls you in first. Do not overthink it. The one you pick is the one meant for you.

Comment the one you choose. I will reply to your comment with a message meant specifically for you.

Here are your options:

11/19/2025

𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨 𝐬𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠?

A question I came across that made me reflect on how easily we assume that people with spiritual titles or “wisdom” have their lives together. But like anyone else, they share only what they want others to see. No one sees the full story, the fears, mistakes, or patterns they’re still working through.

A shaman isn’t protected or exempt from normal human challenges.

Many people on spiritual or healing paths have complicated histories. Their insight usually come from what they’ve lived through, not from being above everyday problems. You can learn about rituals, ceremonies and healing tools, but actually living them usually requires real inner work, and that can be uncomfortable. Enlightenment doesn’t come from having an easy path.

When someone is rising and awakening, their awareness becomes heightened. They start recognizing their wounds, boundaries, and needs. That alone can change the dynamic of a relationship. Some partners adjust. Some don’t. Sometimes one or both people realize they were connected to an older version of each other. People grow and change, with or without a spiritual calling.

Many healers used to be people-pleasers or peace-keepers, but not always. Awakening may give them the courage to stop over-giving or to finally look at things they’ve been avoiding. But awakening can also bring confusion, big life changes, or even avoidance disguised as spirituality aka spiritual by-passing. So it’s not always that a partner “can’t keep up.” Sometimes the seeker changes too fast, becomes unbalanced, or their values constantly change in a way the relationship can’t keep up with or handle.

Awakening doesn’t cause divorce or create new problems. It exposes the ones that were already there but ignored, buried, or tolerated. It shows whether a relationship has the foundation and the capacity to support someone who is changing and figuring out who they’re becoming.

Not everyone is meant to walk every chapter with you. That’s just life.

11/17/2025

𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲, 𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧?

I came across a post asking this and it is a fair question because you can see this happening across many cultures and backgrounds not just within the Hmong community.

It helps that women have more freedom now to talk about their spiritual experiences and more communities that welcome them. This creates space for them to step into roles they might have kept quiet in the past.

Another part is personal growth. Many women are learning to trust their voice, their purpose and their intuition. When someone reaches that point, they naturally become someone others feel comfortable going to for guidance. It is not because they were assigned the role. It is because their lived experiences help them relate to people in an honest way. And some no longer need a partner to start or help them on their journey.

But I don’t think this rise is only about gender. It also reflects what people are searching for. People want authenticity and healing that feels personal and lasting. They want someone who listens, understands and cares. Anyone who can offer that becomes important in a world that feels heavy and confusing.

Women are meeting that need now because their voices are being heard, their gifts are supported and their light is no longer something they have to hide. Our rising is part of what the world needs, even if some of us are still figuring out who we are and what we are capable of.

11/13/2025

“𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐚 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐮𝐩 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠?”

I came across this question yesterday, and yes, a shaman, psychic, tarot reader, and intuitive reader can lie. They can exaggerate, misunderstand, or misread what they see or feel. They can also mix in their own experiences, fears, beliefs, cultural background, or assumptions without realizing it.

Someone who hasn’t worked through their own fears or ego can accidentally project them into readings. For example, they might see a dark presence and interpret it as a curse or something evil when it’s actually shadow work, grief, sadness, depression, or an old memory coming up to be healed. Fear shaped how they saw it.

Sometimes they can unconsciously adjust a message to sound comforting or to match what the client wants to hear. It’s not always deceit. It can be a human impulse to help or to avoid causing distress. Other times, it can be the opposite. Instead of comfort, they instill fear.

Spiritual messages are usually symbolic. A vision of a person surrounded by water might represent emotional healing, not a warning about drowning or staying away from water. Without experience in reading energy or interpreting symbols, it’s easy to take things too literally (or symbolically) and miss the meaning.

This is why discernment matters. Not every mistake made is intentional. Sometimes it happens because the reader is unsure, untrained, or still learning. Reading, sensing, and interpreting energy takes time and practice.

𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠. 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.

As an intuitive and psychic reader myself, I also know that messages don’t always have a direct human translation. I have to use words to describe something beyond words, and meaning can get lost in that translation. Spiritual messages also don’t always refer to the present moment. It could be a message about a future possibility or an energy that’s still forming.

In the end, spirit communication isn’t about who’s “right.” It’s about tuning in, staying honest with yourself, and trusting your own discernment. The clearest guidance comes when you notice what truly resonates within, not just what you’re told.

11/11/2025

💫𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐁𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞?

A client who recently became Reiki certified asked me if Reiki brings abundance. She noticed that since starting, she was getting more customers at her regular job.

I shared that abundance isn’t just about money. It is about feeling supported and fulfilled in all areas of life. Abundance can show up as income, new connections, inspiration, opportunities, or meaningful experiences. The interesting part is that it usually appears in ways you do not expect.

As your energy rises into a more creative frequency, your actions feel more inspired and alignment becomes easier to recognize. You begin to attract what you need without forcing outcomes.

This is where greater awareness comes in. The universe does not always work in linear ways. Instead of thinking 1 + 1 = 2, 𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒗𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒄𝒊𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 understands that 1 + 1 can become infinite.

This is why alignment matters. When your energy, intentions, and actions move together in the same direction, the universe has a clear channel to support your growth infinitely ♾️ beyond what you could imagined.

Choosing the path of healing and embracing the role of a healer is one of many ways that can bring you into that alignment. Follow what inspires you, keep growing, and stay open. The universe will meet you there✨

11/10/2025

𝐃𝐨 𝐒𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐃𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 (𝐨𝐫 𝐔𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬)?

