11/27/2025
So if you find yourself feeling anxious for the holidays, you are certainly not alone. Here are a few steps you can take to prioritize your mental health during this hectic season:
1. Accept Your Feelings
The holidays can bring up a range of emotions for people. Sometimes you can even experience seemingly contradictory emotions all at once. Try your best to acknowledge and accept your emotions rather than place judgment on them. It’s OK to feel happy; it’s OK to feel sad; it’s even OK to feel both happy and sad. Give yourself compassion and allow yourself to sit with whatever you’re feeling.
2. Maintain Healthy Habits
For many people, the holidays lead to a significant disruption of their day-to-day routine. But maintaining healthy habits like going to therapy, getting enough sleep, and exercising are critical to keeping your mental health on track.
3. Set Boundaries
People like to be generous during the holidays, but that generosity doesn’t have to come at the expense of having healthy boundaries. If hosting an event or buying an expensive gift is too stressful, it’s OK to say no. It’s also OK to limit the time you spend with family with whom you may have a complicated dynamic.
4. Make Time to Connect
Connection and meaning are critical to our mental health. Make time for your meaningful relationships and connect with yourself through self-care. You can even connect with loved ones who are no longer with you through a family tradition or a personal remembrance ritual.
Learn about why the holidays can be so stressful, and what you can do before, during, and after the holidays to navigate that stress. Join us on Thursday, December 18, from 12:00 to 12:30 pm to talk about this. Register here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/GQXB94OsQ2i8ii53ywji0g #/