Some people say their spirit guides tell them not to or will get “punished.” Others notice they feel off or even sick when they do. So what’s really going on?

🍻𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐃𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐒𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞

Alcohol can weaken energetic boundaries, allowing emotions and suppressed parts of ourselves to rise to the surface. That’s why people sometimes act differently when they drink. It shows what’s still unresolved underneath and can lead to choices that does not align with their highest-self.

If someone carries pain, anger, or insecurity, alcohol can bring those emotions up in amplified ways. Sometimes mirrored or influenced through other people or surrounding unhealed spirits.

When your guides discourage drinking, it’s a form of protection, not punishment. They’re protecting you from repeating unhealthy cycles and embarrassment you sometimes feel the next day from the behavior or choices that were made the night before.

💊𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐃𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐬 𝐓𝐨𝐨?

Yes. The same guidance can apply to drugs, whether it’s ma*****na, psychedelics, or other substances. These can open the mind and shift consciousness, but they can also lower your energetic boundaries or magnify what’s unhealed.

For some people, these experiences can bring insight and healing. For others, especially those carrying emotional wounds or instability, they can stir up fear, confusion, or delusion. In that state, it’s easy to mistake ego, projection, or trauma responses for spiritual truth.

When your energy is balanced and your intentions are clear, you’re less likely to lose yourself in the experience and more likely to grow from it.

✨𝐒𝐨 𝐃𝐨 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐛𝐢𝐝 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬?

Not exactly. They may discourage you to stop when it could cause harm, but it’s rarely a permanent rule.

In the end, the lesson isn’t about alcohol or drugs. 𝑰𝒕’𝒔 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇.

That’s the real purpose behind the guidance.

11/10/2025

✨ ᑕEᒪEᗷᖇᗩTIᑎG ᗩ ᑎEᗯ ᖇEIKI ᑭᖇᗩᑕTITIOᑎEᖇ!✨

I’m so proud to share that one of my clients has just completed her 𝐑𝐞𝐢𝐤𝐢 𝐋𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥 1 & 2 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 ! Whether in person or from a distance, her healing energy is truly powerful.

Please take a moment to 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐠𝐞 and reach out if you feel called to receive healing, guidance, or energy work. Your healing journey will also help her deepen her own understanding and connection to this work.

As she continues to grow and explore where this path will lead, let’s hold space and be patient as she builds confidence and strengthens her connection with her spiritual team.

The world needs more light, and she’s already shining so bright.

I’m beyond grateful and excited to share that I am now Reiki Level I & II certified through Mai Holistic Healing LLC!

Energy healing has opened my heart in ways I can’t even describe, and I can’t wait to continue sharing this light and helping others along their own healing journeys. 🌸

11/05/2025

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐨𝐧𝐞?

Ever gone to Target for one thing and walked out with a cart full of stuff you didn’t plan on buying? Maybe even forgetting what you went in for? Dating can be a lot like that. You tell yourself you’re just looking, but somehow you end up in the checkout line with more than you need. It’s easy to get caught up in what catches your attention instead of what actually fits your life.

Most people say they want a good relationship or a good partner. But when you ask why, the answers usually sound like what we were taught: get married, have kids, live happily ever after…that’s success.

So we chase it. We look for love from a place of emptiness, hoping someone else can fill it. We stay in situations that drain us, sacrifice our peace, and call it love…sometimes even calling it being “selfless.” But is it 𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓𝑙𝑒𝑠𝑠 or 𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓-𝑎𝑏𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑜𝑛𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡?

And after all that, we still end up feeling unfulfilled. Some cheat, some settle, and some find themselves single again, wondering what went wrong.

I used to think love could heal everything if I just found the right person. But it doesn’t work that way. Eventually, the things you haven’t healed will find their way back to the surface.

A relationship won’t fix you. But real love can give you the safety to heal. It can hold your hand while you learn to heal yourself. It can walk beside you while you keep being 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟. And that kind of love, the kind that 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖, 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 is the kind of love we all deserve.

That’s the difference.

Wanting a relationship comes from longing for something to fill the void. Being ready for one comes from already knowing who you are, what you need, and what you can give. One comes from emptiness, the other comes from wholeness even if there are still parts of you that are healing.

11/04/2025

There’s a certain post going around and IYKYK. What caught my attention wasn’t the videos, but the comments under them.

“If I hadn’t gotten hit, I would’ve been worse.”
“I deserved it. I was a naughty kid.”
“After that slap, I never said or did it again.”

Comments like these show how normalized this has become in our culture. Many don’t recognize it as abuse or unhealthy discipline because it’s what they grew up with. That was me too.

Being hit, getting a knuckle to the head, or spanked doesn’t teach discipline, it teaches that laying hands on someone is acceptable.

Physical and emotional abuse leave lasting effects, even when you can’t see them. This is why so many struggle to understand the roots of their reactions, fears, and coping mechanisms. They're still responding to old wounds.

It teaches children to fear rather than respect, to believe their worth depends on obedience and silence. It creates adults who struggle with boundaries, trust, self-worth, and emotional regulation because they were taught that love comes with pain. On the outside, they seem fine, but inside they carry unprocessed hurt.

𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬, 𝒘𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈. You didn’t deserve to be hit, yelled at, or humiliated. You were a child learning how to navigate life. You needed guidance, not punishment.

Discipline is about teaching, not hurting… helping children understand consequences while still feeling safe to have big emotions instead of suppressing them. A child who fears their parents learns to comply, but a child who feels understood learns to trust and grow.

If you ever catch yourself saying, “I turned out fine,” ask yourself did you really? Or did you just learn how to survive? And how has that survival shaped the way you love, trust, or see yourself today?